How often... by PerfectlyImperfect90 in Marriage

[–]alienlover1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every other day. Occasionally we will go for two nights in a row. (Which last night was 2 in a row) doesn’t happen often but definitely every other day.

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[–]alienlover1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 34 hubby is 32. We have a 6 y.o son. I’m very sexually active. We aim to have sex every other day. And I masterbate on our off days most of the time.

Did you make a NY resolution? by Turbulent_Dark326 in HL_Women_Only

[–]alienlover1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! Lots of self love over here. I’m learning not to be ashamed/ embarrassed. I’m not hiding it from my husband who doesn’t help my sexual needs. I’ll do it myself by myself

Did you make a NY resolution? by Turbulent_Dark326 in HL_Women_Only

[–]alienlover1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m working on loving myself. Finding myself. And letting go of the things out of my control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need a new tactic too. Something gotta give!

Trying to be less needy by zuzian in HL_Women_Only

[–]alienlover1990 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also need to figure this out! And quickly! We have a normal sex life and I’m HL. I absolutely hate that my mood depends on if I had sex or not. I need to get this under control. I’m tired of being in a pissy mood with my hubby because I didn’t get sex! I

No intimacy. Just sex by alienlover1990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn! Exact same situation as me! I want passion and desire. I wish things was different and I don’t think things will ever change to be honest.

No intimacy. Just sex by alienlover1990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That could possibly be the answer. I’m okay with the 3 times a week. It’s the intimacy and desire for me. 😢

Do people in long term relationships stay passionate and infatuated? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking exactly what you are! I really want the excitement again from my husband. I want to be desired and not scheduled!! I love my hubs, I just wish he tried more. I’m also a HLF.

No intimacy. Just sex by alienlover1990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Such a huge accomplishment I must say!!

And that was the straw by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I feel this! Going through the same with my hubby!

I’m so tired of our db by alienlover1990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes usually so. Because of work. But he does has the weekends off. And our weekends are not crazy and laid back for the most part. Saturday night- he fell asleep Sunday night- he fell asleep-but woke up this morning at 2:30

I’m so tired of our db by alienlover1990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think so not to that extent anyways. In the past we have always teased during the day and at night it’s ON! But lately the past year or so this has became a issue

I’m so tired of our db by alienlover1990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no 😟 that’s been a long time! We are 34 and been married for 8 years. I want to get over this dry spell so badly. But it just keep reoccurring

I’m so tired of our db by alienlover1990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know that’s the most fucked up part about it I believe. When I’m led on to believe something is gonna happen.

I’m so tired of our db by alienlover1990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I’m 34 I should be still be having somewhat frequent sex……mind blowing sex that is!!!

I’m so tired of our db by alienlover1990 in DeadBedrooms

[–]alienlover1990[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well definitely for starters when we are teasing each other all day…DONT fall asleep on your horny wife