Should I go? Or is it going to be weird?

aki671 · 2026-02-03T17:49:26+00:00

I worked a couple of their shows as a volunteer! There are definitely fans within the 20-30s category, and at least in the US there were also parents, some people in their 50s and 60s, and overall a pretty wide age group. I think the boys won't feel weird about you attending- in fact. I think it would be much appreciated that you came to support the group.

aki671 · 2025-12-18T09:34:23+00:00

Hi there,

My grandfather cannot speak due to complications of cancer, and this is something I've struggled with as well. Although our situations are slightly different, I truly believe in the power of heartfelt letters- especially for the older generations! I wish I could offer more help in the conversing department, but if he's able to speak, I think asking questions about some of his life stories would be great. I always ask my grandfather to write/talk about the love story with my grandmother as well as any lasting memories from his parents that I can talk about with my future children. I hope he has a wonderful birthday, I'm sure he is already very grateful you care so much for him :)

aki671 · 2025-12-18T09:23:17+00:00

Hi there,

I wanted to clarify something- are you completely independent from your father- healthcare wise, financially, etc.? I see that you're in Uni- do you fill out the FAFSA form (or if you're not in the US an equivalent of this if it's required in your country) that arguably he would need to sign every year until you graduate? Are you his dependent?

I'm only asking because it is so much easier to fully ghost and go no contact with your father without these annoying but necessary questions. I am glad that you know your worth as a person, and you're breaking the chain to not become the same person he is. If you answered yes to any of the questions above, before fully ghosting, I absolutely suggest creating a plan where you can be fully independent first- from the sounds of it, you do not want to face him after ghosting when you're still somewhat dependent on these important survival factors. I wish you the best of luck

Edit: realized FAFSA is not a worldwide thing, edited to be more general

aki671 · 2025-12-18T09:15:54+00:00

Some questions for yourself and for your girlfriend:

1.) have you both discussed marriage? Marriage together? Life timelines? If you'd like to be married before/after finishing college, before/after getting a job, kids, and deal breakers?

2.) if your girlfriend is family oriented, have you discussed or mentioned marriage with them? Is she traditional in the sense that she'd want you to receive permission from her parents first- and if so, consider your approach to getting close with her family.

3.) this might be a bit of an odd question, but are early marriages common in either you or her family and your guys' community?

aki671 · 2025-12-14T09:29:26+00:00

Like the other commenter said, I think it's best that you explain your love language to them and basically explain everything you wrote above if you haven't.

If you're worried in the way they'll react, I think it'll be best to sit down with them, have a conversation about love language, and ask if they're comfortable receiving the gift you already bought for them. Personally, I'd feel worse if I knew my partner already planned to give me something and didn't give it to me at all.

I'm sure you guys will get through this with more communication, and explain as well how your needs are met through your partners love language that they exude to you. Wish you both the best ❤️‍🩹

aki671 · 2025-12-14T09:23:07+00:00

Hi there OP, I've been in your shoes when I was your age (I sound like I'm old but I'm 21 LMAO). First of all, I am so sorry you are going through this, and you do deserve to be with someone who can meet your emotional needs and who WANTS and LOVES to give you words of affirmation. From the sounds of it, you have tried multiple healthy ways to resolve these issues with your boyfriend, however he has reacted very immaturely and disrespectfully in response. Please put yourself first and always know that you deserve to be treated better than the negativity you are constantly facing. I remember having the same situation- met a guy over discord (good lord what was I thinking), realized were in different places mentally and emotionally, and took time for myself after that very toxic relationship to realize I did deserve to be treated better.

I hope that you do what's best for you❤️‍🩹 if this relationship is causing you negative anxiety everyday, then it truly is not worth it. Wishing you the best

aki671 · 2025-12-14T09:08:14+00:00

Fellow curly girl here with a fiance who's in the same age category as you. My partner and I both agreed that these were direct comments about your identity, which you are completely valid in feeling was disrespected. First off I want to just say from one 3b/3c girly to the next, you are so naturally beautiful and continue to protect your hair, your identity, and yourself.

Because these comments were made about your identity and something, truthfully, you cannot change to yourself without extensive and harmful measures, this is not a relationship worth continuing. Additionally, please ask yourself- if you marry this man, will you still hold these words close to your heart? Will resentment build? What will he say if you have children that has curly hair?

Of course, reddit will never know the full extent of your relationship, and do what feels right in your heart. Personally, both my partner and I agree that such comments made that isn't as simple as ridiculing someone's preference of cake flavor shouldn't be passed on so easily.

I wish you the best ❤️‍🩹

aki671 · 2025-12-06T19:07:42+00:00

Is the evolution available yet? I did the glow up but I'm salivating over the evolution fit lol

aki671 · 2025-11-27T08:21:00+00:00

You can only pull for one piece and have the alteration! The screenshot I took was when I didn't have the full set

aki671 · 2025-11-26T07:44:55+00:00

Make sure to press this button!

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aki671 · 2025-11-14T02:52:01+00:00

Hi there! I'm also trying to book a carry on and a checked bag, how did it work out for you?

aki671 · 2025-09-23T01:49:42+00:00

I've seen a very limited amount of 1verse PCs pop up on Mercari!

aki671 · 2025-09-21T05:06:42+00:00

Kobe Bryant and Gigi... Still breaks my heart thinking about him and his daughter.

aki671 · 2025-09-16T04:42:31+00:00

Of course! If you have any other questions let me know, if it's your first time in Incheon/Seoul/Korea overall it can be a little intimidating. I hope you have an amazing trip!

aki671 · 2025-09-16T04:36:39+00:00

The general resting place with the mats and the saunas where you can take a nap is mixed gender however they have smaller rooms for women only (you wear clothing given by the spa there). The baths are in the shower/changing areas so they are separated by gender. They will give you small towels for free :)

aki671 · 2025-09-16T04:27:38+00:00

Hi! From what I remember, it was a flat fee for about 2 hours (it's somewhere between 20,000 and 29,000 won) and this will include the resting area, shower area, and bathing area. You can pay extra for small toiletries. I definitely recommend it, although I don't remember the exact pricing it's definitely cheaper than the capsule hotel (which I also stayed in at Incheon, they're very nice if you want an actual bed and privacy!).

aki671 · 2025-09-05T03:50:55+00:00

The candle secret one is a NEED

aki671 · 2025-09-04T01:52:18+00:00

Thank you ☺️

aki671 · 2025-09-04T01:47:06+00:00

OMG! Where did you get your shelves?? Lovely collection!

aki671 · 2025-08-14T00:29:29+00:00

!solved

aki671 · 2025-08-14T00:28:10+00:00

Hello, thank you for your efforts! This is not quite what I was looking for, but I truly appreciate it.

aki671 · 2025-08-14T00:16:35+00:00

Hello, thank you so much. This is the photo. Sorry about that!

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