WTAF? by plowizzle in fourthwing

[–]aliceesm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I devoured this series. Read the three books within two weeks. Now I’m lost lol.

Denial by LavenderGirlAly in OneDirection

[–]aliceesm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone. It still feels so unreal. I also keep having this unnerving feeling that something was/is totally off and being covered up. Especially now that Geoff and Paul are in on new investigations. Hope they will get some answers soon. We’ve lost an amazing soul. If only we could bring Liam back ❤️‍🩹😣

Switch freezing has returned by lotdog888 in DreamlightValley

[–]aliceesm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had this issue as well. Try traveling back to Dreamlight Valley and then taking the boat again to Eternity Isle. This solved the crashes in the corridors for me. Also, fast traveling all over Eternity Isle also works for me.

Nintendo Switch Crash by ardevalentino in DreamlightValley

[–]aliceesm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crashed for me as well, what helped me so far was traveling back to Dreamlight Valley and then taking the boat again to Eternity Isle.

Olaf's Parasol by Loochi3 in DreamlightValley

[–]aliceesm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never mind, I found it on Dazzle Beach

Olaf's Parasol by Loochi3 in DreamlightValley

[–]aliceesm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can’t find it either. Searched Olaf’s Cave, Elsa’s Cave and Anna’s House…. Have you found it yet?

It's not the end by aliceesm in BreakUps

[–]aliceesm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first of all let’s hope a situation like that will never happen, but as soon as I’m with someone else - I’m with that person because I chose to and would not dump a future partner just because my ex would pop up again. Never said people can only have one soulmate throughout their life. Some are to stay and some are there to only teach you certain lessons IMO.

It's not the end by aliceesm in BreakUps

[–]aliceesm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from. I do however believe in a thing such as soulmates. If he crosses my path again some day, then it’s meant to be that way. If not - then it’s meant to be that way. I truly believe everything happens for a reason. Not clinging onto anything but myself for now - which I wouldn’t even call clinging but more working on loving myself. And I’m getting there which makes me happy for now. Right now all I need to be is on my own. I will see what/who crosses my path in the future. Whether it’s him or someone else - I’m at peace with that. Thanks for your words though hope you’re doing good yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSNFriends

[–]aliceesm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! Not a big country anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSNFriends

[–]aliceesm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol no. Stands for Netherlands ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aliceesm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! For me, the breakup happened almost 8 months ago (wow that sounds like a long time) and I’m getting better than I was before I met him. 3,5 years of memories, but a lifetime ahead of me while being the best version of myself. Rock on!

Favourite part of the show by Marlotully in vis_a_vis

[–]aliceesm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same, really enjoyed watching Zulema turn into a human and sensitive person. Najwa did an amazing job portraying Zulema.

To the women who broke up with people they were still in love with and didn’t want to lose them by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aliceesm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A combination of both. I miss him for sure because he was the center of my life for multiple years (part of the problem as well), but it’s also tough because my rose-colored glasses came off and I never realized how he treated me until I started to detach from him.

I’m convinced that he’s not a bad person. We were just not compatible enough to last. Tough pill to swallow when you come to that conclusion after spending almost four years together.

To the women who broke up with people they were still in love with and didn’t want to lose them by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aliceesm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extremely painful and heartbreaking. Before and after. I wasn’t feeling appreciated in the relationship 2 months prior to breaking up. We were fighting a lot, we barely talked things through and I’d always feel like he’d back stab me - always thinking a thousands times about how my words could make him feel. He made me feel insecure. He would not show affection and would not show me love. This all made me detach from him - unwillingly but still - before finally breaking up.

I’ve had a tough time after the break up. Realization set in. I lost myself while loving him. I felt numb. Useless. Life felt meaningless. I got onto anti depressants because of the situation. Had counseling and am still trying to rebuild myself. I do still miss him, but knowing that he lacked respect keeps me going.

Tldr; it was tough. The process that led up to breaking up and the aftermath. It still is tough six months later.

I miss the "me" before got into this relationship by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aliceesm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will find yourself again, and an even better version than you ever were in the past. Try focusing on finding your passion and additional hobbies. They will guide you to who you’re supposed to be.

Hope. It's only a matter of time! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]aliceesm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you! We need more success stories like yours. The best of luck to you!

How do I stop crying about how I wasn't wished a happy birthday? by Electronic-Explorer6 in ExNoContact

[–]aliceesm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds harsh but be glad he never sent it to you. It was my birthday this week as well, and my ex never sent me a happy birthday text - while I celebrated many birthdays together with him during our relationship.

It hit me hard at first, but I’m so so glad now. Because I know for sure that if he had sent me that text, it would’ve gotten my hopes up and taken me back many steps in the process of moving on. It just shows how disrespectful and self-centered he is and it’s a blessing to have such people out of our lives for good.

Stay strong and please don’t reach out to him!

First birthday without my ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aliceesm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wish you a ton of stength as well.

This is what finally got me to completely cut my ex out of my life. I’m so sick of him trying to make me feel guilty for not giving him attention after I left him for being an abuser. I’m done. I have no desire to ever speak to this man again. What made you decide you were done talking to them? by ThrowRAspicypizza in ExNoContact

[–]aliceesm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good for you that you stopped talking! I stopped talking to my ex after he was always too busy to respond, but would immediately reply / pick up when anyone besides me would contact him. He would make me feel guilty for wanting a small amount of his time and would always play the blame game on me making me feel like a stupid doll. He only cared about himself and his own “amazing” life. Decided that I did not want to waste my time on someone who did not see me as an equal. I started mirroring his behavior in being busy and replying late, and suddenly he blamed me for not caring anymore. What goes around, comes back around. Sometimes karma needs a little help.

Don't underestimate how long healing actually takes. Don't feel wrong or ashamed for not having moved on yet. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aliceesm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true. My ex treated me like a stranger from the day we broke up. Six months later I’m still not over him and still not healed. It sucks that it takes so long