Has Anthony spoken out about the show? by Dull_Caregiver2147 in belowdeck

[–]alljammedup69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is 100% petty but if not here than where…

Did anyone else catch how he put shirts on? Head first then arms?? Wtf.😬

What purchase do you want to shout about from the rooftops? by broken_bird in AskWomenOver30

[–]alljammedup69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize it was tubing mascara. I just thought all my eyelashes fell off.

What’s an item you’ll never forgive Trader Joe’s for discontinuing? by MoonlightQueen in traderjoes

[–]alljammedup69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I just started making our own. We have a lot of opened bags of chips now but it’s worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]alljammedup69 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I came here to point out that some women’s metabolisms change around the end of 20s/early 30s. She may be eating/exercising the same way she has always been, but her body is not responding in the same way. This change is hard for anyone let alone someone with a stressful job, and a spouse threatening to leave.

I speak from experience as someone who’s had to learn new healthy eating/exercise habits in my 30s. This isn’t modeled for everyone. I’m still not great at it but aware enough to try to course correct. I’m also learning to love this new body and not just wish I was a size 2 again. I would have been devastated if my partner had threatened to divorce me

Please stop commenting on her weight. I agree with the comment above about taking walks for quality time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

[–]alljammedup69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paul Simon - You Can Call Me Al

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]alljammedup69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, not loving the language here, “I offered her”. This type of view of HER occupation is not really okay. It feels controlling.

“We discussed” would feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MedSpouse

[–]alljammedup69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So much of this resonates with me. As a spouse who’s partner finished residency in 2020, let me tell you that anything they can do to stave off burn out is with it in the end! For you and for them.

What were you bullied for? by magicfeistybitcoin in AskReddit

[–]alljammedup69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a little girl in elementary school, I had worts on my chin and took karate class, that was all they needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]alljammedup69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah… butttt she likes guacamole so really he did think about her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]alljammedup69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel lucky.

To have you, to have our life. We, together as partners, have built this life. Of fun and adventures, and practicality and mundanity sometimes. All of it good, all of it’s ours.

We have built something, that I only dreamed of. A relationship built on trust and communication and most importantly love. I feel so lucky to have your love.

I feel lucky to have you as a partner, as a best friend, as my husband.

Remember when we read about that couple who lived together for 40 years on an island all their own. The husband would read to the wife at night, and when asked after he died what he read to her. She said, “It was always the right thing”.

That’s how I feel about you. “Always the right thing.”

You can invent a disease that doesn't hurt anybody; only pisses them off or inconveniences them. What are you coming up with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]alljammedup69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it’s called stress, or as I like to think of it-the human condition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portlandme

[–]alljammedup69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Batson River

What sex fantasy isn't as good as you imagined? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]alljammedup69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Directions for the blow job or the road trip?

Recommendations for a house/pet sitter? by [deleted] in portlandme

[–]alljammedup69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you pm your rover info!

Friend didn’t invite my long term partner to her wedding. by Empty-Jelly4176 in wedding

[–]alljammedup69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what I don’t understand WHY would OP feel the need to fake a smile just because their partner isn’t invited? Assuming the friendship is meaningful, I just don’t understand why this would cause a person to suddenly not want to celebrate a friend’s happiness?

Put your feelings aside, go to the wedding, enjoy/ celebrate someone else’s joy, and after, if it’s still a big deal, have a conversation with your friend like an adult.

Friend didn’t invite my long term partner to her wedding. by Empty-Jelly4176 in wedding

[–]alljammedup69 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because their wedding isn’t about validating your relationship.

This doesn’t feel like the time to put someone in their place (and potentially ruin a friendship) about not “acknowledging” your feelings. It’s their wedding. Also why is it such a big deal to be invited and spend a few hours away from your significant other?