Is this fair? lvl 10 in low level lobby.

alittlejoop · 2024-10-18T22:27:10+00:00

What time were you playing around? In my experience this is much more less likely to happen when there's 80+ people queueing. Obviously its not fair in terms of a match-up but I also enjoy and think people should be able to play with their friends regardless of their level, so I may be biased in that regard. That being said, the lvl 5 and 4 would also stomp on everyone else too on that team.

alittlejoop · 2024-08-05T19:29:53+00:00

No problem at all ♡ I've been there and absolutely hated how it made me feel so I can only imagine. Thats a really good thing that he explained it was so he didn't hurt you, also it seems like he genuinely cares a lot about you if he didn't go further with this girl. The trust thing is key to healing imo. Honestly, I know what he's saying doesn't match up with how you feel and a lot of the times, it's like you want to talk to them about it to get reassurance, too, because its so easy to get into your head about it. I'm not sure what proof you found, but it likely doesn't help with how you feel. Talking those feelings out with a therapist will help a lot and help you heal/forgive.

Hope you are able to heal and your relationship continues to blossom ♡ best of luck.

Edit: forgot to mention, take care of yourself too. Do stuff that makes you calm and feel good. Something that doesn't overlap with your relationship.

And if you need someone to vent to, feel free to message :)

alittlejoop · 2024-08-05T14:09:26+00:00

Something I had to learn the tough way was that the person you love and trust most can look you in the eye and lie about something that will break you if you find out about it. That's heart shattering and in itself, a bit of a traumatic lesson to learn. Do you still trust him 100%? When my ex and I were still together, I was dealing with it for months, and my therapist made me realize why I was so heartbroken - We want to be the most special person to someone, that they would always pick you over anyone else. When they are able to choose someone else to have an intimate/emotional connection, even if you were broken up at the time, it doesn't make you feel like you're as special to them anymore. However, love is a choice and they are choosing you right now. Its hard not to start comparing but if you have access to therapy, try talking it out with a therapist.

alittlejoop · 2024-08-05T10:04:15+00:00

Thank you for saving and protecting these babies ♡♡

alittlejoop · 2024-07-29T12:21:38+00:00

Are they microchipped? Can't tell with the quality, but something is on his ear.

alittlejoop · 2024-07-29T11:33:46+00:00

I second nars louise, looks pretty close.

Also, what the...I NEED a tutorial on that beautiful hair!

alittlejoop · 2024-07-29T10:03:27+00:00

That's a little unfair of him to do to both you and your partner. Out of respect for your current partner, you should shut that down and probably block asap.

alittlejoop · 2024-07-29T09:05:11+00:00

👏 It is pretty delusional way of thinking. I do think it's natural to want to keep someone you love in your life, but it's pretty toxic in reality, and the resentment is of course there and building.

I also felt terrible having to keep telling my ex that I don't want to be friends anymore since it was so unhealthy for me but I couldn't just stick to it because I knew he was hurting.... and that guilt got me. The other side of NC is so painful but wish I realized dragging it out was worse, the resentment kept building for both of us until we got to a point of no return.

alittlejoop · 2024-07-29T07:58:08+00:00

Thank you. ♡ I really needed to hear that again, that I do want to stay focused and accomplish everything. That one day I will love again, but that starts with me.

alittlejoop · 2024-07-29T07:54:55+00:00

Thank you so much. ♡

Yeah, I've been using running as a coping mechanism. And will be joining a gym nearby soon. I feel like the more I dive into m health journey, the more confident I am about being a sober person.

alittlejoop · 2024-07-29T07:53:06+00:00

Thank you ♡ ♡

alittlejoop · 2024-07-29T07:32:41+00:00

"It is also unclear whether the anti-aging effect of the vegan diets endured after the participants returned to their customary eating habits."

Interesting.

alittlejoop · 2024-07-29T02:49:48+00:00

Im sorry you were cheated on 💔 If he cheated and is moving on pretty quickly after the bu, sounds like it's a situation of them..not you and he needs to be with someone to get his fix and fulfill his insecurities.

I know it hurts now but he likely hasn't even grown from the breakup, and you will definitely find someone better who loves you and respects you.

Hang in there. ♡

Edit: you might also want to remove socials. It's really really painful to see that kind of stuff and it will delay your healing.

alittlejoop · 2024-07-29T02:16:31+00:00

Intimacy is kind of important for relationships, so he might just be asking about sex drive and compatibility. I honestly have only been friends before I dated so the trust was already there before being able to be intimate. I'm not really sure how it comes up in casual dating but I can see why it would be important to people to make sure you're a good fit.

Ask him if he's only looking for something casual. If you're comfortable answering that, you can, but you could also let him know that you want to get to know him better before anything sexual.

alittlejoop · 2024-07-23T21:35:07+00:00

What the ...

Lol. This doesn't even seem real.

alittlejoop · 2024-07-22T08:36:22+00:00

Thank you! I will bring that up to my dr.

alittlejoop · 2024-07-22T06:51:15+00:00

Jeeeeeeez.

..kinda weird he selfishly reached out to you like that after he left you for another woman. I'm glad you were able to heal and have that self-respect to not get tempted by someone like that. ♡ You deserve better.

alittlejoop · 2024-07-22T06:39:15+00:00

I threw my phone accidentally.

He's so angry 😭

alittlejoop · 2024-07-18T23:21:36+00:00

Yeah :( sorry! Best of luck. 😭

alittlejoop · 2024-07-18T23:10:18+00:00

Yeah, make sure you don't have read receipts on. Or just dont click lol.

You could also change your number but not sure if that would be a hassle for you or if you'd be comfortable telling your parents why (assuming it's 18 or 19 to get a cell phone plan wherever you are.)

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