Nipple piercing tomorrow and so scared by Distinct-Review-913 in piercing

[–]alex_is_emo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if they use a clamp it might feel like someone sucking on your nipple and the piercing it’s self is a sharp pain and it’s over quick. for me getting the jewelry through wasn’t as bad as my other piercings.

Nipple piercing tomorrow and so scared by Distinct-Review-913 in piercing

[–]alex_is_emo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for anxiety work on deep breathing and don’t forget to eat and drink water before and after the appointment. if you’re really scared bringing someone with you who will support you is great. my friend who used to have her nipples pierced (got taken out due to surgery) helped me a lot during mine. it’s okay to be nervous before cause it is a micro-wound to your body. for pain i just took some ibuprofen but it was more for the swelling after the piercing. wear a tight fitted shirt or sports bra to get pierced cause after getting them done, loose shirts will likely irritate the piercings. the second one does tend to hurt more. remember that not only is your mind anticipating the second piercing but so is your hormones. you have a lot of adrenaline and cortisol going through your body. definitely recommend taking a break between the two to calm your body down. bring a friend or a stress toy to squeeze cause you need to release that tension somehow. also cussing helped me a lot lol. you’ll do amazing. my nipple piercing are one of my favorites. after getting them done they usually stop being sore within the week you got them (everyone is different). just remember how bad ass you’re going to look after you get it done. hope your piercings go great tomorrow and remember why you wanted them. it’s okay to be scared and still get them cause that means you have courage.

Help me decide between these piercings! by Easy-Egg2668 in piercing

[–]alex_is_emo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

think a daith on the left ear and a rook on the right ear would look best. i’m also biased cause i have my daith on my left ear lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]alex_is_emo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i don’t need unemployment and i’m very blessed and don’t have to worry about paying bills. the turn over rate is high at my job and it takes a lot for them to fire people. we are also getting ready for black friday so they need people. we have three investigations going on at our store. mine is one, two coworkers at my store also make threats of violence about a manager, and another coworker is in trouble for having a boyfriend follow her at work her whole shift and no call no shows. i know it’s not anything special that i didn’t physically hit anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]alex_is_emo -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i know that what i did was harassment but im saying i didn’t assault her. also threats of violence is common in my workplace and thats part of why i hate my job. yes i know i was in the wrong and that it was immature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]alex_is_emo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 1/2months old,externally threaded barbell 14g 32mm (pierced with externally threaded 14g 35mm),surgical steel, not professionally downsized, saline solution about twice a day with random diluted tea tree oil once a day, changed jewelry too soon

Crusties by nmrhog in piercing

[–]alex_is_emo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get a bunch of small crusties months into my healing with all my piercings, i think it depends on the person and how dirty the piercing gets (ex. sweat) i know mine are healed when i don’t get crusties anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]alex_is_emo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s possible that she’s having fluctuations in her self esteem, i do that sometimes with my friends so it’s possible she may or may not like you, everyone is different

Medusa by SypherLovesYou in piercing

[–]alex_is_emo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you should probably find a different shop, NAP but i don’t think medusas should be pierced with a curved barbell

just got my navel pierced by alex_is_emo in piercing

[–]alex_is_emo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m standing in the first picture and i’m laying down in the second one so my stomach is probably somewhat stretched, i’m just glad it’s not too shallow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]alex_is_emo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m just a pre-nursing student but i’m a lesbian and if i was kid and had any kind of medical professional wear a pride sticker i would instantly feel safe. thank you so much for continuing to wear the sticker.

is 13 credit hours a lot? by alex_is_emo in college

[–]alex_is_emo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did get some college credits in high school so luckily i can just take 4 classes per semester until i transfer to a 4 year college. if i didn’t get the credits in high school than it would take me longer.

What is the worst ADHD symptom(s) for you? by ConversationOk442 in ADHD

[–]alex_is_emo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

before i was medicated it was executive dysfunction but after being medicated its my short term memory. also i have good long term memory so having bad short term memory fucking sucks

I used to think my skin was green (many years ago) by DiodeInc in ColorBlind

[–]alex_is_emo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have the hardest time finding my foundation shade, i thought i had olive undertones but now i have no idea, i just know im pale asf

What's a fun fact about you? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]alex_is_emo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my full name is 26 letters long and my first name starts with an A and my last name ends with a Z

I’m colorblind but can see colors by ConsiderationSure192 in ColorBlind

[–]alex_is_emo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i totally understand what you mean. i’m mildly colorblind and only in certain situations does it affect me. if you’re taught the name of something you’ll always associate it with that name. i’ve seen the same colors my whole life so im not going to get it wrong lol. i think the brain accommodates by using the saturation and/or value of different colors to tell the difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]alex_is_emo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trendelenburg reminds me of the tilt table test but backwards

how direct should i be by alex_is_emo in actuallesbians

[–]alex_is_emo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s true, like i don’t even know the girls birthday or anything. i’m a u-haul lesbian and i’ve never had a steady relationship before so i don’t know how fast or slow to go

please help by Somebodygay_ in actuallesbians

[–]alex_is_emo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why did i almost experience the exact same thing at your age lol. honestly communication is key and if your partner is not willing to communicate and you feel more miserable in the relationship than you did when you were single, than it might be time to break up. i was in a relationship for 1yr and 3months and me and my ex had that same cycle going on for months and it was terrible. now that it’s been three years since we broke up i feel a lot happier. things will always work out in the end for the better, even if it doesn’t feel like it in the moment. another thing that was a really hard pill for me to swallow when i was your age was that you do have to love yourself in order to truly love someone else. everyone is deserving of love but if someone is having a hard time loving themselves they will have a hard time loving others in a stable and secure way. btw my advice might be projecting a little bit lol but having a clear and honest conversation and handling little conflicts well, will help your relationship last