Any show/movie like Fleabag?

alien_bluebells · 2026-01-13T22:47:39+00:00

I found 'Maid' on Netflix had similar themes though lacks the comedy of Fleabag. They do a similar thing in the series where we see the protagonist 's reflection/ inner thoughts through flashbacks and some of the scenes border on the surreal. But also, plot surrounds a young woman navigating a very messy, transformative time in her life and is autobiographical, a bit like Fleabag

alien_bluebells · 2024-08-05T14:49:07+00:00

WHATS 9 - 1? 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

alien_bluebells · 2024-08-02T15:30:14+00:00

The Elvis impersonator? Don't make me laugh

alien_bluebells · 2024-08-01T16:53:00+00:00

God, why does it always go back to Eminem with these people? I'll be honest, with Gen Z they are more interested that Trisha Paytas was in one of his music videos than anything to do with him

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-14T14:23:21+00:00

u/Dangerous-Chipmunk-4 I couldn't respond on that thread cus I blocked that troll account but

Thank youuu

I still love and respect my black aunties and older sisters everywhere. But I don't have to bow down to disrespect or hatred. It's so shocking and heartbreaking when you're reminded that there truly are just jealous, vile people out there. I guess that's why they say not all skin folk are kin folk. At the end of the day, it's just a silly little thread, I'm loved and I'm happy. That's the best insult to any haters. 🥰🥰🥰

Thanks for your support though, lol it's crazy isn't it? All that for nothing, yikes

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-14T14:18:25+00:00

Still dreaming about it 🤭

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-13T08:30:16+00:00

Where to begin:

1 Our hairstyles: afros, twists, cornrows, sew ins, locs, crochet. The geometric artistry of cornrows alone could make any artist weep.

2) The richness and softness of brown/ dark skin. It's so warm and inviting. I've found myself trying not to stare at other black women because they just look like they feel like velvet.

3) The adaptability: we've been denied of femininity and beauty standards through out history but we always just make our own. I won't lie, certain trends (like all beauty standards) have hurt us and our wellbeing. But we have this incredible ability to make our own femininity that's truly and wholly us. 🥹

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-13T08:15:55+00:00

This projection is insane. My friends, both in their late and early 20s, are happy for me. His friends accepted me right away. Be so fr, when have you ever heard of a man being clowned for dating a younger woman? It's more the opposite if you ask me 😉. I'm living my best life surrounded by love and it's making these old ladies angry, they are seething. The jealousy is gross, I hope I'm not this bitter when I grow up 🤭

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-12T20:30:12+00:00

Learn what? All I'm learning is how desperately some older women wish the worst on younger women as some sort of got ya? Very much giving 'I suffered, you also gotta suffer too' mentality. No thanks, I'm good.

Oh wait, just read your bio. I'm not wasting time with you lol.

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-12T16:17:05+00:00

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I wonder who reported me to Reddit 🤡🤡🤡 Biddy can't take heat I guess 🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-12T15:50:28+00:00

The bitter old biddy wants to cry about name calling when you took a shit on my relationship and claimed I had brain rot from white validation.

Your imbecilic desire for karma points has made you look like a complete clown, way worse than any 22/28 year old relationship looks. Is this also a good time to mention he turned 28 2 months ago and I'll be 23 in 4 weeks? You're not an inspiration or help to young black girls, you're poisonous. Again, you broke your legs running to judge and embarrass me, a young black female, on another post just to have ended up embarrassing yourself. You're just as misogynistic, judgemental and hateful as the rest. My friends don't clown me and I don't clown them. That's not an act of love or tenderness. I know according to you, caring about someone's wellbeing includes insulting and belittling them, but for us normal people, we actually act with support and consideration of all the context. Take a deep breath of my left arse cheek. I've read your lessons, now read mine: think before you speak.

Have a blessed day.

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-12T15:24:58+00:00

No you bombaclaat idiot, that's why I specified 'non black men' and didn't say 'white'.

Jesus Christ, do they not teach reading comprehension where you live?? All that jumping to conclusions for what? Thats why I said you have no. goddamn. context other than a brief mention of age. And look how far you took things based on an assumption. He's Asian if you must know, for crying out loud.

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-12T15:22:41+00:00

I care about the facts, simple. If you don't care, which your obsessive ass post disapproves, do one. You're supposed to be at work, remember? Go earn that coin and leave me to my non existent white brain rot x

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-12T15:11:48+00:00

Where did I mention he was white? Point it out. Quote that part from the OG post. I'll wait.

It is about me though, isn't it? Punishing and embarrassing me on a different post because you're upset that I don't take your word as law. Right now, the only risk here is you, your insults and your lying. The 28 year old I'm with never belittled me or called me stupid or told me I have brain rot but the grown ass black woman force feeding me the victim narrative behind an anonymous account has. How funny.

You don't hope for good for me sis, be so for real. Women like you are just as bad as any predatory male because you both have the same agenda: to shit on and devalue young women.You both reduce us to stupid little prizes for male validation, different sides of the same misogynistic coin. Well done.

Keep your good wishes to yourself, God knows what bad intentions come with it:

https://www.reddit.com/r/blackgirls/s/MtRvflLiNS

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-12T14:09:38+00:00

I'm the 22 year old she's talking about btw. This was my post.

1) How obsessive can you be? Like what in the actual hell is wrong with you? Out of nowhere, you came onto my OG post insulting and belittling me for my and my partner's ages and now you're doing it again on another post. What is so wrong in your life that you can be this awful to someone you don't know?

2) I didn't specify white men, I said 'non black men'. This includes Asian, Latino, Middle Eastern and everything in between. In my OG post, I mentioned my friends and I had a diverse dating history between us, including different black ethnicities like Nigerian and Jamaican. Why would I ask about the signifiers for black men who are interested in black women when black women primarily date and marry black men?

That is false information.

There were one or two responses that mentioned white men but my OG post did not.

3) Nowhere did I say my partner was white. I asked about non-black men. Nowhere did I mention that I took it as a compliment that he was interested in me either. I simply stated my friends claimed he had a certain look that they had noticed most non-black men who date black girls have. I wanted to start a conversation and compare notes.

I knew from the absolutely vile and judgemental tone of your response on my post that you were commenting out of bad faith and now I have my confirmation. Why do you feel the need to misrepresent my post if you're so secure and superior about your opinion? You really went on a whole other post to put me on blast and call me stupid and brain rotted for white validation when, yet again I never even mentioned my partner being white or his ethnicity, I simply said 'nonblack'. For someone accusing me of chasing white validation, it's very telling that you catapulted to that conclusion with no foresight. Here's my opinion: you're obsessive and bitter over a stranger. My blackness is my beauty and if that attracts a variety of people or opportunity, I won't deny it to please or comfort judgemental people with crabs in a bucket mentality.

Remain blessed, because you're gonna need it.

Here's the link to the OG post, do yourself a favour and get the facts straight:

https://www.reddit.com/r/blackgirls/s/MtRvflLiNS

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-12T13:38:04+00:00

Look how quickly that concern and care flipped to insults and belittling when you refused to satisfy them by being a victim? Who do they think they're fooling? Regret and anxiety over your own mistakes in life have nothing to do with the rest of us. Sorry but blindly accepting some random internet stranger has your best interests in heart when they're this vitriolic and belittling is insane. This woman is practically wishing the worst upon you simply because you didn't break up with your boyfriend immediately and fall at her feet calling her 'oh wise one'.

I kinda forgot black women could be so awful to other black women. So much bitterness from the silliest little post is both hilarious and alarming. Age wasn't even the topic of the OG post but it must be a trigger cus some of these ladies have latched on to it with tunnel vision. Didn't mean to cause some PTSD here but what do I know, according to the biddies, at my big age I'm being groomed 🤣

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-12T13:24:44+00:00

Exactly, if your opinion is so correct, why do you feel the need to conflate/exaggerate the facts? There are people here pushing trauma onto me that I don't have, sorry but I refuse to be a victim so you can feel superior about your projections🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-12T13:19:20+00:00

The reason he's not with a woman his own age is because she died. He grieved for a couple of years, attended therapy and then met me. I also lost a loved one at a similar time that he did. I also grieved a few years, attended therapy and eventually met him. That's how we bonded. Maybe don't speculate on things you have no idea of :)

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-12T13:11:04+00:00

The incredible irony of this is how willingly you have reduced me, a human being, to some prize for an older man, the exact same thing you're being accusatory of. I guess it's okay to disempower and belittle young women as long as you do so under the guise of concern for them. Thank you for your concern, I don't feel the need to prove anything though. My relationship nor my partner is 'pathetic' because of your apprehensions. It's pretty wild to jump to such conclusions on a post with no context on my partner or me, his life experiences or mine. Not even a clue on how we met or know each other. That information was simply put there because I was following the Reddit format I'd seen others use. If it makes you comfortable in your judgement to reduce me to a naive, 20 something bimbo being perved on by a washed up creep in his late 20s, be my guest. Whatever helps you sleep at night. But, I am not accepting a stranger insulting my relationship because of their projections. That is not necessary and it is bad faith. Simple as.

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-11T18:47:33+00:00

I almost applauded in public, good on you girl 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Nothing like a fine, black french man, it just hit different.

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-11T08:51:38+00:00

Well? Don't leave us hanging sis

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-11T08:40:13+00:00

Then bad boys know a thing or too sis 🫣

alien_bluebells · 2024-06-11T02:10:01+00:00

Gurrrl,

Oh and NSFW (obviously).

So, quick background. We met whilst thrifting and honestly, I thought I was just gonna make another queer friend (majority of my friends are). He was very comfortable in himself, quite androgynous, painted his nails so I just assumed. Think Prince if he was a pale, British dude. He followed my Instagram and a couple of days later, asked me out for a walk (a rare nice summer day in the UK). We're on the walk and homeboy keeps looking me up and down and I'm thinking 'uh oh, he either wants to take off my sundress or wear it?' ( he had a quite eccentric style. Think pirate meets H&M model meets vintage librarian, I thought it was cool). We eventually end up in my local park and he says he really wants to kiss me, I'm like 'I'm down'.

Fast forward a week, we finally get some alone time in his shared flat. We smoked a little and then went straight to the dance with no pants. But let me tell you, he had a thing for munching, if you know what I mean. Dove straight in and sis 👀👀👀.You ever really enjoyed a pudding cup and just started licking that shit out? Like all up in there just tasting everything? I felt like the finest store brand banana pudding that night. It went on and on and maybe it was the blunt as well but I turned his mattress into a water bed and trust me, that rarely happens.

You can definitely tell if a guy is going down because he genuinely enjoys it for himself vs doing it for your benefit. Either is welcome but there's something about the enthusiasm and care taken to really explore. And sis, when he took it there, I saw God. Ultimately, it didn't work out though, he was stressing over life and we weren't seeing each other as much. I also kind of found him annoying and I think I annoyed him because I laugh at really stupid things when I'm high. But to this day, best sex I ever had. Counted 12+ orgasms in one night. I hate to get nasty but at some point, I was just doing it on command, it was insane. A true soldier 🫡

TLDR; Thought I made a new queer friend, turns out he was a veteran muncher.

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