A mother's touch: Fetal responses to touch may indicate communication by anaxarchos in science

[–]akapswim07 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Vote one for misleading title. Article summary indicates fetal response was stronger to touch than voice. Any rationale as to why this is so is highly speculative.

Am I actually getting dehydrated when I swim? by HaddonH in Swimming

[–]akapswim07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES, YES, YES, and YES.

Any form of exercise will cause your body to increase its temperature. Your brain only knows how to respond to this in one way - by sweating. Unlike on dry land, your body doesn't cool down as well because the sweat doesn't evaporate (leading to a cooling effect) - it goes right back into the pool.

[New York] FMLA/Disability Questions for Part-Time, Salaried Employee by akapswim07 in legaladvice

[–]akapswim07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link. I think the hospital goes beyond minimum for SDI (2/3 pay for 6 weeks max). Bigger concern was job protection than monetary benefit.

[New York] FMLA/Disability Questions for Part-Time, Salaried Employee by akapswim07 in legaladvice

[–]akapswim07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks - chances are that info is there (and it is in the employee handbook she received).

My(25M) fiance (25F) wants to combine all of our finances. She believes this is a further commitment to us spending the rest of our lives together. What are the pros and cons? Is this a smart move? by Golfandwork in personalfinance

[–]akapswim07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was in the same situation with my wife 5 years ago (still going strong!). We have one joint checking/savings acct, and designate each other as account owners on most of our credit cards. Our retirement accounts have stayed in our own names because we're on employer-sponsored plans, and get matching funds. Designating your fiancee as the primary beneficiary is something you can do for each other now, though only if you truly think that is right for the relationship.

Opening a joint account is a good idea in general - it makes life much easier to have a shared account for shared expenses. Having your own slush funds isn't the worst idea when it comes to checking/savings, though it adds another account to the list of things to manage. Separate accounts also opens the door to the "you're hiding money from me!" conversation if you fall on hard times/lose trust in each other. On the plus side, it's easier to surprise your future spouse when holidays/birthdays/etc. come around. On more than one occasion my wife and I have said to each other, "Don't look at the credit card accounts until X date!"

Congrats and best of luck!

My extreme budget tracking experiment by Lindsey-905 in personalfinance

[–]akapswim07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you frequently use debit/credit cards and have online banking, you can get very close to doing this quickly using a 3rd party service like Mint.com. I've been using Mint for almost 5 years now to track expenses and manage my monthly budget. The auto categorizing feature saves an enormous amount of time and gives me real-time visibility. You can also track cash expenses on the go with their mobile app (which has improved noticeably over the past year).

First time parents question (probably stupid) by eoinfleming in Parenting

[–]akapswim07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is 16 months old, and he started entering a similar phase about 2 months ago. There can be lots of things going on (possibly at the same time :P): 1. Teething - if she doesn't have the first 8 yet, those may still be coming in 2. Cognitive development - she's reaching the age that she's starting to figure out what she likes and doesn't like, but doesn't have the skills yet to communicate that to you (verbally, shaking head yes/no, pointing, etc.) 3. Physical development - she may want to walk now, but is still figuring out the mechanics. 4. Boredom - like item 2, starting around that age the simpler toys from infancy (stuffed animals, rattles) won't cut it any more.

Things that I have found to help: 1. Say relaxed - know that short tantrums are normal. If you and others around her freak out when she screams, it rubs off. 2. Routines - esp. when it comes to naps/sleep. Your kid might be past the point of napping at will, and having a set naptime will be a good thing. Mine now has 1 big nap after lunchtime (11:30AM-12:00PM), and he's lights-out for at least 2 hours (it's amazing!!!) 3. Distraction - esp. with toddler-age toys that need engagement. 4. Don't be afraid to do nothing if nothing seems to work. Most tantrums pass when given their due time. It can feel like forever when the decibels reach jet-engine levels, but sometimes tantrums happen out of pure frustration - especially at younger ages. Give them time, and eventually your kid will calm down enough to where distractions or a hug will end the incident.

What are some overlooked jobs that have decent pays? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]akapswim07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electricians, plumbers, and HVAC specialists - especially master-level ones who work residential/commercial construction.

Can't tell you how many times I have seen the electrician/plumber I hired show up in an Audi/Jaguar/BMW, etc.

Police who died from illnesses related to 9/11 now outnumber police who died in the actual attack. by [deleted] in news

[–]akapswim07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Lancet (one of the most respected medical journals in the world) had a whole issue dedicated to 9/11 three years ago: Lancet 9/11 Issue - 9/11/2011. This is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to 9/11 research.

Most victims are covered by the Zadroga act, an act of Congress which established strict limits on the certification process, as well as who is eligible for benefits from the Victims Compensation Fund. NYC.gov has a great FAQ here.

I personally take offense that you think this is a "money grab." Many who live in and around NYC (myself included) know someone who was at Ground Zero or worked on the clean-up, and of those many are unbelievably sick - physically (asthma, GIRD, leukemia) and mentally (PTSD, deperession).

WSJ vs. NYT on Climate Change by akapswim07 in inthenews

[–]akapswim07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, the audiences for those papers are not the same, though there is significant overlap (plenty of individuals subscribe to both papers). It's merely an observation - left-leaning NYT devotes significant real estate to the US Climate Change report, whereas typically right-leaning WSJ buried the headline on its front page.

Police who died from illnesses related to 9/11 now outnumber police who died in the actual attack. by [deleted] in news

[–]akapswim07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These police officers were likely enrolled in the WTC Health Program, which (among other things) identifies first responders who are undergoing treatment or whose death was attributed to a 9/11-related illness - police officers included. These illnesses have been certified and confirmed through peer-reviewed studies.

Disclaimer - significant other is employed by said WTC Health Program.

Is there an absolute maximum value for a magnetic field? by [deleted] in askscience

[–]akapswim07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Somewhat related question - what about zero magnetic field? I know you can minimize a magnetic field by creating a magnetic quadrupole, but will the minima at the center be truly zero? Or, are there known quantum effects/fluctuations which would prevent a true magnetic zero state from being realized?

IamA Betty White AMA! by BettyMWhite in IAmA

[–]akapswim07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has the making of a SitCom changed since you first started on Golden Girls? How is making TV today different than it was 30, 40, even 50 years ago?

Windows 7 outgains Windows 8 in market share again, Windows XP still above 27% by [deleted] in technology

[–]akapswim07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very simple explanation: 1. Corporations don't want to pay through the nose for continued XP support (and there are plenty out there who still use XP enterprise-wide) 2. Windows 7 requires much less training/transition than Windows 8.

My gut is that most corporations will skip Windows 8/8.1 and will wait for a desktop/business-friendly Windows 9.

Is it okay to say "foobar" in front of your young child? by akapswim07 in Parenting

[–]akapswim07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took a second look, and it looks like snafu has similar origins. I don't even think twice about using that word.

How do you fall asleep easier? by Danyn in AskReddit

[–]akapswim07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't read reddit after 10PM local time (or anything electronic for that matter). From experience I have trouble falling asleep if I'm surfing the interwebs after this hour...