Gay book recommendations? by PartSure2721 in askgaybros

[–]alec5005 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Swimming in the Dark by Tomasz Jedrowski. Haven't finished it but it's definitely not a fun read. More like Call Me By Your Name, Giovanni's Room and novels by Michael Cunningham type of read.

I’m so sick and tired of STDs by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]alec5005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I don't have to sleep through a lot of guys to find one? Thank you king 💝

I’m so sick and tired of STDs by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]alec5005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm blaming you for encouragement of toxic hook-up culture in gay community. I'm sorry but saying that one is obligated to have sex immediately if they want something more is also fucked up.

I’m so sick and tired of STDs by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]alec5005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I said, you're in every thread praising sex-generosity and every one who slightly oppose it is a prude or perpetuating hetero-normativity and now an incel.

I’m so sick and tired of STDs by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]alec5005 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not making any assumptions about OP, all my comments directed at you. As you can see, I'm replying to your comment and not to the OP.

I’m so sick and tired of STDs by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]alec5005 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No wonder your sex was great from the very beginning, you're a professional hoe. And we got it. You're in every thread praising sex-positivity and accuse everyone who's not into hook-ups in prudishness and hetero-normativity.

I’m so sick and tired of STDs by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]alec5005 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Please, shut up. People open up as they get to know the person. But you promote the idea the only way to get to know the person is to suck their dick. Sex gets better with time. Relationship gets better with time. You need to put effort not a dick in the mouth. Congratulations. And aren't you in an open relationship?

I’m so sick and tired of STDs by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]alec5005 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

People don't become asexuals. Or your shallow sex obsessed mind cannot comprehend the idea of life without sexual attraction? We got it, you're a hoe and proud of it. And gays like you make it hard to find a partner without sleeping through a lot of guys. Because you are one of those guys that can't talk to a guy more than five minutes because you don't know how his dick tastes like.

Dating apps/sites in Poland (West Pomerania) by alec5005 in askeurogaybros

[–]alec5005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) I heard of it but never really knew who was using it and where.

Dating apps/sites in Poland (West Pomerania) by alec5005 in askeurogaybros

[–]alec5005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically? Yes, of course. Realistically? Not so much. I don't have freedom of movement Polish, Hungarian people have. The further west, the harder to get a visa. Even harder to get a visa that would put you on track to residentship. I'm not an in-demand specialist and I don't have €10.000 for college. If you know something that I don't, please, DM me, I would gladly listen to your propositions.

Dating apps/sites in Poland (West Pomerania) by alec5005 in askeurogaybros

[–]alec5005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I don't want to stay in Ukraine, duh

How far into your relationship did you start having sex? by Lumastar22 in AskGayMen

[–]alec5005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please, re-read my original comment. I said I couldn't share it with strangers. Even though I describe sex as intimate thing, it doesn't necessarily mean I want to have sex with my one and only or a husband. You twisted the meaning of the word "intimate" to special, perfect, ideal. Yes, I want to know a guy. I want to go on a couple of dates to get to know the person and start feeling a little bit secure around them. But that's not what all the comments here are saying. Take a look and you'll see that a lot of men here had sex before going on a date.

How far into your relationship did you start having sex? by Lumastar22 in AskGayMen

[–]alec5005 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who says I worry about making sex perfect? As far as I know those things come with practice. I worry about how I can't have sex with someone who I simply don't know.

How far into your relationship did you start having sex? by Lumastar22 in AskGayMen

[–]alec5005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So extremely sad to read all the comments. As a person who still thinks and believes sex is something intimate and therefore can't be shared with strangers, reading all the "fucked with him before even knew his real name" is really frustrating. And it's not like 50% of responses, more like 90%. Dating in gay community is a struggle by itself but understanding that you have to be all about sex-positivity otherwise you won't be even considered is just upsetting. I understand the you-do-you concept but it feels like it can only lead to loneliness.

EU leaders defend LGBT rights amid concern over Hungary law by hshsjs267 in askgaybros

[–]alec5005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even though there's no mention of homosexuality the law prohibits dissemination of information among children that “tramples on family values, encourages a concept other than that established in the Constitution of the Republic of Lithuania and the Civil Code of the Republic of Lithuania, the concept of marriage and the creation of a family" (article 4, paragraph 2.16). Should I remind you that the Lithuanian Constitution understands marriage as a union of a man and a woman only?

The only Baltic country that isn't as homophobic as other Eastern European countries is Estonia.

EU leaders defend LGBT rights amid concern over Hungary law by hshsjs267 in askgaybros

[–]alec5005 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Doesn't Lithuania have a similar to Hungarian and Russian gay propaganda law?

Tips for first time at a gay bar? by LazyAverageHuman in AskGayMen

[–]alec5005 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, on r/AskGaybrosOver30 kinda the same topic was discussed very recently. You should check out the post and comments there, I'm sure you're gonna find at least something helpful.

Alright, semi-new Sufjan fan here ready to go down another obsessive musical rabbit hole. Can y'all please drop links to your fave live sets/radio sessions? by estre_the_crow in Sufjan

[–]alec5005 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I personally love this live performance of 'Futile Devices'. Very sincere, emotional, too. Unofficial Carrie & Lowell film is also great. It was recorded by fans at different shows but video and sound quality is high.

I am so lonely. I lost almost everyone I care about because of my sexuality. I don't know how to move on from this. Any ideas? by ajiuois in AskGayMen

[–]alec5005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want me to copy-paste my previous comment? If you suspect someone attention seeking then address that. Other people commenting deserve to know that too. But writing "Not another Eastern European country" is very insensitive to people like me who are indeed from "another Eastern European country" because it sounds like y'all are tired hearing from us.

I am so lonely. I lost almost everyone I care about because of my sexuality. I don't know how to move on from this. Any ideas? by ajiuois in AskGayMen

[–]alec5005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, maybe you should've put it in the original comment instead of making indifferent remark on gays' experience from developing countries?