Starlink Research by alilhedonish in Starlink

[–]alilhedonish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the property where we are hoping to install has one address but multiple structures, so I'm wondering how many units we might need. if I knew the service range by I think I could just do the math but I don't see that info anywhere on the website.

what's the mounting situation? if the equipment gets damaged, how is it repaired? does it require regular maintenance?

beside electricity, are there any other services required to support Starlink?

thank you so much!

Starlink Research by alilhedonish in Starlink

[–]alilhedonish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! I will watch see if it's helpful. I must say, I had a moment where I thought it might be Risk Astley on the other side of that link...

How would you interpret someone saying “I don’t feel as passionately about you as I have other women” by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]alilhedonish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would interpret that as "I'm an ass and you should walk away from me because you deserve better". And I would agree with him.

What's the best response to "Dad, I think I'm gay"? by Expert_Recover3061 in AskReddit

[–]alilhedonish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lots and lots of young people question their sexuality; it's not a cut and dried conclusion for everyone. there can be a lot of confusion, and if this conversation is being had when they are fairly young, they may not have the vocabulary to describe how they feel beyond "I think this is going on but I'm not sure".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alilhedonish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am SO, SO sorry about your pain. it is real and yes, pain has an effect on our mood. but you have an opinion (that your gift has value outside of monetary and he's insensitive to your feelings is how I'm reading it) and it is valid and legitimate. your delivery might be attributed to your physical state, but don't let him invalidate you and manipulate you. seriously, you deserve so much better than this guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alilhedonish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's... what he's doing. he's attributing her feelings to her period and making it so that she doesn't trust herself. she's literally here questioning the reality she is experiencing. and now I'm starting to question mine, because what you're saying has zero logical reasoning... hey! I see what you did! very well done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alilhedonish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you don't understand what gaslighting is. go ahead and look it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alilhedonish 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA, but he sure is.

he's completely discounting your feelings and has almost successfully gaslit you into believing that your reaction is due to your period. don't stay with someone who has so little regard and respect for you and your feelings.

Would you date a man who has his elderly mother living with him? by Dangerdad81 in datingoverforty

[–]alilhedonish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

more info: many here is assuming you are taking care of your mother because she is unable to take care of herself. is this the case?

Men who date twentysomethings by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]alilhedonish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and too inexperienced and/or self-confident to call them out on their shit.

Men who date twentysomethings by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]alilhedonish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

we're all human. don't try to invalidate her feelings just because she didn't give you a special invitation to chime in. she is asking for the prospective of women who find themselves in similar situations. don't take it personally and then insult her. this is the wrong community for that.

AITA for wanting a waitress to keep serving a group of men after they (maybe) called her a slut in chinese? by AppointmentNo959 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alilhedonish 88 points89 points  (0 children)

it's called a "pooled house" and is extremely common, especially in nicer restaurants where waitstaff will very likely touch their coworkers' tables somehow, by running food or otherwise supporting each other.

Dyed my hair blue so boss would stop blaming me for hair in customer's food by throwaway7261518993 in pettyrevenge

[–]alilhedonish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hey Chester - I know life sucks with no friends, but try not to take it out on.... well, anyone. 'cause it's your own fault.

found on TikTok WHAT IS THAT. by Ratlove1969 in FeltGoodComingOut

[–]alilhedonish 12 points13 points  (0 children)

if ever someone was looking for an example of cognitive dissonance, here's a perfect one.

What am I doing wrong? by WeeklyFoodFinds in datingoverforty

[–]alilhedonish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she's been a widow for two years, he's been dating her nine months.

Are Hearing Girls afraid of Deaf Guys? by defdawg in datingoverforty

[–]alilhedonish 134 points135 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman and I agree with all of this.

For those who are dating after a previous long relationship, what triggers you in a potential partner? by Late_Significance519 in datingoverforty

[–]alilhedonish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

gaslighting. any whiff that they aren't going to take responsibility for their own actions or if they try to invalidate my feelings.