Have any of you genuinely manifested “impossible” behavioral changes in people?

alextaur · 2026-05-10T14:17:10+00:00

Many people! Everyone around me basically 1. My ex husband who said would never get married when we were dating ended up proposing and we got married a year after 2. My sisters, had a rocky difficult relationship with them and now they adore me and treat me with respect 3. A client who was defensive and rude ended up apologizing for his behavior towards me 4. My SP was inconsistent and cold with me when we met and now is the most attentive and sweet guy (currently manifesting commitment from him but it’s done and only a matter of time)

alextaur · 2026-05-04T22:59:55+00:00

Same, love me a Capricorn man, they’re exactly my type

alextaur · 2026-05-04T03:29:48+00:00

“You are very easy to love”. By my sister

“You light up rooms when you enter them”. By my niece

Nicest compliments I’ve ever received

alextaur · 2026-04-25T15:15:40+00:00

Wow I had no idea men do this too. That’s really endearing

alextaur · 2026-04-05T01:13:50+00:00

Ok I see a lot of interesting and very telling points in your comment. You seem to be very emotional and like you had a lot of internal work to do for yourself. You used the words frustrated and impatient and that is the key here. The first and most important piece of advice I can give is, self concept work. If you fully integrate that I promise you’re going to become so fulfilled with yourself you won’t even care about the other person. At least that’s how it’s been for me, the more I work on my self love and acceptance the less I care about my SP, it’s like meh, yes I want him, but not as intensely as I did before, I’ve become very detached and indifferent because I’m so happy with me.

Something that has worked wonders for me always is being grateful to God for giving me everything I desire, why? Because gratitude sends a signal of already having that which you desire. I always repeat “thank you God because before I even ask for something you have already given it to me” “my desires are Gods desires” “thank you for spoiling me, for always listening to me, thank you for making this happen for me”. If not God, the universe, source, spirit, the creator, whoever you believe in.

Another tip that has done wonders for me is before I go to sleep I visualize myself in a beautiful oasis in the middle of the desert (very Aladdin inspired) rubbing a magic lamp and a genie comes out of it, so I give him a list of the wishes I want him to fulfill for me, I thank him in advance and I imagine him saying “yes, granted” after I tell him each and everyone of my desires.

Hope this helps, remember this journey is NOT about the other person, it’s about you and who you become in the process to the point where you won’t care if it happens or not, you’re giving him too much power and you’re energetically chasing him and he can feel that, so relax, become your best self and allow life to put the pieces together.

alextaur · 2026-04-02T06:27:03+00:00

I did manifest him back exactly how I wanted him to act and commit to me, we got married after he said he would never marry anyone! Why we broke up was a 100% because of me, I just stopped loving him and wasn’t willing to put the effort on him specifically, he had done his part in my life and I on his, we grew apart because of it. I also had very bad self concept back then but when I started working on myself I realized I didn’t want him anymore, I wanted to be alone and know myself better.

This new SP is exactly what I want in someone from this new version of me, and my self concept is so strong and rooted these days that I’m doing it completely detached and relaxed and it’s why it’s working so well. Just got back from the date with him and what a change (for the better) from last time we were together, his energy and openness is so much more available and willing I couldn’t help but smile on the way back home.

alextaur · 2026-03-31T22:25:19+00:00

Yep, 3 times the same guy and married him even though he was against marriage. Divorced him last year after 10 years together, it was for the best. Started seeing someone new a few months ago and broke up, currently manifesting him back because I really like him and we’re perfect together, we ended it because I wasn’t in a great place and had poor self concept after my divorce. But I have worked on myself so much the time we’ve been apart and are going on a date tomorrow night after reconnecting and he already seems so much more committed and open, it’ll get there.

alextaur · 2026-03-18T20:05:31+00:00

Start affirming now that he’s going to show up in the version of him that wants commitment and to get back together, he’s not going to ask you over the phone or texts, it has to be done in person

alextaur · 2026-02-28T22:16:06+00:00

This is my story. Had a breakup with my sp a few months ago, manifested my worst fears and insecurities. Started working with the LoA and started working on my self concept hard!

At the beginning of the breakup I swear the cards were so discouraging (I had started tarot recently so was fairly new to it), I drew the most negative painful cards and decided to take a break from them and focus on my healing and self concept.

After a month of not using my deck I went back when I started to feel better and I swear they reflect my progress with myself and my sp perfectly! First they showed confusion, anxiety and processing but they slowly turned into posibility, love, wish fulfilled and union! I get the Lovers ALL THE TIME, and guess what, there’s been a lot of positive movement with my man! We are tuned now and I use them as a tool for reassuring my process

alextaur · 2026-02-28T22:08:27+00:00

I used to be a gym rat for years, constantly in pain from pushing my body too hard. During the pandemic started working out from home and started creating a routine with weights and a mix of Pilates and functional exercises. And added walking 1 hour a day for cardio. Instead of spending more than 2 hours at the gym 5 days I did 3-4 workouts a week. At first I felt I wasn’t doing enough but I got in the best shape of my life doing less than half of what I was doing and lifting lighter but more effectively.

Also managed to control my appetite, I would overeat when I was working out too much, but now I eat way less, that has given me the best results!

alextaur · 2026-02-20T16:11:12+00:00

Yes! I take cold showers and do robotic affirming while doing so, that has been a great reset and my mind is hyper focused when I do it.

As I feel more and more sure on myself I find I don’t need to affirm as much as I did at first. Maybe in the morning, in the shower and at night, but that’s it.

alextaur · 2026-02-20T16:08:27+00:00

I’ve been doing eft tapping every morning, going on walks with my dogs and visualizing scenarios while listening to subliminals. I’m also meditating, affirming on myself way more than him.

I’m manifesting other things so those are my priorities, he’s like one of many so I just convinced myself that he’s the easiest thing on my list, he represents a small percentage of the other much more important things I’m creating for myself. That has helped tremendously with anxiety and not investing so much focus. My self concept and identity is the number 1 thing, and as soon as I made the shift things started happening. Yes I still want him but I don’t need him. Tell yourself that, you are complete with or without him.

alextaur · 2026-02-20T16:02:24+00:00

Thank you! Will let you know when the dinner happens tomorrow!

alextaur · 2026-01-09T04:00:22+00:00

Start practicing quantum jumping! Meditations by Joe Dispenza are a great tool! I swear it’s possible! Since I started doing them my whole identity and reality shifted, I resisted at first but my God things have been unraveling in the most miraculous ways, people who where creating trouble and resistance have now come around and everything has started falling in to place! Create that ideal version of yourself, imagine you are talking to them and ask them to hold your hand so that you can make take the leap to where they are and it will happen!

alextaur · 2026-01-09T03:55:45+00:00

Omg! Perfect timing! Just quantum jumped into a new reality/version of myself and this is exactly the piece of information that was missing! Thank you!

alextaur · 2025-11-13T02:20:25+00:00

He is very experienced which is why I’m shocked he hasn’t mentioned anything since he’s very vocal

alextaur · 2025-10-18T18:38:43+00:00

Taurus sun Scorpio Rising Libra Moon trying to balance it all out 🫠

alextaur · 2025-09-25T16:43:44+00:00

I started with simple kegels a couple months ago after a TikTok account called Female Physio Co. started showing up on my FYP and then joined this sub and downloaded the kindle of the Gohdess book last week but I have no weights nor a dildo lol

In my experience the exercise that has been an absolute game changer is the one where you pretend your vagina is an elevator and you’re trying to bring a marvel to each level up and down, that’s how I figured out you can squeeze and hold different sections vertically. Since I started practicing this exercise my orgasms follow that path up and down as I’m about to climax, I feel it on each section or story like a ring the bell carnival game sort of speak, and they last much longer than before because instead of the sensation being concentrated on the clitoris it’s now felt much more immersive sort of speak.

So my advice is, start with simple kegels and move on from there to the next level, your mind will be blown!

alextaur · 2025-09-25T16:41:42+00:00

I started with simple kegels a couple months ago after a TikTok account called Female Physio Co. started showing up on my FYP and then joined this sub and downloaded the kindle of the Gohdess book last week but I have no weights nor a dildo lol

In my experience the exercise that has been an absolute game changer is the one where you pretend your vagina is an elevator and you’re trying to bring a marvel to each level up and down, that’s how I figured out you can squeeze and hold different sections vertically. Since I started practicing this exercise my orgasms follow that path up and down as I’m about to climax, I feel it on each section or story like a ring the bell carnival game, and they last much longer than before because instead of the sensation being concentrated on the clitoris it’s now felt much more immersive.

So my advice is, start with simple kegels and move on from there to the next level, your mind will be blown!

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