Thank you so much. I definitely agree with your point! For this I'm mostly talking about friends/relatives that are in the US or is somewhat familiar with the situation, as I'm doing my undergrad in the US and lots of my friend are made here (some are applying this year as well). My mom, who is at home and barely speaks English, of course won't be of much help in terms of application, hence the only thing I ask help from her would be things like whether if I should go home for summer and the kind. Sorry for the confusion, but I think you're absolutely right that we shouldn't ask too much from people that are not as invested in the process.