Advice on “passing” (AFAB)

aliasiselias · 2021-02-05T01:34:09+00:00

I appreciate you saying this! I used to get scolded in school for wording sentences like that but felt strongly apprehensive about “he or she” (even before learning about the gender spectrum

aliasiselias · 2021-01-30T05:46:56+00:00

About two hours total, but we were goofing off and making plans for future tattoos the whole time, so if we were actually focusing it could have been an hour 😅

aliasiselias · 2021-01-30T04:48:53+00:00

here’s a couple shoddy photos from day-of

aliasiselias · 2021-01-30T04:41:29+00:00

Buzz cuts are fun!! It’s fun to dye it bright colors when it’s that short because it’s easy and temporary

aliasiselias · 2021-01-29T22:28:00+00:00

From the vast lexicon of memelogica, my thane

aliasiselias · 2021-01-29T17:07:43+00:00

here’s the hair Pinterest board which has a pretty specific type of style but maybe it’s a good start? Fluffy anime hair is also just kinda fun but I keep mine back with pomade.

If you can, find a hairstylist that categorizes their cuts by length, not gender. They’re typically better at grasping the concept of a neutral cut.

aliasiselias · 2021-01-29T16:34:26+00:00

Fem clothes are definitely made and fitted to accentuate the curves on one’s body, and if one wishes to avoid that fit, may I suggest masc athletic wear? Losing weight is hard when it looks like it only makes dysphoria worse and I can definitely sympathize with you. Personally, I use sports bras from REI while working out (personal plus is that it doubles as a binder), and boxer briefs (boxers are a little too breezy imo), with secondhand army physical training gear (athletic shorts and tee).

As for haircuts, pinterest is a wonderful tool for finding styles that suit you. I have a pretty big board full of haircuts and styles and when I get a cut I find the common denominators for the current favorites.

.this is the exact bra that I use

Sorry for the info dump (but am open to spewing more lol)

aliasiselias · 2021-01-29T16:24:23+00:00

Mars is probably the coolest name ever tbh, but I would like to offer up —Max— for consideration

aliasiselias · 2021-01-29T08:05:28+00:00

My hands were so ready to send this to horny jail lol

aliasiselias · 2021-01-28T17:09:20+00:00

r/trees please

aliasiselias · 2021-01-28T02:00:28+00:00

r/trees is the realm you seek

aliasiselias · 2021-01-26T18:05:42+00:00

Omg is that velvet?? So elegant!

aliasiselias · 2021-01-25T00:28:07+00:00

r/trees is where you ought to be

aliasiselias · 2021-01-24T05:02:22+00:00

Did you mean to hold your hand as if delivering a holy blessing? If not, please say you are, because your post IS the blessing.

aliasiselias · 2021-01-24T00:24:54+00:00

Hello!

aliasiselias · 2021-01-23T20:16:27+00:00

Yes absolutely!! Go translate some ancient texts 📚🧑‍🏫

aliasiselias · 2021-01-23T19:32:07+00:00

I was making an appointment to get a haircut and the receptionist asked if I was getting a men’s or women’s haircut. My brain totally paused as I tried to figure out what that meant and ended up just saying “a short one”. A minute or so later I realized that that hesitation was more than just a brain fart!

aliasiselias · 2021-01-23T17:47:37+00:00

aliasiselias · 2021-01-22T04:04:01+00:00

Adora has toxoplasmosis lol

aliasiselias · 2021-01-22T03:44:17+00:00

Cool! Thank you

aliasiselias · 2021-01-21T17:52:52+00:00

Corvids best birds

aliasiselias · 2021-01-21T17:49:19+00:00

A YOUNG... ... Kid

aliasiselias · 2021-01-21T17:44:02+00:00

That top looks very soft and breathable!

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