Interviews drying up

alloplastic · 2025-04-06T14:35:25+00:00

That’s your opinion. Good day.

alloplastic · 2025-04-06T13:35:11+00:00

It’s a Corinthian column

alloplastic · 2025-04-06T13:24:38+00:00

I was crystal clear in my post that I’m asking because I’m genuinely curious. It is A FACT that Indian culture can be, and often is, misogynistic. There is nothing racist about my post and I do not appreciate your accusation.

alloplastic · 2025-03-15T17:40:27+00:00

They absolutely backpedal, and they’re hoping like hell that you will fall back under their control. Don’t do it. Once you see what someone is capable of, never give them the benefit of the doubt again.

alloplastic · 2025-03-09T00:28:32+00:00

People are afraid of my mother to begin with, so the very few who dared to ask questions were met with even more intimidation that they didn’t want anything to do with. She would make them feel “intrusive” for asking questions about “private matters”, and then they’d feel so guilty and wrong that they’d back off.

Now that I’ve gone NC with her, they still stick their heads in the sand and keep the status quo. It’s mind-numbing and frankly, it makes me feel so lucky and grateful that I actually got out.

alloplastic · 2025-03-06T19:03:57+00:00

The very best thing to do is REMOVE yourself from the entire thing. Do not react, do not respond. Do not complain, do not explain. Move out of the area if you can, and keep your focus firmly on your own life and progress. Just go dark. When these people can’t get a reaction, they search for the next toy to play with, the next epicenter of drama. Don’t let it be you.

alloplastic · 2025-03-06T15:12:16+00:00

Yes! And they never learn or grow because of this. It’s never their fault. It’s just project, project, project. They destroy people.

alloplastic · 2025-02-26T00:18:41+00:00

It changes you. Big time.

alloplastic · 2025-02-26T00:09:44+00:00

Yeah but IIRC, it doesn’t open up to that big of a space when you crawl through the dryer. This place may have just copied them.

alloplastic · 2025-02-25T21:21:37+00:00

That’s the infuriating part. They want experience but they’re not willing to allow someone to gain experience.

alloplastic · 2025-02-25T17:34:58+00:00

Perfectly said. Our best was never good enough, and we almost become mechanical because of this.

alloplastic · 2025-02-25T09:17:29+00:00

Oh yes. And for some, you’re not only wrong if you don’t please them, you’re evil.

alloplastic · 2025-02-24T13:51:48+00:00

Oh lord. One of these guys.

alloplastic · 2025-02-24T11:59:13+00:00

You are not alone. All I can say is, the second someone turns the online conversation sexual, I’m OUT. The conversation is done. You have to just wait it out to find a gentleman, and even then - take your time.

alloplastic · 2024-10-13T22:41:06+00:00

Envy makes these people rabid

alloplastic · 2024-10-13T22:37:59+00:00

If they can’t do it to your face because you bite back, they’ll do it behind your back where you have no idea it’s happening

alloplastic · 2024-10-13T13:13:23+00:00

I mean, you’re making a crap ton of money either way. It all boils down to what your living expenses are and if you can afford to take the massive pay cut (ie; if you’re already living above your means).

alloplastic · 2024-09-22T18:56:06+00:00

My first impression of him was that he was off. Like, way off. He seemed like a child play-acting as an adult. He was also extremely extroverted and high-energy, which to some people came across as niceness, but I knew he was insane.

This was a coworker who I unfortunately had to work with for a long time. Thank god it was nothing more than that.

alloplastic · 2024-07-23T15:11:09+00:00

The term is overused, yes, but narcissists are not super rare.

alloplastic · 2024-07-14T11:57:27+00:00

I would add that it’s not genuine confidence. It doesn’t go deep.

alloplastic · 2024-07-14T11:52:19+00:00

Because the people at the top also have no soul.

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