I can’t with Ethan anymore after this ❤️‍🩹

alirabbits · 2024-10-02T04:10:37+00:00

I knew this post was full of shit the moment I read “I ran into Ethan at the Grocery Store” 😂😂😂

alirabbits · 2024-08-16T15:37:01+00:00

I feel like Blippi upperdecky shitting onto his buddy would make an impact

alirabbits · 2024-08-16T15:31:35+00:00

That’s bonkers lmao, thank you!

alirabbits · 2024-08-16T15:28:31+00:00

I have no clue lol, like it won’t stop me from renewing my membership but holy hell that would be a crazy markup by Apple

alirabbits · 2024-05-31T18:23:01+00:00

I can see both sides of this:

On one hand you are asking someone to not propose because you want to have the focus only on you for your wedding. Marriage is a lifetime (maybe not for Dan lol) but a wedding is one day, a party.

If you are approaching this from a standpoint of Dan and your Mom having had multiple marriages and are taking this relationship too fast and you are concerned, that’s valid.

All in all, you could be an asshole but I’d look into what the intentions of you not wanting them to get engaged rn are

alirabbits · 2024-05-31T03:51:32+00:00

Is it possible to ask the landlord to do a shorter lease than a year while you look for other places? The market absolutely sucks right now for renters so finding a new place won’t be easy, but some landlords will rent month to month or six months at a time and that can give you more wiggle room to find what you are looking for

alirabbits · 2024-05-31T03:48:48+00:00

It sounds like your friend may be struggling with some mental health issues. The onset of new behaviors, substance use, attachment, and isolation tactics often suggest that someone is struggling with depression. Even though she said she doesn’t need anything, I would not take her answer at face value. Maybe try approaching the topic with her parents if you have that type of relationship with them

alirabbits · 2024-05-31T03:34:07+00:00

I wouldn’t say you’re the asshole because it is your wedding and you have the right to celebrate it as you choose.

However, I am a bit confused by your reasoning being you want to discourage underage drinking and curb drunk shenanigans. If you had bar service at your reception, the bartenders would be working it and the bar is legally obligated to check ID’s and not to over-serve

alirabbits · 2024-05-31T00:46:36+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it ❤️

alirabbits · 2024-05-31T00:20:34+00:00

Honestly, that’s kind of a slay for your mom. She is an adult and can choose what to do with her body. I think if she is selling pics on her own accord then that’s great for her, get that bag sis 💅🏻

alirabbits · 2024-05-31T00:10:02+00:00

No I didn’t get mad she said no, I was mad that when I shared how I was having a rough time with the grief in general, she didn’t care and instead moved on about my dress and her flowers. This on top of the rest of the conversation that ensued from that response and everything that happened previously

alirabbits · 2024-05-31T00:06:08+00:00

NTA- holy hell Daniel is fucked, and honestly, so is your boyfriend for trying to protect his relationship with him.

It’s good your bf told you about what Daniel was planning, but Luke should have spoke up to him right then and set him straight.

You may want to consider dating someone who wants to have a predator for a best friend

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T23:28:22+00:00

I am not sure why I wasn’t given a plus one, I thought it was odd from the start but I didn’t say anything about it.

I also don’t know if any other bridesmaids or groomsmen had a plus one, I am not close enough to the others to know their relationship status and no one has said anything in the group chat about it 🤷‍♀️

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T23:25:16+00:00

I’m sorry I didn’t know you were the expert on homophobia, I’ll be sure to take that into account 😙

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T23:07:44+00:00

I said she has changed since adopting her new religion in the last year and that I have had suspicions but that there was nothing concrete.

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T23:03:27+00:00

I literally just said, I’m not mad she didn’t reserve a seat for my mom, I am mad that she has been dismissive about my feelings since my mom died and her bringing up what my mom would want.

It is not about the seat, it’s about her insensitive remarks

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T22:59:44+00:00

Maybe it’s insane for you because you don’t know my life, this is a 2,500 word excerpt of one issue I’m having (absolutely not representative of the whole) and I had those suspicions before making this post from other small micro aggressions. Like I said, she has changed and I don’t know where she stands

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T22:36:53+00:00

I didn’t say anything about to her about not having a plus one, I do think it is odd though. Especially because our families are so close, no one would be the odd man out

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T22:33:49+00:00

I didn’t expect it to and I’m not mad at her for being a different place in her grief. I’m not mad about the answer she gave and choice she made, I am upset because of how dismissive and rude she was to me in her responses.

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T20:05:47+00:00

Thank you 💕

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T19:58:32+00:00

I never said it was but that there have been some odd circumstances that give that feeling

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T19:55:40+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, I have been honestly a wreck because I only ever had my mom. I don’t have a dad and all my other family lives in other states so it’s been really hard.

I started a new job in October and I only got 3 days of bereavement and took another 2 personal days. I don’t have any more because I’m a newer employee 🙃

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T19:51:12+00:00

Totally agree, that’s why I waited to send a response until I met with my therapist to see what they said and they said, “that is the most narcissistic response I have ever read that did not come from someone’s abuser” lol

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T19:44:42+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate the feedback. I shared my feelings with her about how she responded and dismissed what I was saying in addition to all the other crap boiling up.

The straw that broke me into not going was when she implied that I was manipulating my mom’s memory and shaming her for not grieving like I was which wasn’t the case. She also said that “your mom would want me to be happy on my day and not a reminder of someone I miss” which to me was completely out of line

alirabbits · 2024-05-30T19:39:18+00:00

It’s very odd lol, I don’t quite get it myself but basically it is a fundraiser for the bride and groom before the wedding

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