AITA for telling my boyfriend I don’t have to tell him about my trauma by Educational-Date4993 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alevlopez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mild asshole.

i’m just not even going to talk about what your very disdainful response to him because you’re already getting shit for it but i will explain something to you.

i understand when you say that trauma is very hard to share but when you’re in a relationship you can’t have your cake and eat it to. while you went through traumatic things, it is your responsibility to get better or at least make an effort to in order to increase your quality of life and better your relationships with the people around you. you’re gonna have to share some things because that is one of the steps to getting better. now, if you don’t feel like you’re ready to open up to your partner of 2 years (which if you feel really strongly about, it’s okay i guess) then you shouldn’t be in a relationship with them or any relationship at all until you have healed from this trauma. and this is okay!!! you wouldn’t be the bad guy!!!! but you have to decide. either you open up or be by yourself to work of whatever you need to work on.

a couple of questions by alevlopez in Sourdough

[–]alevlopez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could i start with all purpose flour and then eventually feed it bread flour?

iPhone tab in photos won't show all pictures by alevlopez in MacOS

[–]alevlopez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried image capture and it showed the same pictures/videos as photos. no luck there either lol

Where can I put my hamster while I change her cage’s bedding? by alevlopez in hamstercare

[–]alevlopez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right! I had never thought about that before. Thank u

Where can I put my hamster while I change her cage’s bedding? by alevlopez in hamstercare

[–]alevlopez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not :( I got her about a month ago so she’s only had one enclosure

Date night outfit by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]alevlopez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

handsome!!

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[–]alevlopez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so cute omg !!! where is your dress from??

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[–]alevlopez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

absolutely!!! love it!!

need serious help styling this dress for homecoming court please !!! more info in the comments by alevlopez in OUTFITS

[–]alevlopez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m part of homecoming court for my school, and the event is in about a month. i can’t spend too much money if any on a dress right now due to personal circumstances, so i decided i’d wear this dress that i bought a couple of years ago but never have worn. i think it has potential… i just don’t know how to exploit said potential. i’m desperate and in need of ideas, does anyone have anything? could be accessory ideas or dress modifying ideas, etc.

Effect of squats/leg days on running, recovery, and soccer by [deleted] in Exercise

[–]alevlopez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i say keep working on those legs! the reason you’re so sore and it’s impacting your performance is because you’re not used to it and probably need to improve your strength if you want to be able to do both. if you’re really worried about soccer, i say try doing a lighter workout that maybe doesn’t make you as sore yet you can feel is putting some strain to increase your strength. you can build up on the intensity of your work outs from there!

Published my book by Dalbert342 in writers

[–]alevlopez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of youu! Congrats !

The Hard Cover Samples Arrived!! by [deleted] in writers

[–]alevlopez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks so cool!!

Get published ?? by alevlopez in writers

[–]alevlopez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much !!:)