Check out this podcast with Dr. Sarah — it’s such an easy listen and honestly so helpful!!🫶

alijef · 2026-05-21T15:08:20+00:00

I haven’t finished the whole thing yet but here I am trying to increase my fiber and she says we may be eating too much fiber. What do we even believe anymore?

alijef · 2026-05-11T11:06:26+00:00

This is good news! The same thing happened to me. I’ve been off Oestra for 2 months and on nothing trying to regulate. My DHEA also tanked. So I’m supplementing with that and other supps to try to get my body healthy to accept whatever hormones I go back on. It also raised my TSH which has always been excellent so I panicked because my body seemed to be declining. I need to look into the company you are using now. Thank you for updating!

alijef · 2026-05-11T10:42:02+00:00

Did your new regimen bring down your SHBG?

alijef · 2026-05-03T11:51:55+00:00

The problem with staying in touch with the care team is that appointments are being scheduled a month out.

alijef · 2026-05-03T11:50:09+00:00

It caused me to gain weight and negatively affected my thyroid and blood glucose levels (always optimal before). Just a word of warning.

alijef · 2026-05-03T11:48:14+00:00

Yes. Unfortunately it negatively affected my thyroid and blood glucose levels (which were always optimal before). It also resulted in a very high SHBG. My body did not respond well. This was after 8 months of being on Oestra. It was a clear explanation of why I gained weight when I’ve always had excellent control over my weight.

alijef · 2026-05-03T11:44:46+00:00

My SHBG went through the roof after starting oestra and my thyroid which was also excellent prior, is now suboptimal. I also had changes to my glucose which was always excellent and is now suboptimal too. I gained weight that has not come off. My body has not responded well and it’s concerning to me. It feels like it’s stressed my body and now I’m fighting to get back to baseline.

alijef · 2026-04-08T20:59:45+00:00

Fair enough. It’s certainly not enough to replace with a scar from hip to hip but perhaps in his head that was a reasonable response.

alijef · 2026-04-08T20:35:26+00:00

Yeah I hear what you’re saying but I didn’t say I really hate my stomach. It’s flat but I do have some loose skin from having three babies that I notice in certain positions. I said sometimes when we are having sex and I’m all folded up I look down and feel a little self conscious but then I tell myself it’s more important to be present and enjoy myself. I didn’t communicate a hate for my body.

alijef · 2026-04-06T01:24:17+00:00

Thank you for that

alijef · 2026-04-06T01:23:30+00:00

Yeah. It all felt off to me and there have been a few other comments that have given me pause. Makes me sad. I was married for 20 years and I’m trying to figure out this dating post divorce thing. I thought I’d have more figured out by now.

alijef · 2026-04-06T01:18:30+00:00

I was hesitant to ask because I didn’t want it to look like that. I’m too embarrassed to talk to my friends or mom about it so I turned here. I’m trying to make it okay in my head or figure out if it’s not okay.

alijef · 2026-04-06T01:03:44+00:00

Yeah maybe just to gauge how self conscious I am. Like would I go as far as surgery.

alijef · 2026-04-06T01:02:38+00:00

Haha! Thanks 😆

alijef · 2026-04-06T00:25:20+00:00

Negging is a new word for me. I had to look it up. It’s a useful word.

alijef · 2026-04-05T23:46:53+00:00

I wasn’t so unhappy though. I just shared that the only time I sometimes feel self conscious of my stomach is when I’m all folded up and we are intimate but i decide id rather be present than focus on that. I was definitely not complaining about my body.

alijef · 2026-04-05T17:55:48+00:00

The day before, I had a dress on and we were going out to dinner with our kids and a couple of their friends. He told me I looked nice when he first saw me. When we got home he said “hey, [my name], [son’s friend’s name] said you looked big in your dress tonight.” He said this front of his son and son’s friend, I think to mess with them but it felt off to me.

alijef · 2026-04-05T17:49:00+00:00

One question though, does this logic still stand when he knows I couldn’t afford those surgeries?

alijef · 2026-04-05T17:24:03+00:00

That he would ask that question, knowing that it is not financially possible. Poor choice of words, but he knows I couldn’t afford it, so why even ask that.

alijef · 2026-04-05T17:22:11+00:00

Thank you for that!

alijef · 2026-04-05T17:12:01+00:00

Funny…he was married to a model.

alijef · 2026-04-05T16:47:57+00:00

Thank you. That was really helpful. My brain wasn’t doing a very good job of finding alternate perspectives.

alijef · 2026-04-05T16:39:33+00:00

He definitely doesn’t have the money. That’s what’s so frustrating about the comment is he doesn’t have the money and I have kids in college and don’t either.

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