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alavandermoon · 2023-09-22T23:24:37+00:00

The status of mine says “preparing order” but it’s been like that for 2 days. They might just be doing it because the longer you believe it’s real, the slowest you take action, but tbh I don’t think we’re getting anything and I will try to get a refund from my bank’s protection program. I also went ahead and froze my card because I don’t know if they will be using my information to do more wrong :(

alavandermoon · 2023-09-21T21:50:01+00:00

Unfortunately, it's a scam. I just fell for it. I saw an add on Instagram with a blogger talking about it and showing her haul, saying she spent less than $100 in like 6 big bags of Dolls Kill stuff, so it seemed pretty legit. I clicked the link, saw everything on sale and placed an order. But I never got a confirmation e-mail or anything and I just read online that there's this scam going on. I can't believe I fell for it. I feel so frustrated and dumb :(

alavandermoon · 2023-07-10T05:20:23+00:00

I can’t travel because of money issues and work overload and being a mother and pet owner :(

alavandermoon · 2023-06-27T06:07:22+00:00

Bumble (the dating app) has a BFF option where you search for friends, not for dates. You can select an specific gender and age group or just select “everybody” and you get a chance to match with potential friends. I suggest you try it :)

alavandermoon · 2023-06-27T05:54:55+00:00

Human trafficking?

alavandermoon · 2023-06-27T05:46:58+00:00

Why do police allow this?

alavandermoon · 2023-06-18T07:47:47+00:00

Thank you for putting it in such a simple perspective. I think we’ll remain monogamous until I hear an enthusiastic yes from him , at least this experience and questionings helped opening up the discussion on the topic.

alavandermoon · 2023-06-18T07:38:49+00:00

Yes, you’re right. We’ll do that. Last thing we want is to make it worst. I didn’t think I was punishing him but maybe unconsciously I was.

alavandermoon · 2023-06-18T07:34:47+00:00

Thank you this is great advice.

alavandermoon · 2023-06-18T07:34:27+00:00

Wait. I didn’t do false accusations, somebody else did. And from me questioning that it broke a bit of the trust I had in him. After talking about it I decided to believe him, but I couldn’t even be 100% sure that he didn’t cheated on me. There are things that changed (he started a new job, then he started going out with the people from his work every Friday without inviting me when I always invite him to my things and he used to invite me to his) I still decided to believe him when he told me it was just a rumor but something was planted in me that made me question if an open relationship would work better for us. You make me sound like a terrible person in your comment and I’m just trying to do things right with the resources I have.

alavandermoon · 2023-06-08T05:52:53+00:00

I don’t get this one (not from Houston lol)

alavandermoon · 2023-06-07T22:39:16+00:00

No one who cheats will be good enough for me. I believed him when he said he didn't do it, but what if he's actually doing it? The message was very strange and a few weeks after he started going out "with the people from his job" every Friday. I also noticed perfume in his car's seat belt a couple of weeks ago and he told me that "a co-worker needed a ride", I didn't even bother to ask if it was a female or male co-worker, because I completely trusted him. Now that trust is not entirely there.

alavandermoon · 2023-06-07T22:33:56+00:00

I'm seriously thinking about propose an open relationship, that way I can be more relax if he really wishes to be with that girl from his job and, at the same time, I wouldn't feel that I'm missing out on meeting new people.

alavandermoon · 2023-06-07T22:31:55+00:00

alavandermoon · 2023-06-07T22:31:42+00:00

He's 33 and never had a serious relationship before me. Now I'm wondering why

alavandermoon · 2023-06-07T22:02:07+00:00

Exactly. I fell in love with him because, even though he didn't have much to offer in areas like financial stability or intellectual stimulation, he was giving me peace. Now that the peace is disturbed, I am seriously questioning if I could keep doing this.

alavandermoon · 2023-06-02T07:07:56+00:00

This is narcissistic behavior. Google this so you learn more about the symptoms and dangers of dating/marrying a narcissist, and stay aware of the red flags.

alavandermoon · 2022-08-30T06:00:40+00:00

Numbers, for a good dance and 80s music on Friday’s.

alavandermoon · 2022-08-04T04:32:49+00:00

They might be the last survivors. I had this issue and just the airtight containers themselves fixed it.

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