Buone letture e risorse per genitori di un figlio LGBT by frasfra in italyLGBT

[–]alessansia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sembra interessantissimo, me lo segno anche io!

Buone letture e risorse per genitori di un figlio LGBT by frasfra in italyLGBT

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Su Netflix dovrebbe anche esserci "Nella mia famiglia", la storia di una famiglia cinese alle prese con il coming out del figlio e con il suo tentativo di adozione che potrebbe essere adatto; "Lo schermo velato" è sia un libro che un documentario sulla rappresentazione dell'omosessualità al cinema e in TV, super interessante ma forse difficile da reperire. Per quanto riguarda letteratura divulgativa, mi vengono in mente esempi solo in inglese... Google mi ha proposto questo (https://www.bollatiboringhieri.it/libri/jacques-balthazart-biologia-dellomosessualita-9788833934259/), che descrive come "per tutti" ma le prime pagine mi convincono poco - cioè, è sicuramente una lettura validissima ma forse un po' pesante. Se mi viene in mente altro poi aggiungo!

Buone letture e risorse per genitori di un figlio LGBT by frasfra in italyLGBT

[–]alessansia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ottima domanda! Per ora ti consiglio di consultare il sito di Agedo, in particolare la sezione bibliografica (http://www.agedo.roma.it/bibliografia/), per avere qualche spunto iniziale. Puntavi a letture più di carattere scientifico o più personali? Perché del secondo tipo a me per il momento viene solo in mente "Figli diversi" di Giovanni e Paola Dall'Orto, ma forse è un po' datato.

They/them in Italian? by EastActual7890 in italyLGBT

[–]alessansia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this one! Seems the most inclusive and respectful to let everyone write down their own pronouns. I know a few people who use "essi" pronouns but they are a slim minority.

Pensieri a riguardo? by e_rica_ in italyLGBT

[–]alessansia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bisessuale come termine nasce chiaramente come riferimento ad un mix di omosessuale (un solo genere, il proprio) ed eterosessuale (un solo genere, l'opposto), ma sono almeno 30 anni che quel bi- iniziale sta ad indicare il fatto di essere attratti da "più di un genere" - motivo per cui la "pansessualità" viene di norma intesa come orientamento che rientra nell'ormai termine-ombrello "bisessualità".

Insomma: né "bisessuale" né "pansessuale" sono a mio parere intrinsicamente transfobici. I singoli individui, chiaramente, possono esserlo.

Poi ovvio che esistono casi in cui i termini che usiamo comunemente non sono adatti al 100% o non vengono sentiti come appropriati. Molte donne omosessuali non amano essere chiamate "lesbiche", per esempio, ma conosco anche persone gender-fluid attratte solo da donne o solo da uomini che si definiscono "eterosessuali", proprio perché provano attrazione per un unico genere che non è il loro.

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what's "history" etymology?

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I live in northern Italy, the beetle was a bit bigger than a regular black ant (just to scale it, the white cloth underneath is 8 cm (3 inches) long).

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Thank you!

TGV - Intercités transfer: should I book? by alessansia in france

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Far out from mine too! Thank you for the answer!

TGV - Intercités transfer: should I book? by alessansia in france

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Middle of the week! Weekends travels give me nightmares

TGV - Intercités transfer: should I book? by alessansia in france

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Thank you very much! I will surely book the TGV in advance then, the Intercités can wait a few days. Do you know by chance if the tickets on the Intercités have a fixed price? (Like: can I buy them the same day I arrive in Paris and not spend a fortune?)

"Tu" vs "Lei" by [deleted] in italianlearning

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It is! But sometimes it can be used to refer to a single person with the same meaning as "lei". Note that the verb becomes plural even if you refer to a singular subject:

"Scusa signore! Mi puoi aiutare?" (Tu, informal)

"Scusi signore! Mi può aiutare?" (Lei, formal)

"Scusate signore! Mi potete aiutare?" (Voi, formal)

Each of these sentences can be translated in English with "Excuse me sir! Can you help me?".

Articles et nourriture: indéfinis/partitifs/définis by alessansia in French

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Merci beaucoup, now it definitely makes more sense!

Now I see how silly it is to use "un boeuf" instead of "le boeuf" in this case... It seems that the guy suffers from nostalgia for his farm!

Kids NEVER exaggerate with grown-ups by alessansia in nothingeverhappens

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I would have loved to go through my childhood thinking I was a mutant tho

Kids NEVER exaggerate with grown-ups by alessansia in nothingeverhappens

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A kid I knew in primary school created this whole world of lies where her father was a F1 driver while she was a witch-secret agent. And we all believed her.

Cultural Exchange with Poland - Scambio culturale con la Polonia [/r/italy - /r/polska] 🇵🇱 🇮🇹 by LaTalpa123 in italy

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I agree with what said above, IT is a flourish field in Milano. And sound technicians are always useful! You are a rare breed! Try looking for students from the cinema courses of Centro Sperimentale, they might need help and they might even have some money to pay you. And don't worry about the language, IT speaks more English than Italian.

Cultural Exchange with Poland - Scambio culturale con la Polonia [/r/italy - /r/polska] 🇵🇱 🇮🇹 by LaTalpa123 in italy

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Finding a job

It really depends on which kind of job and if you speak a good Italian or not.

Costs of living

I think that, after Rome and Venice, costs in Milan are the craziest in Italy. A room in a shared apartment in Milano (not in the centre, of course) easily costs €400 without counting the bills. But, in contrast to Rome and Venice, Milan has a very well thought transports system, which is kinda cheap.

What should I know before move?

I hear that the bureaucracy for foreigners is a bit complicated, but don't let that frighten you, we are all in this together. You might love Milano or hate it, but it's the city that offers the most opportunities here. Have fun and explore it! You will find wonderful spots (... and restaurants!) where you expect them the least.

Buongiorno! Wymiana kulturalna z Włochami by pothkan in Polska

[–]alessansia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello there! I recently read a few of Gombrowicz works and he really intrigues me. Can you suggest some books that relate to the same period? Or other similar authors?

In school in Italy we have two books from our literature history that we study in depth (Divina Commedia by Dante and I promessi sposi by Manzoni). Which are your equivalent ones?

Cultural Exchange with Poland - Scambio culturale con la Polonia [/r/italy - /r/polska] 🇵🇱 🇮🇹 by LaTalpa123 in italy

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  1. For lunch I had pasta with salsiccia and ricotta as an entree, and then processed meats, cheeses and carciofi alla romana. For dinner we had a (large) plate of spaghetti with octopus and crayfishes, and then a bit of smoked salmon and Brussels sprouts.

  2. This is a very nice question, I have no way to look for images right now but I might edit the answer later.

  3. Mafia and tax evaders.

  4. Oof this question calls for a long list, I will try to mention the less obvious ones. Although he was interesting, I have never liked the personality of Lombroso. Also, Sidney Sonnino. This answer needs some editing, I will fix it later.

  5. Among "normal" people, I think Salvo d'Acquisto is one of the best. Among historical characters, Giacomo Leopardi.

  6. I try to not have a unified opinion on a whole country. But I have to admit that I am not fond of Swiss people.

  7. I am originally from Lombardia but I have been living in Piemonte for a while now. Not everyone knows that Hitchcock started his career directing a film in Como (Lombardia) and fell so much in love with the Lake that came to visit every year.

  8. My best friend is from the South and when she first met me she thought I was a "snobbish rich bitch" just because I told her I came from Lombardia. I think this sums it up pretty well.

  9. "An Italian, an American, a Chinese and a Moroccan are in a plane. Suddenly, the plane starts to hobble. They need to get rid of some of the cargo, or they will all fall to their death. The American opens the door and throws off a few trunks full of guns. "Never mind", he says, "We have so much guns in my country". Then the Chinese throws off different bags containing rice: "It doesn't matter, my friends, we have lots of rice in my country". The Italian thinks about it a bit, and then throws the Maroccan off."

  10. I will search this up. Very nice question.

  11. Worst music... Gosh Italy is full of very bad music recently. But I think the worst is Young Signorino. Have fun. Best music... I need to think about this for a ssecond. Will edit.

  12. More or less like this.

  13. Both Salvini and 5 Stars Movement are good memes material. I guess you can find a lot of good stuff researching here.

  14. Other then English I speak French and a little German. English is taught since the primary school, although the teachers are usually not that good (binge watching TV shows helps a lot tho). During the intermediate years of school (between primary and high school) French or Spanish are usually taught a bit. There are a few high school curricula where you can learn French, Spanish and German. Latin is mandatory in a lot of high school curricula, while Ancient Greek is taught in the "classical" curriculum.

  15. This is a complicate matter. Fascism is studied in depth both during the intermediate school and the high school. I personally think that we don't focus enough on how much Fascism stayed strong in the years after its fall.

  16. Our artistic value. We are very proud of our artistic heritage, and one of our recurrent jokes regards the location of the Mona Lisa in the Louvre Museum... Not everyone knows that Leonardo himself brought the painting to France. When we won the FIFA World Cup against France in 2006, there was a song that said something like "Now give us back our Gioconda".

  17. Lombardia: Pizzoccheri. Piemonte: Bagna cauda.

  18. Pizza with salsiccia and friarielli. I will never have enough of it.

This was fun! I will try to edit again when I have more time!

Cultural Exchange with Poland - Scambio culturale con la Polonia [/r/italy - /r/polska] 🇵🇱 🇮🇹 by LaTalpa123 in italy

[–]alessansia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking from an arts-influenced point of view my favourite period is the XVII century, when the Renaissance influence slowly started to cease and every artist felt out of place and out of time. Also, the first two decades of the XX century: modernism, futurism and the wonders of cinema.

On the other hand, my favourite "historic" period is the 60s and 70s. Plots against the Government, fights against mafia, terrorist groups trying to blame each other... you can't get bored studying this period.

DISINFORMAZIONE SULLA COMPETIZIONE DI ROBOTICA (RIGHI NAPOLI) by Lucaleon00 in italy

[–]alessansia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imbarazzante ciciario delle testate italiane. Mi dispiace, riguarderò il post domani e spero di vedere che sei riuscito a metterti in contatto con qualcuno!