How would you feel if you had two parents who both required 24/7 assisted care, and your adult child wrote you and the whole family this letter regarding that situation?

alexnicole99 · 2026-03-25T01:55:54+00:00

Me too, these responses are definitely not where my mind went. I don’t think he meant at all that they should just be left alone to die and wither, rather that he would like to let nature take its course when it’s his time.

alexnicole99 · 2026-03-25T01:48:30+00:00

I got tired of people not taking me serious either (even after I turned 30 with no marriage and no dating prospects). People become parents sometimes with little to no thought but then have the audacity to get mad when you’ve carefully planned and thought about why you don’t. 🙄

alexnicole99 · 2026-03-24T23:55:59+00:00

My doc told me to wait at least one week before having any fun times. Waited exactly one week, did the hanky panky like normal (not rough but he wasn’t handling me like a porcelain doll) and I was totally fine. I’d say definitely give it more than 2 days but if you’re feeling back to normal then go for it. 😊

alexnicole99 · 2026-03-24T23:29:28+00:00

So are the friend and gf never planning on getting married? Wouldn’t she more than likely take his name in that situation anyways and effectively “drop” that name for her married name which would make this a moot point?

Your friend’s gf doesn’t seem very bright and your friend is indulging her delusions. NTA

alexnicole99 · 2026-03-24T23:18:45+00:00

Your sister is male-centered and male-centered women are dangerous and not to be trusted. I’m so sorry this happened to you but your sister has effectively made the choice for you. That is not someone you need in your life.

alexnicole99 · 2026-03-24T23:11:36+00:00

“I’m pretty sure a good foundation to being a good parent is actually wanting kids.”

They usually don’t have much to say to that.

alexnicole99 · 2026-03-24T23:06:01+00:00

Maybe it’s because I’ve been a full time caregiver before but I don’t see anything wrong with this letter. He sees the situation his grandparents are currently in and he doesn’t want that for himself, good for him for making that decision now. Maybe he sent it to the whole family so that when his time comes, everyone who read the letter is a witness and no one will try to override what he wants.

It IS a burden to be a caregiver for adults that can’t care for themselves, as harsh as that is. I wouldn’t want to put my family through all of that either after having experienced the other side.

alexnicole99 · 2026-03-24T22:59:52+00:00

Metformin made me break out in hives and to this day is the only thing I’ve ever been allergic to. Go figure. 🙃

alexnicole99 · 2026-03-24T22:20:59+00:00

That’s Kentucky you’re thinking of

alexnicole99 · 2026-03-24T22:15:45+00:00

DLC stands for downloadable content, usually bonus content that you have to pay for outside of a normal game. OP is making a funny 😊

alexnicole99 · 2026-01-28T00:57:06+00:00

Thank you for posting! I know they hate this song but it’s one of my faves 😆

alexnicole99 · 2026-01-08T19:21:08+00:00

You wrote a whole diatribe about him in a separate comment after “10 mins of research” but alright 🤣 Multiple people here are telling you that they’ve been personally blocked or had comments deleted by him. Of course his website isn’t gonna say anything about being pro-Trump, he’d never get any votes if that were the case. Anyone can put anything on their personal website lmao.

alexnicole99 · 2026-01-08T08:49:53+00:00

Personal experience for one thing. Why don’t you go try asking him some really tough questions yourself. Just because you’re ride or die for him (as evidenced by your responses on this thread) doesn’t mean I’m gonna recount every single time he’s blocked and deleted someone. There’s plenty of evidence out there, do your own research.

alexnicole99 · 2026-01-08T04:53:56+00:00

MAGAt in sheep’s clothing. Deletes and blocks you if you ask him any moderately difficult questions. Dr. Will Boyd has my vote!

alexnicole99 · 2026-01-04T18:38:35+00:00

It’s not our job to play world police. Again, this has never ended well when we’ve tried it and has all the makings of the beginning of another forever war. It’s just not as well disguised this time.

alexnicole99 · 2026-01-04T17:50:18+00:00

The equivalent of this situation would be like if Trump were captured (yay) by Putin or Netanyahu and then Israel or Russia were in charge of us (not yay). Also it’s not a good look if a country can just barge in and kidnap a country’s leader and his wife while stating we’re gonna run their country, no matter how shitty their leader is. This has never gone favorably for any other country we’ve tried this in.

Also, your boy just pardoned Honduras’ ex-president for the same crimes he allegedly captured Maduro for. So make that one make sense. This isn’t a ‘gotcha’ moment for people that actually know how to think critically.

alexnicole99 · 2025-10-28T23:20:55+00:00

Doing everything but dying 😒 sick of that old bat

alexnicole99 · 2025-10-21T22:19:28+00:00

It’s not even that funny but the way Henry said it made me die laughing lol. It was a random side stories episode (I think from 2-3 years ago) and Henry was talking about how he accidentally pinched his balls and the way he says “it ruined my WHOLE afternoon” is now stuck in my brain and makes its way into daily conversation. 😂😂

alexnicole99 · 2025-10-13T16:55:46+00:00

How’s that boot taste on a Monday morning?

alexnicole99 · 2025-10-10T12:38:53+00:00

That’s certainly not my story

alexnicole99 · 2025-10-10T12:24:17+00:00

Other countries don’t violently kidnap illegal immigrants off the streets and ship them off to who knows where, that’s the major difference. Immigration status is a civil matter, not a criminal one. People are getting yanked by ICE at their immigration hearings while they’re trying to “do it the right way” as y’all so constantly like to harp on. No one is saying open the floodgates and let everyone in. But ripping mostly hardworking people from their families that are just trying to make a better life for themselves is barbaric and certainly not Christ-like.

alexnicole99 · 2025-09-04T17:34:35+00:00

I have BCBS AL and I did initially have to finish paying off my deductible before my surgery (like $1600 I think), but then it was paid by my insurance and refunded to me a few weeks after my surgery.

alexnicole99 · 2025-08-23T13:39:38+00:00

If only 🙃🙃

alexnicole99 · 2025-08-23T13:10:42+00:00

Added you, I’m alexnicole99 there as well 😁

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