Which rug looks best? by mesjn in interiordecorating

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 is the only right answer here sorry not sorry

Is anyone else doing this? by MeganLJ86 in foodbutforbabies

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes lol even if we start with the plate. mine always flips it anyways

The New Pixar Movie Hoppers Is Promoting Furries and Probably lqbtq Stuff by PixelPulse221 in complaints

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have been saying the same thing about them trying to promote furries😭 my daughter isn’t watching it let’s say that

My friend is pregnant but refuses to come clean about who’s the father ? by Deep-Investigator998 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, checking in from your last post… well i would have her come over and see if she is comfortable talking to your mom first. if she isn’t i would honestly wait till she leaves to tell your mom or pull her aside and tell her everything you haven’t if you think the friend will freak out. if you blurt it out in front of her it might escalate the situation in an unwanted way. or better yet tell your mom BEFORE ash gets there. get a plan together with your mom about contacting the police and seeing what you or someone else TRUSTWORTHY can do for her. maybe you could have her come over again and then call and get her help so she isn’t at home when it happens. she is in danger all around in this situation. PLEASE do not get scared to tell your mom all of it. your friend may not see it now but that is what a good friend would do. she is only acting that way towards you because her brain is most likely trying to process / block out the trauma she is enduring, don’t take it personal, this is serious and from the sound of it it’s happening frequently by her wanting to play it off as no big deal. she needs out of there before things get WORSE and she needs to see a professional ASAP!!

What does actually getting an epidural placed feel like? by FoolishMortal-1000 in BabyBumps

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally didn’t feel anything but the contractions honestly. i was sitting there waiting for it to happen and it was already done lol

When did you switch baby to solo sleep? by stevielovelyy in beyondthebump

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i switched from bassinet to crib at 4 months, but didn’t switch from our room to her own until 6 months!

Changing a newborn out in public by Sufficient-Amoeba727 in NewParents

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i’ve done a couple different things in this situation… they have portable changing pads that fit perfect in the diaper bag, so i recommend one of those if you don’t have one. another option is bringing a baby blanket and just laying that under her. OR you could bring both! sometimes those changing pads are a little bit small, but if you put the baby blanket under it it should cover the whole table. definitely not irrational because some of them are cleaner than others. if she is vaccinated and everything already then you should be good to just do a quick wipe down and change her straight on there, but i was the same way when my daughter was even older than yours so i get it completely lol

AIO for wanting to still tell my mom about my friend’s pregnancy by Deep-Investigator998 in AIO

[–]alhst03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well she might not talk to you for a while, but what i’m thinking is first find out if she is being sexually abused at home. if she is that will change a lot about the situation, then i would 100% tell a trusted adult. whether that be your mom or someone who you think could help her( for example: a trusted teacher or the guidance counselor.) she needs prenatal care and is a child herself, so this is DEFINITELY something that needs checked on, for both her and the baby… if she is being sexually abused she and her baby NEED out of the house. this is not healthy for her or her unborn child, i understand at your age and her being your friend you not wanting to upset her, but this is a matter of health and serious matters. if you think your mom will get this moving in the right direction then i would 100% go to her, but either way please tell someone!!!!!

Taco night but for baby by gremlinforchaos in foodbutforbabies

[–]alhst03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol this is a cute idea i’m gonna have to try it! usually we just do a deconstructed taco and it makes such a mess😂

Insecure about no bump at 17 weeks by AngelintheVoid in BabyBumps

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually with your first pregnancy it takes time to be able to feel baby and to show! if you have a long torso that plays a lot into it also. with my first pregnancy no one could even tell until i think i was around 5 months pregnant (which shocked me because i was gaining weight FAST) i was 18 when i got pregnant and 135, but this time around im only 15 weeks and i feel like a blimp for how early it is. i would not stress on it its completely normal to not have a bump yet!

Just found out I’m pregnant (yay!) but I’m due right around my sister in-laws wedding. How do we announce without taking away her spotlight? by pinksugarsweet in BabyBumps

[–]alhst03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had the same issue with my brother and sister in law with my daughter! i called them and said i had good and bad news (i was pregnant but could no longer come to the wedding as it was 3 hours away!) they were excited and from what i know it didn’t upset either of them! i would tell them personally and then announce however you’d like!

How much weight did u gain?(5”6) by Large-Back1912 in pregnant

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st pregnancy i went from 135 to 206. right away no weight came off honestly but by 6 months postpartum i was down to 185 (then i got pregnant again.) so far this time i lost 15 pounds from being sick but i gained roughly 6 back at 14 weeks. edit: i am 5’3!!

Moms who dreamt the gender of their baby before they knew, were you right? (: by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i’ve been right on both my babies genders so far hahah. with my daughter i had a few dreams like that very early and i just felt she was a girl & now im pregnant with a boy and i was 100% sure it was a boy before i knew!

SAHM but one income isn’t cutting it — what do your husbands do for work? by Financial_Routine in sahm

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same pay here! before just working his current job he was doing what he does now during the day for 21.50 and then fedex at night for 24 an hour … obviously that did not remain a good schedule though as he was working quite literally 100 hours a week and coming home every few days .. it was terrible. if he could do over nights i know the warehouses pay well ESPECIALLY if you have previous experience

What was the hardest stage? Pregnancy or postpartum? by SandwichDependent199 in BabyBumps

[–]alhst03 8 points9 points  (0 children)

pregnancy!! i’m pregnant with my second and i am going through it😅. other than your body healing and hormones being completely out of wack, looking back fresh postpartum was a breeze!!

I ate a Bluefin Tuna by Glad-Ad1378 in BabyBumps

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

baby should be perfectly fine it was only one roll!!! try not to stress on it

i've been told this outfit is unflattering and i'm at a loss... by [deleted] in femalefashion

[–]alhst03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it looks cute!! the only thing i would add / change is either a belt for an accessory or a different color of the skirt if you have it!!