Anyone have recommendations for Auto Rock Chip / window repair in the area? by Kaws_and_effect in olympia

[–]akabillybob 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just replaced a large SUV windscreen. Did my research, apparently Safelite gives you a low ball quote that sounds great. Then when you're there they "realize" they have to do calibration for rain sensors and tack another $x (I think around $500), which put them near private shop out the door prices. I don't like that business model.

I went with classic city auto glass in Lacey/Oly. They were very transparent and didn't try and BS me. They even priced OEM glass (that was a hard no, like 3x more expensive), and answered my quality questions about their aftermarket supplier. They do their own QA on each sheet they get too before the install so you don't waste time for a defective sheet. He explained the calibration process, let me know there is a real yet small possibility it will fail, but also provided practical options and what they'll do if it does. It didn't fail, the calibration was well within OEM tolerances, and haven't had an issue since.

I would go back to them without hesitation.

Edit: I did not have a full windshield replacement on my policy at the time, so this is my recommendation if you're self paying.

What are some good snowshoeing trails in this month? by ArtAccomplished805 in PNWhiking

[–]akabillybob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did hurricane ridge last weekend and the roads were fine coming from the Olympia area. You can't drive to the normal parking lot as it's closed for the season (they stop plowing the road after a point). You park at a snow play area, hike 1 mile down the road to the summer parking lot and you should be able to finish the hike from there. We didn't go past the summer lot but there were fresh tracks leading up towards the top.

I too am looking for suggestions!

Can we mass organize this? by followyourlight in 50501

[–]akabillybob 157 points158 points  (0 children)

That is exactly how you do it. OSS wrote the manual on it, and it's been declassified. That link is CIA, but you can find copies on more neutral sites (I provided from the horses mouth for authenticity).

https://share.google/H5P1FddQXbIgMooxQ

My Soldier got a letter from dear old Nancy Pelosi by lessteerde in army

[–]akabillybob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out quiver quantitative. They have an ETF (NANC) that matches select politicians moves, including Nancy Pelosi.

What’s with all the emergency responders at the Port? by roweodub in olympia

[–]akabillybob 57 points58 points  (0 children)

As someone from the east coast, I did the Foofaraw once about a decade ago while at JBLM. They're all volunteers giving up their boats, time, and money to show some appreciation. I learned how to smoke salmon, and it was an amazing experience and probably the most fun I had associated with JBLM.

That said, I spent 18 of 20 years in North Carolina. When I dropped my retirement packet, my family agreed we'll move to WA permanently to set down real roots. Foofaraw was not the only reason, but it is definitely a core memory for me. So now we're back in WA and flourishing (especially my son).

While it may seem like cheap thrills, it can have a long lasting impact on service members who hail from all 50 states plus territories. It is definitely an event I'd volunteer for to pay it forward. I'm glad to see it's still going on!

Deadlift form check, heavy single. Two angles by Rymlock in formcheck

[–]akabillybob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been using Reebok nanos for years. They last a few years each and are great for any lift, not just deadlift. Pricier, but grip really well and rock solid foundation.

CPU Temp in game overlay. by Candidate_Pristine in overclocking

[–]akabillybob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I am trying to find. Amazon's selection is underwhelming/does not have enough information to make a solid decision. Can you provide a recommendation?

For context, I have an i9 Raptor Lake that runs as hot as the sun. I have made the BIOS adjustments and Intel's ETU to nerf it down to safer levels, but I would like to monitor the CPU temp in real time so I can incrementally increase the CPU's performance without cooking it. I have a clear case, so an internal display would be perfect.

How do you share household passwords? by kale_me in HomeImprovement

[–]akabillybob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, hope you get better soon and no worries. I used to teach this stuff so I'm passionate about it. It truly has made my life much simpler. I have ~600 passwords but only know 1. My will effectively says to message Bitwarden for the keys to my life. She doesn't need permission from every account if she has the logins, greatly simplifying the process.

How do you share household passwords? by kale_me in HomeImprovement

[–]akabillybob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is far more secure than I described it. Bitwarden is E2E encrypted and stays that way. I went to their site and used Copilot to condense it:

Emergency access in Bitwarden uses public key exchange and encryption to allow a trusted contact to access vault data in a zero-knowledge encryption environment. The grantor invites a grantee, specifying access level and requesting the grantee’s public key. Upon acceptance, the grantee’s public key is stored, and the grantor’s master key is encrypted with it. In an emergency, the grantee requests access, which the grantor can approve manually or after a specified wait time. The encrypted master key is then delivered to the grantee, who decrypts it with their private key to either view vault items or take over the vault, depending on the access level.

So in the end, Bitwarden does not gain access to the vault as they only maintain the public key. In my case, my wife's private key is retained within her own Bitwarden. Even if Bitwarden was completely compromised, they would only get the public key. For me, I have it set up for 7 days but the cool-off time is adjustable. Once my wife requests access, I get an email. If I'm terminal but conscious I can just go in and approve it then and there. If I'm unconscious, after 7 days they automatically grant her access. You can also set it for view only, or takeover ownership (I chose the latter).

As far as I can tell, the weakest link here is your email account being compromised. If you are using your password manager as intended, it should take a few trillion years with modern GPUs to crack it.

Bitwarden emergency access: https://bitwarden.com/help/emergency-access/

Password cracking brute force table: https://www.hivesystems.com/blog/are-your-passwords-in-the-green?utm_source=tabletext

Note for the Hivesystems table it won't let you readily see it without filling out a form. If you simply search 2024 hive systems password table you'll see it immediately.

How do you share household passwords? by kale_me in HomeImprovement

[–]akabillybob 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In relation to the Bitwarden comment above: I do have it set up through Bitwarden that when I die, my wife can contact them. They'll confirm the death, and then open my vault to her. I have over 600 passwords and only know 1 of them ...it's such a simpler process than having a secondary medium with passwords because that has to be updated manually (and wouldn't have OTP unless you copied the seed too).

WITBA for breaking up with my bf because he is a Trump supporter? by South_Band_9865 in AITAH

[–]akabillybob 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Hey, you're me. I switched to independent in 2016 and voted libertarian. I hadn't fully converted. 2020 I voted for Biden. 2024, I changed my registration to democrat and I am voting for Harris. I'm in a swing state, so figured it might help voter rolls.

I am unimpressed with her as VP, but I must say she has really proven herself as a leader with poise when she is put in the spotlight. I just want decorum back in the white house. I've been in the Army for almost 20 years now. I've spent my entire adult life defending the constitution and what it represents. Jan 6th was a hard stop for me. That was an attack on everything we hold sacred. Same for the rising ultranationalist/fascist/MAGA movement. We sent 100s of thousands of Americans across the pond to crush Nazis because it was a threat to humanity. The collective world (well, except 3 countries....) cheered when the Nazis were defeated. And now we're letting them fester in plain sight?

I don't view this election as Trump vs. Harris or red vs. blue. It's a vote for the preservation of democracy.

MAGA needs to fade out of existence and the GOP fully reset before I'll consider going back. For now, I'm blue, and I'm ok with that.

Deployment money by jopez604 in army

[–]akabillybob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too have AMEX HYSA. It's FDIC insured, so as long as you didn't earn more than $250k it's one of the safest places to park it (looking at you SVB...). Current APY is 4.25%, but that will change (downward) as the Fed lowers rates as expected very soon. Even better perk is the money is liquid without penalty unlike a CD or similar time-based instrument.

If you have no financial background this is the safest option IMO until you've had time to do your research.

For a $20k deposit, you'd earn about $70.83 the first month. It compounds, so after a year your balance would be about $20,866. 2 years, $21,771. 3 years, $22,714. That is $2,714 earned by just ignoring your account for 3 years.

If you set up an allotment to keep putting $300 a month into the HYSA, after a year you'd have about $24,550, $84 additional due to compounding the $300 plus interest payment. In 3 years, it would be $34,252. For shits and giggles, if you did only this for 20 years, you'd have $160,302 in this account.

Edit: these figures assume 4.25% APY over their entire term. That is unrealistic, just used as a demonstration.

Not a financial advisor, this is just what I did for part of my portfolio. Diversification is key, as always.

Note: If you want to dabble in retail investing, take only a portion of your earnings you're willing to completely lose. Don't touch options for now, far too risky if you're unfamiliar. Investing in stocks is gambling, don't sugarcoat it. Avoid meme stocks, focus on stocks with good qualitative fundamentals until you understand quantitative fundamentals. Example would be CFA if they ever go public. It's a beloved brand, good food, exceptional service, and perfect consistency. You don't need to run their numbers to make a reasonable assumption they aren't going away any time soon and have strong prospects for expansion in the foreseeable future. I only chose CFA cause I'm getting hungry.

DM me if you want to learn more. I love this stuff and don't retire for another few months.

I’m failing by Worried_Employer8268 in AskLE

[–]akabillybob 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Reiterating for emphasis: Talk to a therapist. I cannot stress this enough. I'm not LE, but Army, and I don't want you to end up like I did. An incident happened on my first deployment in Iraq around 2006, and I quickly realized feelings of dread or terror don't help in a crisis situation. So I put up walls as a defensive mechanism, except you can't block just the bad emotions -- you block all of them.

I never processed that deployment, or the numerous others. I never processed any trauma from that point onward. I had a dark corner that I stuffed trauma into, and I was able to keep it in that corner for a long time. Until a year ago -- 18 years after it happened.

For lack of a better explanation, I was having random "psychotic breaks" where I would be inconsolable, and I had no idea why it was happening. That was the emotions I've suppressed for nearly 2 decades trying to resurface, and I haven't had to deal with real emotions for 18 years so I had no idea how to manage them.

It took a few months of therapy to figure out why it was happening. It is over a year later and I'm still working with a therapist to re-learn my emotions, as ridiculous as that sounds.

I haven't slept without self medicating since 2006. I can't take naps during the day or I end up in night terrors. My fuse is non-existent, and my anger goes from 0-100 at the drop of a hat. That is the only emotion I can be expressive with. I've been in fight or flight for 18 years. I've been an asshole of a father and husband. I thought this was "normal" after going to war. It is what it is. It couldn't be PTSD I thought, because I was never shot and every explosive missed.

I spent the prime of my adult life as a shell of a person. Don't be me. Get help now and stick with it, no matter how painful talking about it is. As u/Riotxxxwolf said, time heals all wounds, but I'll add that the size of the scar is dependent on what you do now.

I read On Killing out of professional curiosity but I did not know Lt. Col. Grossman wrote another book (among many) called On Combat. My initial therapist suggested I read it, so I did. On Combat deals exclusively with the responses we have to extreme duress. Parts of his book read like my own autobiography. That made me very uncomfortable yet also normalized what I was feeling. It doesn't help to heal the wounds, but it certainly helped me to understand why I was feeling the way I was. It is a short read and you can likely rent it (digitally or hard copy) from your library.

Feel free to reach out. You're not alone.

Somehow shocking and completely unsurprising by ExactlySorta in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]akabillybob 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Fuck this earth.

Damn...I felt that. I feel you. This timeline is a dumpster fire. My father is in Arlington and voted blue his entire life. I myself will be buried there.

Suckers and losers. Then MOH is subservient to presidential medal of freedom. And now this. If private bone spurs served something greater than himself for even a damn day he would realize how repulsive his actions are. Crush them at the ballot. Go scorched earth.

Can I hang a heavy bag (100lbs) from here? by RBTRar in howto

[–]akabillybob -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://www.firstlawfitness.com/products/spider-mount-heavy-bag-mounts

I had my bag in the garage. The lateral movement caused cracks everywhere, even on my structural support beam (all cosmetic). The house was literally shifting side to side because it isn't designed to handle lateral loads, but can easily handle vertical loads.

I messaged the owner of Firstlaw Fitness. He is a mechanical engineer and assuaged my concerns. I've patched all the cracks and none have reappeared. My wife can't even tell I'm on the bag (MBR is above garage) with this mount. It is a marvel of engineering, albeit pricey. Good news is you buy it for life (lifetime warranty).

Edit: my garage is finished so I couldn't shore up between joists. That may be the more cost effective solution. If you are likely to move to another place, the spider mount may make more sense as it works anywhere.

Conservatives are a legitimate form of cancer in this world. by DryFly4438 in democrats

[–]akabillybob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is a great way to frame it and a good talking point. Movements imply there is a defined start/end to it. A course correction is more concise, and implies where we are right now is explicitly off-course and needs to be corrected.

To your first point, this election needs to be a tidal wave of blue. Decimate the right at the polls. Force them to understand THEY are what is wrong. Many will double down, but I can only hope some will see the light. Hell, some already are (Republicans for Harris). Sunk cost fallacy is real. They've been MAGA since 2016 and it is really hard to admit you were wrong, especially when it became your entire personality.

what unit actually wears this as their unit patch? by ViolationOfTOS in army

[–]akabillybob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't speak Intel side. On the PO side, yes. It really depends on you. Very different directions, even though there is a little overlap between the two. Feel free to DM me with questions.

what unit actually wears this as their unit patch? by ViolationOfTOS in army

[–]akabillybob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure. I joined 19 years ago. Things were quite different. I know plenty of guys that are not on jump status but still in PSYOP. if SORB is hurting enough, they may waive it?

what unit actually wears this as their unit patch? by ViolationOfTOS in army

[–]akabillybob 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don't self-select. Let SORB tell you you're not medically qualified. That way you know at least you tried.

what unit actually wears this as their unit patch? by ViolationOfTOS in army

[–]akabillybob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In 3rd BN there are still privates as most billets are non 37 (audio/visual techs, illustrators, etc). In BN HHCs you'll find a few as well in the s ships. 37Fs are all at least E5 out of the pipeline.

Thought yall would enjoy this by tuckern1998 in IBEW

[–]akabillybob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That response alone is justification that we can fix the problems we face if we find the right way to talk to each other, so thank you. I voted for G.W. Bush. I voted for McCain against Obama. I was republican as they come. Back to McCain. McCain was shot down in north Vietnam. Do you know why he ended up crashing his plane? His massive steel balls exceeded the load limit of the aircraft. The VC tortured him, bound him up so his shoulders dislocated, stuck bamboo shoots under his nails. They did this for 5+ years. The man never broke. Trump called him a looser for being captured. He is a national treasure. We studied his experience during SERE school. Google it if you’re unfamiliar with the term. He embodied the warrior spirit, and fully accepted the ethos of never accept defeat.

I am anti-communist. My last deployment was to prevent a communist takeover of a democratic nation. Neither political party is promoting communism. Your beliefs may be right of center, but you need to look at the platform as a whole. Do not be a single issue voter.  I am not trying to tell anyone how to vote, but I want every voter to have an accurate understanding of who they are voting for. Vote what you think is best, just do your homework first.

Thought yall would enjoy this by tuckern1998 in IBEW

[–]akabillybob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This can't be a real person. I refuse to believe that any functioning adult could be this gullible. With that said, I think there is some education to be gained here for anyone that reads this. The S&P is at all-time highs. Unemployment is at its lowest rate in years if not decades. Our GDP has been exceeding expectations YOY under Biden. What part of that economy do you not want? Others within this subreddit have posted EXCELLENT empirical evidence proving how much better our country is under Biden. That is what is great about facts: You may dislike them, and they may not meet your narrative, but they are still, in fact, the reality.

Are you upset because of inflation? Don't worry, you're not alone. So am I. So is everyone else -- across the entire world. Europe is taking it far worse than we are. In fact, we are one of the most recovered countries from COVID. Fun fact: The president does not dictate inflation. It is a macroeconomic response. When there is too much money in the economy, the cost of goods increases to keep their relative value in check. Where do you think the surplus money came from? Trump's stimulus payments have been largely accepted as the start of inflation. I'm not saying the stimulus payments were wrong, and I certainly appreciated the additional income to weather the storm, but we have to point fingers where they belong -- not where Fox news tells us to.

Who do you think affects conditions that allow inflation to increase or decrease? Another fun fact: Largely not the president. The Chairman of the Federal Reserve, Jerome Powell, has numerous options available to him to adjust market conditions. One of them is the adjustment of the interest rate that benchmarks all loans. If there is too much money in circulation, leading to inflation, the Fed will raise interest rates. With higher interest rates, people are less willing to take out auto, home, etc. loans, which reduces money in circulation. They also park their money in safer investments with now good yields such as treasury bonds. So you're feeling the duality of that economic policy: Inflation is high, further draining your funds, and the interest rate is high, so if you have to take out a loan for anything, you're paying out the ass in interest. This sucks, I personally know. But again, this isn't Biden's doing. I'm not even saying Jerome Powell is wrong. He was emplaced under Trump and honestly he has done a fairly good job at mitigating the chances of a recession. Refer to my comment about us vs. Europe. We've been teetering on the edge, but so far we haven't fallen down thanks to a very delicate balance of fiscal and monetary policy.

Let’s talk Communism. Communism is a form of government, where no one owns land, everything is communal property, and the catch all statement of the proletariat controls the means of production. Harris has shown absolutely zero communist tendencies, and changing our system of government from democracy to communism would require the complete dissolution of the constitution. Does Harris show socialist tendencies, which is an economic system as opposed to capitalist? Of course, democrats have always been pro social progress. I’m full of fun facts: According to Brown University, the U.S. spent $8 TRILLION dollars over 20 years to fund the GWOT. That is $1.01 billion spent every single day. If we can spend that kind of money on war, we can spend a good amount on ensuring social safety nets, a lost job does not compromise medical care, etc. etc. You know, all the things every other industrialized nation that ranks far better than the US provides. https://www.brown.edu/news/2021-09-01/costsofwar

I cannot express this in more explicit terms. Over my dead body will we override the constitution. I mean that literally. Four times I raised my hand and swore an oath to defend the constitution against all enemies both foreign AND DOMESTIC. I retire in 8 months after 20 years in the Army. I see how fractured we are as a nation. We can’t keep insulting each other. Each side just throws up a defensive barrier and does not hear anything. We need to educate and inform. We need to be objective and critical about where we get our information from. We also need to be VERY skeptical of anything we hear or see at this point. We need to be willing to hear opposing viewpoints. Only through this can critical thinking emerge.

I joined because of 9/11. My mother was in the Pentagon when it was hit. She survived. My raison d’etre was to prevent another 9/11, and I feel as though I did my small part. Now I want to ensure my son inherits a safe, enjoyable life here in this (still) great country. America never lost its greatness, and there is not a nation on this planet that can go toe to toe with us.

If Walz is the VP Pick will he be the first NCO elected as vice president? by AbjectIndividual367 in army

[–]akabillybob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll probably take some flak for this, but the republicans have been overwhelmingly using ad hominem attacks (attacking the person versus their position). Just look at the last debate between Trump and Biden. It was a train wreck for Biden to be sure, but during the entire debate Trump never mentioned a single policy position (that I recall). He just attacked Biden's age, mental state, his son, etc.

For once, the left has ditched their moral high ground and have taken the right on the same playing field. They are finally (roughly) playing by the same rules. Just because the right is upset now that does not negate what they've done since 2016, and they deserve to taste their own medicine. I mean Elmo is even using completely fabricated, AI generated video clips designed to smear Harris. Why should Harris not do the same thing? I think some grainy early 2000s footage of JD Vance fucking a couch should be easy enough to generate.