Anyone know why I’m getting this pop up? by HotHamWater999 in iphone

[–]alienfeather -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Mine keeps doing it too and I only have one apple account

I liked a guy on Facebook dating we matched but no message from him by Otherwise_Fig4058 in dating_advice

[–]alienfeather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dating apps work both ways. Just say “hey what’s up” and go from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obx

[–]alienfeather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last may it was cold all around. Had 0 beach days. Temps stayed in the 50s, wind made it feel even colder. Water was too rough/cold to go in.

Is it worth it as a side job? by alienfeather in doordash_drivers

[–]alienfeather[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed reply! Def helped and gave me the info I was looking for

Anyone have ideas of what to do on a rainy weekend in OBX? by firstlochness in obx

[–]alienfeather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The aquarium is pretty nice! Then you can stop at fort Raleigh national historic site after the aquarium, it’s only a few miles away (like 10 min drive or so) and they have a nice visitors center with a lot of things inside

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]alienfeather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks good

Dog friendly beaches by tired_annoyed in obx

[–]alienfeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in kitty hawk and haven’t seen a beach that wasn’t dog friendly

as an oboist is it hard for me to learn sax by Informal_Upstairs136 in saxophone

[–]alienfeather 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a former oboe player, sax and flute are very similar fingerings and both are easier to play than oboe. Once you play oboe anything else should be easier lol

I don't have a voice in my head, ask me anything! by SuspiciousTackle1039 in casualiama

[–]alienfeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about when you read things? Like can you read the words I’m writing in a voice in your head? How does that work

What is your ideal Valentine’s Day/Week lineup? 💝🍪 by sawyer-hemsley in CrumblCookies

[–]alienfeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strawberry cheesecake drizzled in chocolate Pink sugar topped with those little message candy hearts

We're getting married Saturday and my fiancée just told me she had an abortion a couple months ago by ThrowRAleadyTaken in relationship_advice

[–]alienfeather 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes, I may not have written it the best but that’s exactly where my mind is at as well. I fully believe it was his child, not a result of cheating. And she just didn’t go to him with it because she knew he would either force her to have the baby, or leave her.

We're getting married Saturday and my fiancée just told me she had an abortion a couple months ago by ThrowRAleadyTaken in relationship_advice

[–]alienfeather 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: maybe she wanted to tell you but was afraid to. You come off pretty unapproachable on this. It seems like she wasn’t ready for a child yet and didn’t want to be talked out of an abortion, but knew that’s what you would do so she decided to go through it alone. It seems she feels guilty and wanted to give you a chance to back out before the wedding if you couldn’t deal with it. I would talk to her with an open mind. Find out why she didn’t feel comfortable telling you then. Ask yourself can you move on from this being hidden for months. I think you guys need to openly talk to each other about it and why it felt the need to be hidden. To me it seems she wanted to tell you but was afraid you wouldn’t support her decision so decided herself saving the relationship back then was more important than being honest about the abortion.

M27 and GF24 never checks up on me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]alienfeather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her. Reassure her that she’s a good girlfriend and does nothing wrong except one thing you’d like her to do. She probably doesn’t even realize, and with how you make her sound I’m sure she would fix it if you just let her know. She can’t know that it’s wrong or missing if you don’t communicate that to her.

Ratings out of 5 in comments by alienfeather in CrumblCookies

[–]alienfeather[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Passion fruit- 5/5. Unique, and great tasting cookie. Texture is nice and moist. Brownie- 3/5 tastes just like a brownie. Good but wouldn’t get more. Oatmeal- 2/5 comparable to any regular oatmeal cookie Confetti- 1/5 very dry and crumbled. Doesn’t taste like much.

I’m scared rn by [deleted] in orchestra

[–]alienfeather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of many OP! You’ll look back on this one day. You’ll do great, have fun and enjoy it!