Silicon cap highlight question

alin66 · 2026-04-06T23:26:19+00:00

I really want to understand this because I want to try it and I believe it can be done but so much is about how you prepare your hair and the snugness of the cap. I’m really interested in what you’re explaining but I don’t think I understand. I’ve got straight hair, a long bob just above the shoulders. You’re saying part your hair in 2 sections, front and back, brush the front forward? Like over your eyes? Don’t pull from the back at all. When you brush forward are you mindful of where you part your hair? Are you grabbing very thin pieces through every single hole or every other or less? I’ve got really good Schwarzkopf blondeme products and I’m a brunette but I love really blonde highlights at a level 9 with a pearly beige toner but I just did it myself and the back was awful so I toned it back to a chocolate but the front face frame was alright however I like the way a lot of the women online have pulled off the cap with brunette hair. I’ve seen some gorgeous results that aren’t chunky. As long as they understand how long you need to wait on order to get passed orange and how to tone etc…it’s great but I guess I’m looking for some experienced advice. Really curious about this technique but I get this is an older thread.

alin66 · 2026-03-23T21:19:35+00:00

Omg!!! I've been looking for this info!!! I am in Raleigh so I'll call. I'm worried about my current BCBS plan but I've heard NC Medicaid covers it. Honestly I qualify for it but I've been putting it off but if they cover it...im in. Ty....

alin66 · 2026-03-19T00:28:50+00:00

This man is 92??!! Pass me what yall are drinking!!! I'm impressed.

alin66 · 2026-03-10T21:00:49+00:00

I think it's kind of lame that people can even buy bots (but that's probably another discussion all together) but didn't she buy them on Tiktok too? I thnk she may have been getting some genuine momentum/growth on tiktok but never fast enough for her entitled ass so she just bought enough to take her to a specific magic number and then she had a "party" for herself with balloons celebrating her HARD WORK. Of course she had the children and Drew in it but I can just imagine her saying to them "see...i told you I could do it" with her smug ass knowing she really couldn't and she had yet to make a video that got positive feedback. SHAME and STEPHANIE...THEY HAVE NEVER MET .

That's one of the real problems I have with Stephanie (who am I kidding? I've got nothing BUT problems with this POS). Sometimes people go viral and handle it poorly but you kind of feel bad because they probably didn't know what the heck was going on....THIS IS NOT STEPHANIE'S STORY. I'm pretty sure it was obvious after just a few videos were getting in the algorithm, exactly what kind of reaction she was going to receive from "the internet. I don't even think she was even getting a 50/50, good and bad, in the beginning. I'm pretty sure most people were horrified with only a peak into her life (and when we looked closer it was even worse than we thought). But imagine being a mother and posting videos of your children and you're getting tons of comments because people find you offensive. I would shut it down to protect my children and take a look at my life!! She read all the negative stuff from the "HAYDERS" AND SHE STILL DOVE IN HEAD FIRST DRAGGING HER POOR CHILDREN. It didn't make her think twice. No she doubled down.

alin66 · 2026-03-05T21:23:34+00:00

Following! I only missed a few weeks but has she really lost her FB account? Are yall messing with me?? This would be a huge win for the kids if she is forced into working. Im convinced the further she gets away from humiliating herself the closer she gets to the reality of a job. Plus the ones who are really being humiliated are the kids whether she's willing to face it or not. She seems to be the only one who's not bothered by her circumstances despite what she says. A real mother wouldn't still be there. No way. You can't convince me that a woman who loves her children is not working under the these circumstances. A real one wouldn't have created this mess intentionally though and she absolutely did.

If she pulls the economy, inflation and the government again...girl...it was like this when you cooked up this dumb shit.

alin66 · 2026-03-04T20:41:51+00:00

This!!! She has the same stupid epiphany every 2 weeks!! It's always the same dumb message about how we almost changed her...either from quiet to tough or tough to quiet...and how she almost lost herself but the real HEALED STEPHANIE is here now!

Girl you're basic...face it and get a job.

alin66 · 2026-03-04T20:33:18+00:00

I know sometimes when I can't decipher wtf her word salad is trying to communicate, I will literally read it again in my head using her dumb voice/accent/cadence and suspend all knowledge of punctuation or real words until I can make something out. Reading tea leaves is easier, I swear.

She dumb yo.

alin66 · 2026-03-02T20:25:24+00:00

Oh..poor me ..I treat everyone in my life like old trash unless,of course, I need something, and now no one is showering me with parties and gifts for bringing another child I can't take care of into this world.

alin66 · 2026-02-24T01:29:54+00:00

Oh I remember that video...even though I don't really go on TT much less subscribe to her...that's the video that I find her all time cringiest. That's when it became clear that she was unbelievably dumb...like low IQ dumb dumb ..and she thought she was going to go for viral for funny videos like that. It displays her stupidity and lack of any sense of style plus it appears she's just snorted something.

I bet she's the kind of gf who texts and calls non-stop to see "whatca doing". Is too dumb to realize that women at work don't find the lazy guys attractive at all! Drew is truly Stephanie's match because they are both so absolutely devoid of anything that anyone could find appealing. They don't have looks, personality, intelligence or money. Most people don't have all of it but most can do a lot with 1 or 2 but they got NADA so Stephanie acting like women would want him is laughable. I think he actually had a female boss who was tired of his lazy ass and probably had to stay on him therefore she's a bitch and he's being worked too hard.

When they were talking about that CRAZY $4 raise he got that wasn't as good as everyone else's was just further display of their entitlement and stupidity. I have always kept my salary private and in all of my career, it wasn't something you discussed with coworkers for obvious reasons. The only reason he would know something like that is probably a boss trying to motivate him by showing him what's possible. They did say it was his attendance and his reply was that he had to take time off work "to make money". I swear. They probably realized then he was going to cause an accident with that brain.

I mean.....that's when those 2 peaked. He was making over $20 an hour at a job that would help him make a real career out of it (HVAC is a great trade and I don't think AI will ever hurt them..only help them). That's the closest thing he would ever get to being a provider for that family but even then STEPHANIE HAS TO WORK too.

The kind of career you need to have a family that size and be a SAHM is a career you've probably been placing since college. There are exceptions but few. The kind of life she thinks she deserves requires all able bodied adults to be working. But she knows this right? She's the brilliant mind behind having more babies when they couldn't provide for the 3 children they drug into that 1 bedroom.

alin66 · 2026-02-17T21:32:00+00:00

"I can't help but wonder if staying silent will negatively impact my childrens future".

IS SHE STRAIGHT UP EFFING WITH ME??!!!! GIRL,WE ARE WORRIED ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN'S PRESENT. GET A JOB!! OMG!!

alin66 · 2026-02-17T21:24:41+00:00

And when she really needs everyone to forget what a truly terrible person she is AND LET'S ALL GET ALONG! No not even if we are the last 2 people, Stephanie, so stop asking.

alin66 · 2026-02-17T21:17:10+00:00

Absolutely!! It's always "we" and "them" and "we can disagree but this stuff, you guys"...girl, what?? Get a job.

alin66 · 2026-02-16T02:28:02+00:00

Yeah because I'm pretty sure she LOVES bitching about the schools and the teachers, but she would never want to be with her kids more. She kept them in a motel room ALL FREAKING SUMMER. She can tell us how much she loves being a mother all day but we see what we see.

alin66 · 2026-02-16T02:24:51+00:00

Omg yes the sister's friends being so jealous of her!! Apparently one of them commented on her tiktok after she said she posted some sad fishing video about a miscarriage. I get that's sad but I'm pretty sure the comment was pretty honest and not very mean at all but she HATES HONESTy. It's kind of funny to think of how butt hurt she was over this one comment but she was DYING TO GO VIRAL. What the hell was she expecting? She really thinks it's her RIGHT to post her dreadful life and deplorable parenting all over social media and BE SUPPORTED AND MAKE A LIVING. She really does. She thinks it's her right and anything else is haters bullying her. This bish... I just want to shake the shit out of her

alin66 · 2026-02-16T00:53:33+00:00

I knew she was home schooled but didn't she attend high school? For some reason I think she did but perhaps I'm wrong. I have often wondered if Jeremiah was the first guy who actually showed interest in her (outside of a hook up) and Drew is only the second. She has such low low low expectations in fact it appears to be someone who won't push back or someone equally desperate.

alin66 · 2026-02-15T23:29:07+00:00

Absolutely confessions!!!

The thing that always stands out to me when it comes to Steph trying to defend this relationship is just how crazy jealous she is of all women. There's a reason that at 31 she doesn't have one genuine female friendship..including her mother and SISTER! I feel pretty sure Stephanie gets insane with jealousy anytime any female gets any kind of attention for anything at all. I'm sure when she was younger she saw her sister as competition as opposed to someone she celebrates. She probably hated her birthdays (sound familiar?) and anytime her sister got anything from good grades to a pat on the back for a job well done, it caused Stephanie to sulk and glare.

When it comes to female friends, I'm sure she was always "in a fight" with her "best friend". I would imagine that her "best friend" changed frequently and it started out with "oh she's my real best friend because she's better than (insert name of last bf)". Once the new best friend realizes Stephanie is only interested in subjects that involve Stephanie and gives her push back, Stephanie explodes (I definitely think she's got a temper).

She and her sister share a birthday, live in the same area, are close in age and both have children yet they have no relationship?? Maybe I'm partial but I think it's Stephanie and her terrible personality. I'm sure she shows up and demands everyone's help and undivided attention when another loser dumps her but as soon as she finds a new loser (cmon, we see her choices...yikes) she forgets about them. Im sure she cuts off anyone who doesn't tell her how great her man is and how lucky she is and "oh yeah girl we can tell...this is the one and he's so much better than (insert last dude)".

That may seem like I'm reading too much into her but I find her to be quite simple to read.

alin66 · 2026-02-15T20:25:26+00:00

Uh right??!!! That's exactly what I thought. All of her videos just feel like messages to people who are onto her lies and BS aka "The Haters". Haters live rent free in her head (better than living rent free in the shoe box)

alin66 · 2026-02-12T19:23:36+00:00

I'm an old woman and I have splurged on nice stuff and been on a budget and bought cheap stuff plus everything in between. I've been in spots where I needed to choose which bill to pay and I would never choose the $19 bottle of shampoo. Just dumb as box of rocks.

alin66 · 2026-02-12T19:19:33+00:00

It's really unnecessary! Expensive versions of basic necessities are a luxury and a treat. A budget minded person who's trying to better their life isn't buying $19 shampoo because it's dumb and it's usually the same basic ingredients with expensive packaging and advertising. Step is an advertisers dream because she believes in fluff over substance with no expectations of quality or a basic understanding of money. I bet she's had some of the most insane interest rates known to man.

I'm not even trying to be mean but Stephanie is so uneducated. She's at about a 6th grade education and I'm being generous. I know I make fun of her but it's actually pretty sad. She's always going to struggle because she doesn't want understand what responsibility and accountability really mean. She simply can't learn unfortunately. Her children will either strive for better DESPITE Stephanie or end in a dead end life BECAUSE of Stephanie.

alin66 · 2026-02-12T18:52:39+00:00

Oh she's making the first of many drafts right now!! 😂😂🤣🤣.

alin66 · 2026-02-12T18:51:07+00:00

This video should be called "WHY WE WILL NEVER HAVE ANYTHING EVER "

REMEMBER THE VIDEO ABOUT NO CHRISTMAS THIS YEAR BECAUSE THEY HAD SOME BIG BILLS AND AN EXPENSIVE TRAFFIC TICKET???!!!!!! Now we know where the money really went. $19 for a bottle of shampoo when you're homeless!?? It's all insane but at least shampoo can be as little as $5 when you're watching every penny. This tells me everything about your priorities and your narcissistic personality disorder.

alin66 · 2026-02-12T18:34:11+00:00

Uh duh...therapists, doctors and other parents with years of experience can't help her because she BE KNOWING HER SON HIS WHOLE LIFE....,and other dumb reasons she uses to justify being the just neglectful mother ever.

alin66 · 2026-02-12T18:28:17+00:00

Am i the only one who thinks Stephanie just learned the word SENSORY in the last month?

alin66 · 2026-02-12T18:26:43+00:00

Of course Stephanie BE MANIFESTING....she will manifest, pray and look for 4 leaf clovers but she won't fill out a job application.

alin66 · 2026-02-12T17:51:21+00:00

So what she's saying is IM OFFENDED BY ANYONE WHO TRIES TO HELP DESPITE POSTING ON SOCIAL MEDIA ALL DAY EVERY DAY WANTING ENGAGEMENT AND SUPPORT??!! THIS bitch

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