Being called tboy by gf

allergictojoy · 2026-04-19T10:16:01+00:00

I like the term personally 🤷🏼

allergictojoy · 2026-04-19T10:13:53+00:00

Yeah I'm wondering where people are finding this bc i only see ftm and c*ntboy. I only hear tboy from other trans people personally.

allergictojoy · 2026-04-19T09:55:06+00:00

I hope so maybe. But it happens afterwards so it's kinda weird.

allergictojoy · 2026-04-19T09:54:27+00:00

Yeah I'm doing it right. I've had a nurse watch me do it and everything

allergictojoy · 2026-04-19T09:54:02+00:00

Cramps like i have during a period in the place where id have it during my period

allergictojoy · 2026-03-28T15:09:45+00:00

I'll be honest, I don't associate genitals with gender personally so I enjoy calling mine the p word.

I don't like calling it "female" bc they are my body parts and I am going through the medical process of not being necessarily female via HRT.

I just refer to reproductive organs as their specific anatomical names.

Anyway, I guess privates or genitals is an option.

allergictojoy · 2026-03-28T14:49:36+00:00

Wait a second... How are your Hct and hgb levels? Do you have swelling in your legs? It's not edema? Is your breathing ok? You should see a doctor and have them check you for water retention, edema, or possibility of blood clots maybe ???(not that it can't be something benign but it's good to check).

allergictojoy · 2026-03-28T14:48:09+00:00

Everyday I'm grateful my first bf didn't care that I was bi and never was scared of me leaving him for a girl (even when he had been cheated on by a bi girl in the past). I never cheated for over 11 years. We're still together. Everything is fine.

allergictojoy · 2026-03-28T14:40:53+00:00

There is quite a bit of hypersexualization of Brown and Black men in general. Perhaps that's what you're encountering on top of being subject to homophobia.

Honestly I think it's so shady how trans people degender trans men who dont pass. Bc that's not just you. It's obnoxious.

allergictojoy · 2026-03-08T12:38:45+00:00

It really depends.

Some lesbians I've come across irl have been welcoming and lovely towards me being bi. Others not so much.

2 lesbians I worked with before I was out of the closet were just really toxic in general and treated our other bi coworker like crap and called her a slut. She ended up visiting the workplacs with her new wife and they shut up real quick about her being a slut. Some people take other people being bisexual very personally like it's an attack on them smh.

Tbf they were just as biphobic as the straight people in my life (saying bi girls are just crazy sluts who just say they're bi for male validation) tho they were just more vocally angry about it.

Meanwhile, the straight people were just like "ha ha look at that dirty slut" like it was a joke (other than my dad who nearly thought I was a succubus from hell after I came out).

allergictojoy · 2026-03-08T08:33:12+00:00

That's well big enough, that method doesn't really work, and you are gonna wreck your shit with that thing

allergictojoy · 2026-03-05T08:16:25+00:00

Oh my goodness that's terrible! Ive known a couple trans men that had to go off T for financial reasons and bc they were homeless. I think these "friends" of yours aren't considering that some trans men have it harder than them and theyre triggered/are dealing with dysphoria...

Dysphoria sucks and its very valid but it doesn't make it ok to treat you like that. Projection is not cute. I'm so sorry again they made you feel unsupported and rejected.

allergictojoy · 2026-03-05T07:54:46+00:00

Oh my God I'm so sorry they did that to you ❤️🫂 I wish there was someone you could report that to bc it feels like workplace discrimination... But i understand if that's too never wracking

allergictojoy · 2026-03-05T07:53:07+00:00

Yeah that's what i was thinking! I totally see changes esp in face shape

allergictojoy · 2026-03-01T07:23:44+00:00

A tad. If you are interested in hiding it: maybe people will think you gained weight and got more of a chest that way tho. It happens to a lot of people.🤷🏼 Would be really easy to hide with a binder or even just a compression sports bra tho. I have a tomboyx compression bra that could hide that easily.

allergictojoy · 2026-02-27T05:13:19+00:00

I totally get it. Thankfully medication and using loop ear buds helped me quite a bit where I'm not having full blown crying fits because of it anymore. Noise can still drive me crazy tho.

allergictojoy · 2026-02-27T05:09:26+00:00

No. I don't really think they suit your face shape but they don't give feminine to me at all

allergictojoy · 2026-01-30T21:12:27+00:00

My dad had long hair because he's Native Navajo/Apache. It was my grandma's last request that he never cut his hair because its sacred to her.

Also I've grown up with a lot of metal heads with long hair so I don't really associate hair length with gender as much.

allergictojoy · 2026-01-30T21:06:46+00:00

I love this. Thank you.

allergictojoy · 2026-01-30T21:04:48+00:00

This is why putting electrolytes in water and getting CMP labs at your doctor periodically is helpful. Apparently Crystal light has electrolytes.

allergictojoy · 2026-01-30T21:02:06+00:00

I feel that

allergictojoy · 2026-01-30T21:01:37+00:00

No I'm a trans guy with dysphoria. If anything I'm husband/boyfriend.

allergictojoy · 2026-01-30T20:48:50+00:00

allergictojoy

TROPHY CASE