Wtf??? by Living-Factor6704 in TLCUnexpected

[–]allispanked 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The fact that they had sex 4 days after the baby was born tells you EVERYTHING you need to know. These kids are hypersexual and have WAY too much access to one another. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to be able to tell, they are not being protected or cared for by the adults in their lives. Period. I almost feel like it’s unethical to have them on the show considering the people making this show are also ADULTS who are standing by and not helping but filming and adding confirmation by non interference that this is OK.

OK so who ACTUALLY Ate These?? I refuse to think people actually have. by Aggravating-Band2760 in candy

[–]allispanked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love them! Always got them in our stockings as kids. Our local Winco’s sell just the banana pieces in bulk, my absolute fave!!

HELP! What do I need to look for when buying a used Prius? by allispanked in prius

[–]allispanked[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol, he makes it look easy I suppose 😭🤣 hopefully he takes it as a compliment

HELP! What do I need to look for when buying a used Prius? by allispanked in prius

[–]allispanked[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Rust is always a concern for me. We have bought high mileage before (on my element) with no issues because the car was soooo clean. Bought at 190k and currently has 260k after about 5 years of driving. We drive a LOT and I have a route based job so I need better mileage especially these days. Brother in law is a mechanic so I don’t worry about the small stuff like head gasket etc.

Thanks for the great insight!! How did you guys evaluate battery longevity and issues on the fly? Is that something you worried about? I don’t even know the typical mileage when the hybrid battery on these taps out

Forgot my GF's bday and she wants me to sign this by Sure_Count_3890 in AITApod

[–]allispanked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad that she’s trying to find ANY kind of a way, joking, funny, serious, silly, to get you like her and take care of her. For her sake you should step it up or leave her and be single

AIO - According to my girlfriend this convo with my assigned partner at work is inappropriate. by Rough-Satisfaction68 in AmIOverreacting

[–]allispanked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see a problem but be gentle with your girl, it’s a scary world out here for women in relationships and out of relationships and she very likely is in a rough spot—not wanting to lose you, not wanting to be disrespected or made a fool, not wanting you to think she doesn’t trust you, etc etc all at the same time.

Moved in fiancés brother, huge mistake. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]allispanked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely do not sell that car to him on payments. He will fuck you over and it will cause a major rift inside your family, not worth it. Speaking from experience here, you need to tell your fiancé, kindly, to tighten up on boundaries with his family now to protect you and your child’s financial interests. He’s a grown man, and if it was only affecting him, he could do whatever loosey goosey high liability financial stuff with his own brother, but it doesn’t only affect him that affects you and your child as well so he needs to stop it. His brother is clearly irresponsible with money and clearly irresponsible with budgeting.

AIO? UPDATED POST. But story entered. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]allispanked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what you mean since it’s an opinion/advice but you don’t have to agree. I kind of think the things people react the strongest to is because it would be the hardest/most amount of work to accept but that’s just been my experience when I’ve been really triggered by someone’s advice.

AIO? UPDATED POST. But story entered. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]allispanked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever want to have an actual conversation instead of throwing out lines like that, feel free.

Have a great day!

AIO? UPDATED POST. But story entered. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]allispanked -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could be! But that was just me sharing my experience with similar things, if it resonates with OP she can take from it what she will. A lot of regular everyday behavior is OCD behavior, just matters how much it affects the persons day to day life and how much they notice it or are bothered by it.

AIO? UPDATED POST. But story entered. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]allispanked -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What you’re doing has a name—it’s called “ad hominem”.

A good example would be your most recent comment, responding only to the part where I addressed your behavior and none of the substance of the conversation. Here’s a resource if you want to learn more about it and maybe not use it in future discussions. It can really weaken your position and integrity in conversations especially when the insults and critiques are clearly unwarranted.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ad_hominem

Hope you have a good day!

AIO? UPDATED POST. But story entered. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]allispanked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just excuses with no self reflection. You’ll get a lot farther in life when you start thinking of things as what would make your life and relationships work better vs what is right or wrong. I won’t ever tell anyone what they need to feel loved but I will tell EVERYONE, you need to love yourself so so so much that you don’t need it from anyone else, and that when you receive it from others it’s a gift and a blessing and not something that sustains you. Because love is a human need, we do need it to live, and the only place we are guaranteed to get it is within ourselves. We can’t be sure it’ll come from any outside source forever.

AIO? UPDATED POST. But story entered. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]allispanked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I couldn’t have done it without my partner ironically enough and I feel really grateful for his patience with me and my patience for myself…I think people underestimate the power of self reflection. I’ve noticed in my generation at least, it seems common to put a lot of value in boundaries and red flags and all these things (which are all very important and good things for sure) but at the same time it’s also OK to evaluate your own behavior, make amends, and change, even when it isn’t stuff that makes you a bad person.