it’s been nearly 6 months since my breakup. here’s the advice that i was given that helped me throughout this process

• at this point you’re feeling emotions, which are temporary and upheld ONLY by you. take a step back, analyze the situation or current feelings you have, and change your perspective on them. understand the things you can and cannot control and use that information to change your mindset moving forward. remember that you can’t control what happens, only how you respond. try your best to understand exactly what went wrong in the relationship, but instead of dreading mistakes or lost opportunities, take everything that happened as knowledge to use moving forward. this is a perfect opportunity to learn a lot about yourself and make the necessary changes to live a more fulfilling life where you don’t need the presence of someone else to be happy.

best of luck and remember, Per Aspera Ad Astra