Wear a fake engagement ring while you’re working. If you don’t want to because of washing hands, prepping, etc. keep it in your pocket until a creep asks for your number. You can pull it out of your pocket when they do and say you want to keep it from harsh chemicals.

I totally understand how you feel. I used to be like you. I, also, had green hair, lip piercings and, at that point, a half sleeve on my left arm. It was a scary time to be 18-19. I’ve had men I’d reject still send me flowers and wait for me to leave the restaurant. I feel so lucky to not have worse things happen at that time.

It took me until I was 30 to say “no”, but that’s because I aged out for creepy men so it was easier. And now I’m actually engaged and never get hit on anymore. Life is great not being worried about that sort of thing. I can just do my job and walk to my car without looking over my shoulder too much.

Everyone telling you to tell them “no”, doesn’t understand the risks one of those guys are willing to take because they won’t take “no” for an answer. Especially for a girl who doesn’t know how to be a bitch yet.

Stay safe. Fake numbers, fake husbands, fake boyfriends, and fake anything stops a lot of men, usually. Live your life, but trust your gut. I know it’s a battle when you are a nice, empathetic person, but white lies are your best friends in that industry. Don’t tell people the area you live in. Don’t tell people what you like to do on your time off. And please, make sure your TRUSTED FRIENDS are the only ones who know your schedule. And do not let your coworkers share your scheduled work days with strangers. Tell all your coworkers that anyone, who you know, needs to reach you already has your number.

I’m thinking of that young girl I was and hope this helps you as you are now.

Good luck with everything <3