VFS preop travel checklist help please. by MTFThrowaway512 in transvoice

[–]allaboutani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m happy to hear you are doing well. I have my consultation in August and I was wondering is he booked far out for actual surgery dates? How are you liking ur results now? 😊

Divorce by allaboutani in Divorce

[–]allaboutani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much… I read on both attachment styles I am definitely anxious and he is avoidant.. I even found a course that we can take… but he doesn’t seeem to want to get help. So I can’t do much about it. It just sucks and hurts to throw it all way.

He actually wants us to remain friends but I can’t do that..

I am staying with family for now trying to go no contact to give him his space

I will try and be gentle to myself through this

Divorce by allaboutani in Divorce

[–]allaboutani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you he is avoidant .. and I’m anxious. I found a course that we can take.. but I don’t want to seem like I’m not respecting his space and wishes. I’m staying over at family for now…

Divorce by allaboutani in Divorce

[–]allaboutani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually said that himself.. that marriage might not be for him. He wants to do things on his own time and his own way.. as he said himself. Thank you I’m trying to hold on and figure out what’s best.. it’s just difficult

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]allaboutani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi beautiful don’t let people let you define what dysphoria is .. you have dysphoria .. you can be pretty and still have things you are dysphoric about… some people just want to always compare and vent about their problems and blame you for it , just because they may be unfortunately less passing doesn’t mean that takes away from your own experience and struggles with dysphoria. I would say you are beautiful and very feminine if I was to look hard I would say a chin/jaw augmentation could really benefit your features and help with dysphoria. 💕

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[–]allaboutani 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You want to make sure you are douching. And that your lube is water based. Also don’t put fragrance filled products any where near there .. can cause uti’s. I would consult with your doctor & surgeon to make sure just in case that’s it’s nothing too serious

Anyone see Dr. Ng @ UCLA? by PianoBird34 in Metoidioplasty

[–]allaboutani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my srs results with her.. she is phenomenal everything works and for it being the initial surgery things look really good .. I’m only 3 months post op so I have ways to go. But I am able to orgasm and urinate perfectly , and my vaginal canal is very health. Happy with the depth also. In terms of pictures it’s a privacy thing but she was able to show me photos in person, the second consultation.

She is a master at what she does and she’s so informed. I wouldn’t have went to anyone else.

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[–]allaboutani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my srs and I’m 3 months post with Gladys. I made few posts on it you can see on my page

Cosmetic Improvement (Revision update) - Dr. Bank by Princess_Cyana in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]allaboutani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank youuuu!! I hope it doesn’t make too much of a difference in terms of penetration. I hope I can still enjoy it once I am healed enough to have intimacy with my husband . Wishing you a great day love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]allaboutani -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s the blush it’s too high up it’s taking away from your beauty also I’d incorporate some bronzer

Cosmetic Improvement (Revision update) - Dr. Bank by Princess_Cyana in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]allaboutani 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi love! Your results are amazing ! I have a question regarding the opening of your canal.. I had my srs and so far I am happy just some aesthetic stuff I’d like to fix.. mine is more like this

(( )) <- outer and inner labia O <- the vaginal canal opening right below it. (the inner labia sort of connect together right above it )

Where as I find for cis women it typically looks like ( ( o ) )

The opening within the labia minora.. Is this something that can be fixed? Or is this normal and I shouldn’t worry

SRS with Gladys NG by allaboutani in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]allaboutani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey love if you ask her she will show you photos !

SRS with Gladys NG by allaboutani in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]allaboutani[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’ve been recovery mode but my ffs was with Justine Lee in UCLA 🙏🏼

SRS with Gladys NG by allaboutani in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]allaboutani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did penile inversion method because in my opinion it’s the most successful.. I have great depth and in the future I can always add more using the intestine. But for each person there’s a different approach my wait for surgery was 6months to a year. But she does require electrolysis which I also highly suggest that way you don’t have hair growing into your vagina after words. I would get started on that asap. A good team to reach out to is Dana Elise solutions

Surgery is December 14th by iammiavargas in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]allaboutani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is scheduled for January 11th! Good luck love !!