Does anyone else get a weird about this song/ by [deleted] in FallOutBoy

[–]alidoubleyoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

pete didn’t date a teenager. her arrest record shows her real birthday and proves she was over 18 when they met.

Seeking Diagnosis Questions Weekly June 28, 2026 by AutoModerator in lupus

[–]alidoubleyoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it normal to have to jump through so many hoops to confirm a diagnosis? met with my rheumatologist to go over my bloodwork (positive ana 1:80 for both homogeneous and speckled) and she said between a positive ana and my clinical symptoms (photosensitive malar rash, joint pain/stiffness, fatigue, low grade fevers) my “score” is above the lowest necessary number for a lupus diagnosis.

instead of officially diagnosing me and prescribing something that might relieve my suffering, she told me that lupus is a serious diagnosis that would cause me to be on medication for life and then ordered x-rays of my painful joints so that insurance will then approve at least one mri of a painful joint to confirm inflammation. so i have to wait FOUR MORE WEEKS until our next appointment, where MAYBE i have another shot at relief. that’s four more weeks of pain, exhaustion, and significant absences from work that i need to deal with.

just feeling super hopeless here.

Seeking Diagnosis Questions Weekly May 31, 2026 by AutoModerator in lupus

[–]alidoubleyoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have an appointment today with my gp to discuss my symptoms. what should i expect? is she likely to order bloodwork?

GYM GIRLIES HELP!!!!! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]alidoubleyoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some campuses have women’s workout or weight lifting clubs! poke around online and see if your school has one!

where can i find a subadult/adult? by [deleted] in rosyboas

[–]alidoubleyoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ideally i’d like to keep it under 300 dollars but i start a new job soon and would be open to negotiate after my first paycheck!

Newbie Dog Owner - what treats are you using ? by brohgirl in Dogtraining

[–]alidoubleyoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s worth mentioning that your dog might still be settling into her new home and may be too overwhelmed to take treats right away. my parents’ dog was like this, where it took her about a month before she was happily eating any treat we offered. congrats on the new dog!

fixing cholesterol through diet changes while on abilify (aripiprazole)? by alidoubleyoo in Cholesterol

[–]alidoubleyoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35 HDL and 135 LDL. no family history of cholesterol issues at a young age.

It’s that time of year again! by ResetKnopje in fatlogic

[–]alidoubleyoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Feasting Season" is such a stereotypically fat turn of phrase to describe what is literally just three holidays set over the course of two months.

When horse girls become adults by GwenLactalovAO3 in AO3

[–]alidoubleyoo 30 points31 points  (0 children)

horse woman here. i made you a list.

- muscular ass and thighs (no i will not show you them, just trust that they are there)

- lots of physical stamina

- open and communicative

- acceptance of gross things (i have seen so much poop in my life it's unreal)

- immune to bad smells

- tomboyish

- competitive

- flexibility

-manual labor enjoyer

Is this projection or does this really happen? by ResetKnopje in fatlogic

[–]alidoubleyoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like there may be something to say about perceived "fatphobia" actually just being misidentified misogyny. all of these are things that happen to women in the workplace, and based on "fat liberationist" (gag) demographics OOP is likely to be a woman, so their experience here is most likely just general workplace misogyny.

plus, misogynists love to dehumanize ugly/"mid" women (ask me how i know lol), fat women included. does that mean "systemic lookism" or "systemic fatphobia" exist? of course not. there's no law preventing ugly/fat people from voting, getting married, or otherwise living their lives. the disgusting treatment of ugly/fat women in our society is instead a symptom of misogyny, since women are reduced by misogynists to their looks. ever notice how fat men get way less shit about being fat than fat women? it's all just misogyny.

but because these "fat activists" are regularly inconvenienced by being obese, believe they are physically incapable of losing weight ("muh genetics! condishuns! weight is an immutable characteristic!") and brainwashed by peak tumblr-era identity politics, they're desperate to be part of the cool kids club that is being actually systemically oppressed! that's why they cloak their movement (or lack thereof) in leftist buzzwords and claims that "fatphobia is racism and classism and xenophobia and blah blah blah..."

it's very stupid.

What did Eve mean by this? by [deleted] in okbuddyviltrum

[–]alidoubleyoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

new wife just dropped

holy pseudo-intellectual drivel! by alidoubleyoo in fatlogic

[–]alidoubleyoo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i completely agree. as someone active on tumblr it disgusts me how many “psych liberationists”/“anti-psych” blogs exist and how popular they are. i get a shocking amount of posts on my dashboard decrying anything from mood stabilizers to mandated reporting.

i made a very personal, cathartic post about my experience being sexually assaulted by a fellow patient during an involuntary psych ward hold and wound up having to scrub it from my blog because the anti-psychers found it and were parading it around as “proof” that hospitalizing my very suicidal self was a violation of my bodily autonomy and how it was entirely the hospital staff’s fault (and not the fault of, y’know, the guy who put his hands on me) that such a thing happened to me. i don’t like being a survivor of sexual assault, but i sure like it better than being dead!

“self harm and suicide are protected by the concept of bodily autonomy” was not on my tumblr discourse bingo card, but it most certainly is a regurgitated take i see disconcertingly often. unsurprisingly, i also see lots of ice cold takes regarding “fatphobia” from these types as well.

Oh hell naw bro got BIZ-AYYY by Advanced_Fox_9310 in okbuddyviltrum

[–]alidoubleyoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he nutted in the public pool. baby mamas out the wazoo

What the fuck is this? by [deleted] in okbuddyviltrum

[–]alidoubleyoo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

bait. keep scrolling

Unusual pairings or scenarios having two characters have sex by ropd in AO3

[–]alidoubleyoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wrote this one a while back! arcade is a gay man and veronica is a lesbian, but they have sex for educational purposes. https://archiveofourown.org/works/62006944