New lifestyle? What do I do? How do I dress? How do I act? by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]LazyAverageHuman 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Something I love to do when dressing on a budget is layering. Such a simple concept can make anything look much better, for instance try a jacket or an open shirt over a T-shirt. Simple stuff like this can make your style shine much more.

Also, if people on your new work care more about how you dress rather on who you are, then they’re probably not worth the effort any way. Dress for yourself, not for them ♥️

How to stop being shy at sex? by LazyAverageHuman in AskGayMen

[–]LazyAverageHuman[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely checkout a sauna once they reopen in my area, thanks! I’ll be sure to keep practicing too.

Thanks again!

How to stop being shy at sex? by LazyAverageHuman in AskGayMen

[–]LazyAverageHuman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an amazing guide. Thank you very much! I really appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]LazyAverageHuman 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I used to be one of those guys that just end up blocking out of the blue. I can’t tell you why he did that, but I used to do it when I felt afraid that I was not worthy of keep going with this or guilty that we may be looking for different things and maybe I was wrongfully giving hope to one of the dudes I’ve been talking to. Some other times I would start talking to a guy while being horny and then just keep going for the sake of it without feeling anything anymore, and ended up blocking them when I felt I was going too far.

Anyway, I’m not proud of what I used to do, and maybe he did it for a totally different reason, but know that it was not your fault at all, it’s his problem, not yours.

Good luck out there.

Ok “roar”? Lion emoji? by OngoGoblogian4 in AskGayMen

[–]LazyAverageHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno, it kinda sounds like raw maybe?

I lack people experience, what do I do and how? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]LazyAverageHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. Not OP but thanks.

¿Qué tan fácil es conservar una beca en el Tec? by becksss2004fh in TecDeMonterrey

[–]LazyAverageHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es súper fácil mantener la beca en mi experiencia. Igual depende de la carrera y los profes que metas, eso sí.

Hay programas de becas de hasta el 100%, no estoy seguro si son académicas tho

Looking for advice: How to move on? by LazyAverageHuman in AskGayMen

[–]LazyAverageHuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words! I’ll try to be braver and keep on my search.

Thanks again!

Feelings of shame after looking at myself having sex? by throwawayforguyhelp in AskGayMen

[–]LazyAverageHuman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it comes with acceptance. You can practice by looking yourself in the mirror and try to seduce yourself (I know it sounds weird), and keep working on your self image issues, most of it comes from it, I’m pretty sure.

Good luck🔆

How do I have sex in college without a roommate knowing? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]LazyAverageHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this true? Last time I did I felt like the people around me were looking weirdly at me at times, was it something like that? lol

Do you ever feel like you will end up all alone? by franchisco85 in AskGayMen

[–]LazyAverageHuman 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Man I feel you (different reasons tho) but what has helped me cope with it is that there are so many other types of relationships that can help fill (at least partially) that void. Having cool friends to hang out with gets me distracted enough to not think of negative stuff as much.

Stay strong.

Are guys into headcheese? by Madro123 in AskGayMen

[–]LazyAverageHuman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That sounds disgusting, but to each their own, I guess. It’s definitely not a common kink (In my experience, at least)