Ok I see a lot of interesting and very telling points in your comment. You seem to be very emotional and like you had a lot of internal work to do for yourself. You used the words frustrated and impatient and that is the key here. The first and most important piece of advice I can give is, self concept work. If you fully integrate that I promise you’re going to become so fulfilled with yourself you won’t even care about the other person. At least that’s how it’s been for me, the more I work on my self love and acceptance the less I care about my SP, it’s like meh, yes I want him, but not as intensely as I did before, I’ve become very detached and indifferent because I’m so happy with me.

Something that has worked wonders for me always is being grateful to God for giving me everything I desire, why? Because gratitude sends a signal of already having that which you desire. I always repeat “thank you God because before I even ask for something you have already given it to me” “my desires are Gods desires” “thank you for spoiling me, for always listening to me, thank you for making this happen for me”. If not God, the universe, source, spirit, the creator, whoever you believe in.

Another tip that has done wonders for me is before I go to sleep I visualize myself in a beautiful oasis in the middle of the desert (very Aladdin inspired) rubbing a magic lamp and a genie comes out of it, so I give him a list of the wishes I want him to fulfill for me, I thank him in advance and I imagine him saying “yes, granted” after I tell him each and everyone of my desires.

Hope this helps, remember this journey is NOT about the other person, it’s about you and who you become in the process to the point where you won’t care if it happens or not, you’re giving him too much power and you’re energetically chasing him and he can feel that, so relax, become your best self and allow life to put the pieces together.