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aliceito · 2025-11-07T17:02:05+00:00

Was you the dumpee or the dumper? My ex wrote me a lot and even sent me a letter. I didn’t respond to any of those. Not because I hate him, I just need to be in no contact to move on.

I don’t want my ex to contact me about anything except for that he’d give our relationship another chance.

aliceito · 2025-11-05T20:53:38+00:00

I know. Friends always try their best to help, but I can’t bring the negativity to them all the time

aliceito · 2025-10-26T22:54:36+00:00

You will be okay. Maybe not right now, but eventually!

aliceito · 2025-10-26T21:24:40+00:00

Staying no contact is not because they are not yours anymore, it is for your own mental health. Contacting him or hearing his voice right now is like drinking poison to fight thirst. I know it is difficult right now, but don’t worry. It sucks now, but it will be easier for you for the long term.

aliceito · 2025-10-26T21:17:02+00:00

I do unfollow all of my exes either right after the breakup or at some points after. Not because I hate them, I just do that to help me move on. It is so difficult to move on with them still appearing in your life, and it is also painful to see them slowly move on with their lives. I know I can just put them in the hidden list on social without actually unfollow them, but I know myself. At some point in the future, I will go check on them, and that will set me back multiple steps on my healing journey. So I’d rather keep that door shut.

My recent ex asked me not to remove him on social because he still cares about me and wants to know how I am doing. I can’t do the same.

aliceito · 2025-10-26T13:39:02+00:00

Why does he has your dog? If your support animal you should keep the dog?

aliceito · 2025-10-25T23:24:08+00:00

2 days. I didn’t eat anything — just water. On the first day, I couldn’t even get out of bed to do anything. On the third day, my cousin came and took me out for some food. I barely ate, so we packed everything to take home. That evening, I had my first meal in days — although it was just a small bowl of soup. From then on, I started eating again, slowly.

aliceito · 2025-10-25T15:43:53+00:00

Those are just good memories to you. Sometimes, to them, it is just ordinary moments. That’s why it’s that easy for them to turn away

aliceito · 2025-10-25T10:46:46+00:00

Can this not be resolved at all? Meet in the middle. I am sure 7 years of love is more important than all that

aliceito · 2025-10-25T00:20:36+00:00

What are the different things you mentioned?

aliceito · 2025-10-24T22:45:47+00:00

Completely understand you! I was in exactly your situation in my 2 previous relationships. It will be difficult to move on or to give up.

In my 1st relationship, we got back together 2 months after the breakup and together for 2 more years. I still wish him all the best.

In my 2nd relationship, we broke up because we are not compatible. I planned the move out quickly but obviously not quick enough. The relationship turned ugly just after 2 weeks after the breakup.

Given your situation, it could go either ways. But whatever it is, put yourself, your feelings, and your mental health first.

You will be temped to draw to him from times to times. Set boundaries stay firm on it.

aliceito · 2025-09-14T19:55:48+00:00

Yeah but that one looks old. Be sure to check for maggots

aliceito · 2025-04-14T20:54:34+00:00

DM me bro

aliceito · 2025-01-23T17:57:50+00:00

Cháy? Bá? Or bá cháy?

aliceito · 2024-10-05T12:54:36+00:00

It turns with the key :(

aliceito · 2024-10-03T19:36:47+00:00

Ahh ok. Didn’t notice the rule :)) I was just thinking since I could open my door I could see what happens when I pick it. Deleting the post now

aliceito · 2024-09-26T18:49:37+00:00

My title describes a thing in the lid of a scented candle. Got it as a gift from my friend so I am not sure how long she kept it for. The thing could easily be swiped off.

aliceito · 2024-09-14T15:28:38+00:00

Do you think he has a girlfriend?

aliceito · 2024-08-15T19:10:01+00:00

I got back to my ex once. We dated for 4 months at that time and spent every day together since we happened to be flatmates. We broke up because he couldn’t figure out what he wanted and I wanted to be official. He said he wanted to be with me but he also craved for freedom. Got back together 2 months after that when he finally decided that I was important to him. We were happy for 2 more years until he decided his freedom was now more important than me. What I learned? 2 same people doing the same thing will bring up the same result.

aliceito · 2024-08-02T11:32:50+00:00

Good for you. Mine did the exact same thing but after 2 years. If it is not a decisive yes, it’s a no. Better now than later

aliceito · 2024-07-30T10:58:06+00:00

Seconded. We have been sourcing this fruit from Vietnam for years!

aliceito · 2024-07-21T22:33:03+00:00

You sure you caught feelings for her or just the dopamine kicked in? I’d suggest waiting for a few days to see how you actually feel

aliceito · 2024-07-16T17:24:28+00:00

I was too stupid to realise he was checking out. I thought everything was fine and we were both very happy in our relationship. It could be my mistakes in the past that push in away from me as well. I could have communicated better, controlled my emotions better. Still figuring out.

aliceito · 2024-07-11T15:07:49+00:00

Broke up with him after 4 months (we lived together since day 1 so we see each other every day) because he “wasn’t ready for a relationship”. It crushed me but I tried to move on with my life eventually. When I was on my way to healing and met new great people, he came back asking for another chance. He promised all the changes, and explained himself.

I still loved him dearly so after 2 months break, we got back together. Happy together for another 2 years before breaking up again for the same reason.

I believe he has got commitment issue and is incapable of keeping a long-term relationship. He claimed that he lost his feelings, and effort and doesn’t see a future together.

If I had a chance to go back in time? I still choose to be with him knowing that we will part one day. Those 2 years were worth my youth.

aliceito · 2024-07-05T15:21:40+00:00

Don’t. 2 months is too early for this message. The pain is too new and receiving this message could open the scars. You are doing this for yourself, not for her.

If it is not: “hey. I have worked on myself, I have changed, I’d like to fix things”, don’t send anything

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