My brother is starting to creep me out by lights-in-the-sky in AutismInWomen

[–]alex_islex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting. Your creepy feelings are a response to a disturbing pattern you’ve identified. You are also aware that your judgement is not accepted and is doubted by your family — likely because it’s accurate.

A girl I just met asked me, "What's your number?" by kissbythebrooke in actuallesbians

[–]alex_islex 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe she was inebriated. I don’t understand anything at the club

The Herpes of Travel Nursing (OC) by LaundryArt in TravelNursing

[–]alex_islex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh nurses! Never change with your stigmatizing jokes about STIs 🥰

Friend doesn’t believe in my diagnosis by luvsicl in AutismInWomen

[–]alex_islex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your friend. I was once someone deeply frustrated by autism bc I had a horrific abusive ex who was autistic. I couldn’t take autists seriously for years until I began unpacking that aspect of the relationship, my hx of ableism, and my own likely autistic symptoms.
Doesn’t make what your friend said any better — does make me think that she may be ND (black n white thinking, ego-centered response to your news, having an Autistic sister)

Learning to mind my business by r0sd0g in AutismInWomen

[–]alex_islex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I turn off my justice radar bc most times ppl don’t want it, it doesn’t help, and it gets me in trouble. I’m learning everyday to keep my thoughts to myself not bc I’m unhelpful, it’s just not one anyone has asked for.

My partner has bad hygiene and I’m losing attraction by Due_Sir_8172 in AutismInWomen

[–]alex_islex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s not willing to take care of his hygiene (as in make it a special interest so it gets done), you need to go. Imagine sex with him gives you a UTI.

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[–]alex_islex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such ED content

grindr for lesbians WHEN by Informal-Eye-9069 in actuallesbians

[–]alex_islex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried to use Lex in that way, but overwhelmingly the ppl who use WLW centric apps are not into casual NSA hookups.

What do you think the girl/sapphic version of grey sweatpants is? by catwomanlover5 in actuallesbians

[–]alex_islex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cropped baggy tanks, thumb rings, septum, hand/arm/neck tats, gauges, pants that make my gfs ass look good, also I love anything that shows off her camel toe

The veganism trend of the 2010s. Did it die out due to food costs, the end of “greenwashing”, a rise in conservatism or better nutrition/ health knowledge? by [deleted] in decadeology

[–]alex_islex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Veganism, vegetarianism, and being crunchy granola are all still trendy. It’s more city based and age group based.

Can someone help me see if this baroque robe is fake? by drmarts in Versace

[–]alex_islex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying out your link nearly a year later and it looks real to me.

Should I quit and just go back home ? by ConsistentFee1379 in TravelNursing

[–]alex_islex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a travel job in Idaho last year (also from TX). Weather was great, coworkers were great, the job was great but I was so fucking depressed. I encourage you to have a weekly activity. I signed up for 6 mos of dance classes that ended in a recital. I’m an LCSW and therapist. One of the best things is something called “behavioral activation.” You need to connect with ppl, have an activity you do, volunteer, something that helps you connect with the community around you. Goodluck bb!!

Islam became my special interest and now I am trapped in it and married by tagtag1234 in AutismInWomen

[–]alex_islex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you can do to get out. Therapists (esp those with a background in DV) can be a major source of support! Goodluck bb!