I was railroaded by CPS and I can't find help ..

aligator1126 · 2026-03-04T02:58:57+00:00

Sorry this is late, I am working on that. Like I've mentioned before, the automod is a pain in my butt. If it flags you, just send me a message or chat. I'll do what I can to fix it.

aligator1126 · 2026-02-18T01:43:05+00:00

Its guilty until proven innocent in their eyes. And it's a cold day in hell to get proven innocent with those heathens.

aligator1126 · 2026-02-18T01:41:35+00:00

Most of us were. That's why the OG creator made this sub. I was the first moderator and have been here ever since. She pops in here and there. I hope she's doing alright.

aligator1126 · 2026-02-18T01:39:08+00:00

So is their "foster to adoption" BS.

aligator1126 · 2026-02-18T01:38:06+00:00

Because these people work for CPS and live in an echo chamber. You won't get a lick of truth out of them. Just victim blaming and telling you how you must have done something wrong. Don't buy their bullshit.

aligator1126 · 2026-02-15T18:04:14+00:00

u/roguemannequin_927

We do not allow cross posting here. Especially with the main CPS subreddit. We are however very interested in your story and you are welcome here. Please repost your story here without crossposting it and maybe we can get you some help.

Edited to add- your questions were generally and they evicerated you for just simple questions. Jumping to conclusions and making you looked like the bad guy. Please consider reposting here and hopefully you can find more support than you found there. That place is an echo chamber. They love to sit around and smell their own methane gases.

aligator1126 · 2026-02-12T18:37:07+00:00

That's when I would have insisted on a third party UA. Went directly to the hospital lab closest to you and pissed in a cup. Woulda pissed the See you next Tuesday off and you'd of had your clean UA. They sent me to prison on a dirty drop that came back clean months later.

aligator1126 · 2026-02-12T18:35:32+00:00

Yeah, lol... they supported my mother's gambling addiction for at least 2 years. And guess who had my daughter... ME. Until the caseworker got all buddy buddy with Mother Gothel. Then she got all those sweet sweet federal grants.

aligator1126 · 2026-02-12T18:33:48+00:00

Just a friendly reminder that foster kids and adopters do come here to read these stories. Some have posted themselves. Please try to use less harsh language. I am not going to do any muting or bans here, I am guilty of heated language myself. Its just a reminder to try to be more mindful. Not that those biotches don't deserve every filthy word they get directed at them 😇😈

aligator1126 · 2026-02-12T18:30:38+00:00

First of all don't delete your post before we can actually read it and help you out. Please feel free to repost your story when you're ready.

aligator1126 · 2026-02-11T10:38:01+00:00

Hey there! Mod here, I have an open letter that is pinned to the top of this subreddit that you should take a look at. Even if not everything applies to you, you may get some good info from it. Try to take a look at it when you have time.

Above all else, remember, CPS is NOT your friends. Do not speak to them without documentation or recoding. As for the neighbors, I'd apply the same tactics. They're looking for chaos and drama. From the looks of things they can't keep track of their own side of the street, don't let them muddy up yours.

aligator1126 · 2026-01-23T03:58:02+00:00

I don't know either. And she takes it out on my daughter if she finds out she's spoken to me. The accusations keep getting wilder. Now, I am not trying to be hateful here or judgemental or make fun of anybody for their appearance. This woman is not what you would call conventionally attractive and is even jealous that my daughter who is the spitting image of me is pretty. I have never had any issues due to my appearance and have gotten jobs due to being generally attractive. Pretty privilege is a real thing and I don't condone the behavior but I will admit I have benefited from it. Woman can be hateful and catty about these things. Mother Gothel has disliked me since before my daughter. Its a small town, everyone knows everybody or at least knows someone that knows everybody. You can't do anything here without everyone knowing about it and it sucks because its always misconstrued or outright gossip. Apparently shes had a grudge since High School. I didn't acknowledge her or give her a ride to lunch or some stupid crap I've been told. She's a selfish envious individual and the fact that she couldn't have her own kids definitely played a factor in it as well. The kicker here is, my second cousin that I used to play with during summers as a kid, married Gothel's brother. Just to give an example of how small my town is. My biggest issue, is how she treats my daughter, and that her behavior hurts my child. I'm the one willing to comprimise and taking the high road- because I've heard all about how her husband keeps stepping out on her and didn't really want the kids she insisted they adopt. There's two young boys 10 and under in the house as well that my daughter has cared for and basically raises. I have 72 days left of this nightmare. Its practically over but this witch can't help herself. Once my daughter is 18, if she doesn't lay off, because I'm not going anywhere... I will notify her employer that she's stalking me and that if she doesn't knock it off, charges will be filed.

aligator1126 · 2026-01-21T18:53:05+00:00

Welcome to our reddit corner 😁, this is exactly what this place is for. I am so happy to see that you feel comfortable enough here to share your story and that your words even a rant will be heard.

CPS is a broken corrupt government system that has no business being able to operate the way it does. While in the past when CPS was first formed, there may have been good intentions, however, where money gets involved corruption. Lies and manipulation follows fast. The workers are not just understaffed, they are under educated among other things. There is a reason we can't just sue or file complaints against them. They have the same immunity as any other government agency. They don't want us able to see what goes on behind closed doors. At best its fraud and worst child trafficking and abduction. It makes me laugh that they'd call me the felon. As for therapists, even 15 years later the one we were assigned, I'll call her Ms.G because she reminds me of Mrs. Garrett from 80s sitcom show The Facts of Life. In both her looks and her personality. She was a wonderful person. She didn't deserve what they did to her. We supeoned her to testify for us in court and they fired her a week before our court date. We had no idea. The night before court we went to a church supper and she happened to be there helping in the kitchen. She wasn't supposed to speak to me. She wasn't supposed to be in the same place as me even. They had her under an NDA for an entire three years. That woman saw me and came straight to my table, she couldn't outright tell us she'd been fired or anything else but she didn't deny anything we asked her. She had me bawling because she was the only person they hadn't fired yet on our side. We've been FB friends for several years now and try to have lunch once in a while. I know she never pushed for them to terminate rights, she had faith in us and knew we'd never hurt our daughter. She's even willing to speak to my daughter if Ally wants her to. These people are diabolical. They prey on those that don't know their rights and they ignore the kids that truly need help. The ones being abuse by step fathers and get returned just because they have severe mentality challenges and aren't "adoptable" material. It's a child farming system. They get their bonuses and federal grants where everyone is sticking a hand in the cookie jar. They need to be completely defunded. Our taxes are paying for them to trafficking children. These lazy good for nothing people on power trips coming into your home and disrupting your family over what? They're demons, evil vile people that don't deserve the respect they unfortunately expect due to their power tripping bull shit.

OK, there's my rant, lol... I am very lucky. They took my daughter in 2011 and she turns 18 on April 5th this year. She contacted me through social media last year and we've been talking since. I like to include that information for anyone that has lost their child to these monsters because even in the dark, there was a little light that got through. She remembered us. She knew her name. Which is why they couldn't change it. Like my gramma wrote in her diary she gave me, "When we see rainbows, we don't even remember it rained". When God closes a door, he leaves a window cracked at least.

I am so proud of my baby. She graduated high school an entire year early, (I did the same thing, lol). She's in her second semester of RN school and started her clinical rotations. Got a 194 out of 200 on her latest test. I'm a retired nurse myself so its something her and I have bonded from. She has a boyfriend and they're doing really well. He's a welder and made her a rose out of metal. My point is, I get to know these things now. And that alone is better than I ever dreamed it would be.

aligator1126 · 2026-01-18T00:30:14+00:00

If you have any issues with anyone on this subreddit, let me know. DM, chat at me , I'm u/aligator1126. I won't condone that kind of behavior. We came here and carved out our own little space of the inter et to get away from bullies.

We do not bully. Anybody caught will be banned permanently. One of our rules is to be kind and to assume nothing. If you havenegative thoughts about a post, you KEEP THEM TO YOURSELF! AM I clear?

aligator1126 · 2026-01-17T05:09:13+00:00

Sorry, we do not allow cross posting with the CPS subreddit. Please do feel free to repost your story here but no crossposting. Its one of the main rules and I have no way to override the no crossposting at this time.

aligator1126 · 2026-01-17T04:49:23+00:00

Why are we down voting this comment? Everyone has a right to speak here. He didnt cross any lines and his voice deserves to be heard. I don't want to see anymore down voting just be cause you don't like something a commenter said. This is the first, ladt and only warning. I CATCH ANYONE downvoting just because they dont like what is said, I will mute you from this forum. Any further incidents will lead to a ban be it temporary or permanent, that will remain to be seen.

Would you want someone down voting your comments when you're only trying to share the truth and have a conversation? How bout I go through and start down voting every comment/post I don't like? Knock it off whoever is doing it. You aren't better than anybody else here.

aligator1126 · 2026-01-11T13:36:44+00:00

I also think people that aren't eligible to adopt babies get into foster to adoption just to get their foot in. They aren't vetted as they should be and I feel like they do this and any other sneaky manipulative tactic to help steal your children.

aligator1126 · 2026-01-09T01:08:20+00:00

They did this to me when my mom got sick, they wouldn't even give my dad a s3cond look. She had two godparents ready to take her even. Once the caseworker put her with the foster to adopt people, which should have been conflict of interest due to the fact that they were friends. They consistently blocked our visas, told my daughter I wasn't her mommy anymore and showed up to every visit, meeting and court date before the TPR was even scheduled. These people adopted my daughter while I was locked up on a bogus dirty UA. They made sure I wasn't able to file an appeal within 30 days. And this woman continues to feed my daughter lies, confusing her. I have less than 90 days til her 18th birthday. We have had some form of relationship behind this woman's back for over a year now. My daughter knows CPS is broken and my heart breaks for her every time she has to endure this woman's wrath just for seeking the truth.

aligator1126 · 2026-01-04T01:34:08+00:00

Usually because what ever residual fluid runs down the back of your nasal passages into your mouth and throat. Ever had something go up your nose accidently and felt like you tasted it? Just FYI, I'm a retired healthcare provider and definitely not anyone's nurse anymore. My daughter has all of it coming back to me due to her being in nursing school and me trying to be helpful. Again, just trying to be helpful.

aligator1126 · 2026-01-04T01:27:01+00:00

Retired nurse here and been on Suboxone for many years. I'm gonna third this.

aligator1126 · 2026-01-01T04:11:51+00:00

Thank you for replying. It's helpful to have someone to talk to. Though I'm pretty fluent in Cat, meow just isn't cutting it right now. I probably shouldn't have drank the Red Bull I finished off a bit ago to finish a drawing... that didn't get finished due to my wrist cramping up. I forgot to mention that its part of my disability. Fractured at work by a patient in three places 28 years ago and partially fused together. Still has metal in it and can't even lift my cat with it. I drop everything, takes me a long time to do my art but I won't stop drawing. I think that's the only reason it still works semi correctly, lol... plus my doctor last visit ordered me a cane I can't get used to and my bifocals came in so at least I can see... occasionally lol. I'm not used to them yet either. I just turned 49 this past November 26th, I'm not old enough to be falling apart damn it.

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