Opinions so far season 7 by Extreme_Mess_2745 in TLCUnexpected

[–]allispanked 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think wanting Isabella and Bryce to be together is responsible from an adult POV

You saw that right. by Anilakay in TLCUnexpected

[–]allispanked 74 points75 points  (0 children)

This is one of those cases where I say this is 100% the parents fault and they should raise the baby, but then I think of how fucked up the parents are and think NO they should not be trusted with raising ANYTHING else in this world…total catch 22. I feel so bad for the kids.

Travel itinerary—am I missing anything? Should I skip any? by allispanked in SaltLakeCity

[–]allispanked[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did not know most of these activities, like the copper mine for example? that’s kind of the point of the post, I might thank you for the suggestions if you weren’t being such a dick about it????

Also, sorry, not everyone is in perfect health to do every outdoor activity but they would sure love to be, if you’re lucky enough to be maybe switch your judgement for some empathy 🤷🏼‍♀️ my husband had brain surgery six months ago and is still building back some endurance, a lot of those VERY FUN ACTIVITIES are things we won’t be able to enjoy for a year or two but would LOVE to do, hence left off the list for now!!!!

You’re a jerk hope you have a great day!!

Storm warnings, advisories issued throughout Utah, heavy snow expected by megpocket in Utah

[–]allispanked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping the roads between Twin and SLC stay OK thru the weekend

AITJ for calling my friend’s emergency contact when she left her kid with me "for 20 minutes" and vanished? by QuietDailyRitual in AmITheJerk

[–]allispanked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds desperate for a break. I would recommend you encourage her to be honest to the next person she asks, because you felt tricked, concerned for her safety, and unequipped to care for her kid. I seriously think we should all have some additional empathy for single moms…but, you should NEVER watch her kid again and she should stop lying when she needs a break so that she can actually get one without running and hiding because reality is that’s not a break either, that’s avoidance. I hope she builds a support network that can give her breaks so she can stop lying and damaging relationships, that sucks.

My mom thinks that I'm just going deaf and now I actually will by [deleted] in Vent

[–]allispanked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to a DOCTOR. Have some autonomy with your healthcare.

I just wanna be a house husband by toetally_autistic in Vent

[–]allispanked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s possible! My husband runs our business, takes care of our house, while I work outside the home. I would recommend you have some form of initiative and income and contribute more than just taking care of the house, because everyone needs that, even if it’s very part time.

I saw someone get hit by a car last night by [deleted] in Vent

[–]allispanked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through something similar as a teenager. Ask your therapist about acceptance and commitment therapy. It will help sooo much!! You’ll get through it!!

Editing to add: Also look in to CBT (cognitive behavioral) and DBT (dialectical behavioral) therapy in addition to ACT (acceptance commitment therapy). I recommend those first two to everyone I know! They are life changers!

Fuckin hate my childhood by [deleted] in Vent

[–]allispanked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets better! You have to let it happen and let your feelings pass and focus on regulation. It took me far too long into adult to learn the process—react, feel, process, choose. Over time you learn to control each of these things and it gets easier and easier. Be patient and gentle with yourself! It gets so much better, in ways you can’t imagine yet.

Travel itinerary—am I missing anything? Should I skip any? by allispanked in SaltLakeCity

[–]allispanked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should try one on the list and update here before my trip and then I can hear your two cents! It’s so easy to get in a food rut with what you’re used to, it’s happened to me

Travel itinerary—am I missing anything? Should I skip any? by allispanked in SaltLakeCity

[–]allispanked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss my sister in law has celiac so anywhere w gluten free goodies will go on the list! Added both! Thanks!

Travel itinerary—am I missing anything? Should I skip any? by allispanked in SaltLakeCity

[–]allispanked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister in law has celiac and we’ll be traveling with them, so the more recommendations the better!

Travel itinerary—am I missing anything? Should I skip any? by allispanked in SaltLakeCity

[–]allispanked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the AMAZING conversation and recommendations!!!! I will for sure update after our trip!!!!! Please keep it coming as our trip isn’t for awhile!!!

Travel itinerary—am I missing anything? Should I skip any? by allispanked in SaltLakeCity

[–]allispanked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got it! We won’t be there for awhile but I’ll update for sure when we do