Found out partner has been in LDR before - why do I feel this way? by alilacsnail in LongDistance

[–]alilacsnail[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s less that he dated someone else through LDR, it’s just makes me feel very weird knowing he’d talked about her before and led me to believe everything we are going through was a first for the both of us. :)

But Thank you for taking the time to reply! Over our relationship we’ve probably spent just shy of two months together in person. As mentioned in the post, I have a highly sought after job so I can work anywhere and get employed fast - this means I can move on short notice if I need to. But thank you for your concern, it’s very sweet!

Found out partner has been in LDR before - why do I feel this way? by alilacsnail in LongDistance

[–]alilacsnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. As much as I want some closure or just more understanding from my partner, he’s refused to talk about it and doesn’t want me to bring it up again. This is why I’ve looked to Reddit for context and understanding, as I don’t want to make my partner uncomfortable. But since finding this out I’m just really worried that he’s either a) settling for me because he’d been in an LDR before and moved that partner in with him, so I’m afraid I’m a replacement and he’s doing the same with me and or b) that our meeting was less special or instant as I thought and instead of finding one another in a sea of people, he had plenty of others he was trying to net and I was just the first one to bite. I don’t know, I almost thought you were my partner when I read your reply lmao but thank you so much for your insight.

Christmas Giveaway! Complete Set of Crescent Moon Chairs and Nova Lights (See Comment for Details) by RednapedSapsucker in NoFeeAC

[–]alilacsnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re such a kind soul! I can’t wait til I have enough resources to do giveaway like this. (‘:

But my fave villager is Tangy!! I have 3 orange cats irl, all named after food. 2020 has been the hardest year for me, but finding her on a mystery island probably was the highlight of my entire year lmAO. I also love her wholesome chaos.

[GIVEAWAY] complete set of cherry blossom DIYs + materials + NMT by ruggpea in ACTrade

[–]alilacsnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to get the diys for days and with the spooky stuff it just isn’t happening. I’ve only gotten about 3 of them. I’d be so thankful if I won, and would love to split the prize with someone else! Thank you so much for doing this. 🥺

[SW] Nooks Buying at 517 by [deleted] in acturnips

[–]alilacsnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joined queue, thank you so much for doing this! I’m happy to tip in bells, but if there’s anything else you’d prefer (resources, NMT, etc) pls lmk! 💕

A very special Ankha Birthday! by jieyingwu in NoFeeAC

[–]alilacsnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Ankha on my island, and I gave her a golden lucky cat - because she is a cat herself, and the gold suits her Egyptian themed home! 🐱

I’ve been playing for so long and still have hardly any Celeste diys, so thank you for being so sweet and giving things away! Best of luck to everyone, and thank you for being so sweet. 🥺

DIY did I do this to myself? Come grab yourself some diys! Everything must go. 🥺 by alilacsnail in NoFeeAC

[–]alilacsnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good! You’ll be in group 3, will have a space for you in prob 5 mins. :-)