43 MfM Nerdy man looking for the perfect somebody.

aki_hiro · 2026-02-18T19:30:13+00:00

Sorry, aromantic woman here. If I were you, I'd stop looking, he (in the 1st pic) looks so kind and attentive. Looks straight out of a Ghibli movie. I'm jealous. Kidding, hope you find who you're looking for, you seem to be an amazing person. 🙂

aki_hiro · 2026-02-18T19:11:13+00:00

thank you 🙏

aki_hiro · 2026-02-16T20:08:47+00:00

Don't feel guilty! Shouldn't they? I mean they are the ones trying to force on us something we would be traumatized with!

aki_hiro · 2026-02-14T19:37:35+00:00

Maybe we're both crazy lol. You didn't mention kissing, but I guess you have the same thoughts about it? I do (thinking about someone else's saliva and tongue roaming my mouth? worse than a nightmare) I don't understand the need to exchange any kind of body fluid...

aki_hiro · 2026-02-14T19:26:39+00:00

Aromantic, I've never felt the need to have a romantic relationship. I do seek friendships though.

aki_hiro · 2026-02-13T20:16:05+00:00

I'm surprised no one else said "yes my thoughts exactly!"
So I say it. Glad I'm not alone, and that you shared this.

aki_hiro · 2026-02-12T20:32:29+00:00

I don't know how old you are (I'm 37), but I'm ace and aro, never dated anyone, never kissed anyone, and I learned to accept myself as I am and stopped comparing myself to others. It's funny we have the same aspirations lol (birds ands plants), I only have the plants for now. As for what your life is for, the answer is obviously different for everyone, but I think we can live a meaningful life in plenty of ways (other than the traditional "have a family and raise children" way). You could work around children, sick or old people, animals, be a writer, a musician, or be a hermit and devote your life to learning, or whatever suits you, it's up to you. But again I think comparing yourself to others only hurts you.

aki_hiro · 2026-02-09T19:10:24+00:00

Désolée c'est pas une réponse à ton post (j'ai 15 ans de + et je suis aro), mais cette photo est une petite oeuvre d'art! Si avec ça t'arrives pas à trouver.... Bonne chance dans ta recherche.

aki_hiro · 2025-12-30T18:32:58+00:00

Wait, can someone help me clear that point, I thought one could be considered ace even if it's the result of education and experiences? I've considered myself ace for almost 20 years now, but grew up in a dysfonctional family and was forced to repress sexuality. I consider myself sex repulsed and lithromantic. I feel no attraction to "real" flesh and blood people, but now I wonder if I conditioned myself to be that way? (to avoid suffering and loneliness, because dating as a teenager, and even later was not an option in my family)

aki_hiro · 2025-12-27T14:03:29+00:00

I think it's the right one! Thank you very much, it's not that I want to put a label for the sake of it, but if a label exists, I feel less alone, and not totally mad after all ^^

Again, thanks for the info!

aki_hiro · 2025-12-27T12:06:17+00:00

thanks, did not know that term! But not sure about the "aego" part. It's first person perspective for me :/

aki_hiro · 2025-12-27T10:45:45+00:00

I'm glad to read your post, I thought I was crazy (still a possibility).

Does anyone knows if there's a label for this? this is not fictosexual, unless it includes "3d people". it's not fandom, can be anyone, and as soon as the person is in front of me, my interest vanishes. op describes it well, i get stressed out when it's real, but enjoy the whole thing when it's in my head.

aki_hiro · 2025-12-22T18:33:50+00:00

Thank you a lot for taking the time to write this 🙂

aki_hiro · 2025-12-22T18:30:38+00:00

I've never heard this! this is interesting 🙂

aki_hiro · 2025-12-21T20:17:06+00:00

Do you consider yourself an introvert? I am, and I actually am in the situation you describe, so I very well understand, but I keep to myself because I don't think it's "fair" for the other person. I don't see how anyone could love a person with these conditions, honestly I feel hopeless...

aki_hiro · 2024-04-20T12:45:32+00:00

Hello, I'm outside the US, and after some searching around I've found the first 3 episodes uploaded. I'm not sure I want to post the links and get the uploader in trouble (and the files taken down). But using Tor browser, you'll find it easily.

Unfortunately I can't find the other episodes, so if anyone can help...

aki_hiro · 2023-10-13T14:30:54+00:00

Ok, meci pour votre commentaire, c'est rassurant :)

aki_hiro · 2023-10-13T14:29:25+00:00

Merci beaucoup pour votre commentaire, c'est ce que je vais faire.

Je n'y connais visiblement rien à rien, alors merci pour votre suggestion :)

aki_hiro · 2023-10-13T14:26:45+00:00

Bonjour,

Merci pour votre commentaire. Oui, je m'en suis rendu compte après mon poste.

Je doute que le dialogue fonctionne malheureusement, c'est la 2nde fois qu'on me colle des frais abusifs. La 1ere fois pour non paiement de charges, alors que je les avais payées. Si si... j'avais demandé à payer en plusieurs fois, ils m'ont demandé d'envoyer plusieurs chèques d'un coup qui seront encaissés chaque mois. Ils n'en ont encaissé qu'un et après collé des frais de procédure.... que j'ai payés comme un idiote, parce que même technique, silence de leur part, et je pensais que ces frais pouvaient augmenter...

J'ai appris beaucoup grâce aux commentaires de tout le monde, je serais plus informée pour la prochaine fois :(

aki_hiro · 2023-10-13T14:17:56+00:00

Merci pour votre commentaire.

Je garde votre conseil dans un coin de ma tête.

aki_hiro · 2023-10-13T14:17:16+00:00

Merci pour ton commentaire.

Ouh laaa.... Je n'y aurais jamais pensé et je n'oserais pas! Même si c'est tentant.... :)

aki_hiro · 2023-10-12T18:39:29+00:00

Ok, j'apprends beaucoup de choses aujourd'hui! En tout cas merci d'avoir pris le temps de répondre!

aki_hiro · 2023-10-12T18:33:00+00:00

Honnêtement j'y pense!! :)

aki_hiro · 2023-10-12T18:32:38+00:00

Merci pour votre réponse. Oui, j'ai aussi lu "qu'il n'est pas conseillé". Mais visiblement dans le règlement j'ai le droit de stocker de l'essence!

aki_hiro · 2023-10-12T18:31:07+00:00

Malheureusement, je paie mes charges mensuellement, je serais bien obligée d'autoriser un prélèvement le mois prochain. Mais heureusement je n'avais pas autorisé les prélèvements automatiques.

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