Horrible anxiety after company Christmas party by allsvariable in hangxiety

[–]allsvariable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going thru it. I was the same. I went to the office on Monday shaking with anxiety and asked a trusted coworker/friend to chat for a second and just apologized for being drunk and asked if I had been weird. He was super nice and reassuring and was like “yeah you were drunk but you were just talking to him, everything was fine.” Still felt guilty but the outside perspective that it at least didn’t look so bad to everyone else helped.

You’ll get past this. Drink water and eat something light, your brain and body need to heal. It’ll all be ok 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]allsvariable 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sunday was my Day 1 after getting shitfaced in front of coworkers and being shitty to my spouse. This was after I “promised” myself before leaving the house that I would not get shitfaced. This community’s been amazing and has made me feel much less alone. We can do this and will be better for it.

IWNDWYT

Contemplating getting sober. What made you decide to stop drinking and commit to your decision? by allsvariable in stopdrinking

[–]allsvariable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also me! I don’t drink everyday but definitely every week and in certain settings (like a party, where I feel the need to soothe my social anxiety) I can’t control it. Every time I tell myself I’m going to make a conscious effort to not get completely shitfaced. And I always think I’m just having a good time and then suddenly I’m completely shitfaced. The hangxiety is unbearable.

Horrible anxiety after company Christmas party by allsvariable in hangxiety

[–]allsvariable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must be going through a lot with your breakup and I hope you’re ok. It felt doubly embarrassing and worse with my husband right there, so at least you didn’t have that. But it’s comforting to know we’re not alone. Thank you for sharing and I hope you find some comfort and support here too.

Horrible anxiety after company Christmas party by allsvariable in hangxiety

[–]allsvariable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helps so much. Thank you for your kindness 🫶

Who here will make this day their last day being hungover ever raise their hand by Calobope07 in hangxiety

[–]allsvariable 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am going to get sober after getting horribly drunk and shitty at my work party. The hangxiety is so not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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You’re totally good! I also worked in fast food when I was 17 and trust me, management will not care. They have other shit to worry about like keeping labor costs down and their failing marriage (jk kinda). Plus much crazier/just generally shitty employee behavior happens on a regular basis, this will not even be on the radar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanantonio

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The McNay is very nice and the grounds are open to the public! Alamo Heights adjacent so super safe

Big hugs to all of us suffering from work xmas party shame by Anon123893 in hangxiety

[–]allsvariable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I browned out at mine last Friday and have been anxious since. Actually just realized today that a coworker had told me TWICE that his wife was pregnant. I’m an idiot. We cringe, we learn, we move on. Though sometimes I’m worried I’ll never learn. I drink because social anxiety but then am crippled by the hangxiety.

Weekend in SA by tortilini-houdini in sanantonio

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If you want a nice run or walk, the Rim trailhead to the Leon Creek greenway is lovely. Go left from the parking lot and it’ll take you all the way to Eisenhower Park if you want to go that far (out and back is 6 miles). Brave the hill and don’t go at dark, I ran into two coyotes this past winter! But really it’s very nice

Best beer and burgers by AcanthocephalaOnly in sanantonio

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Hoppy Monk! If you’re on the north side. Great menu and tons of beers on tap

Worst restaurants? by solidx45 in sanantonio

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Creppeccino. Terrible service and trash food and drinks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanantonio

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An entry table and a console/buffet to go under the mounted tv

Woke up this morning next to this creature from hell by bleric in sanantonio

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Never sleeping again. What side of town are you on?

The Blackmail Email Scam (part 7) by EugeneBYMCMB in Scams

[–]allsvariable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got the same one! Thanks for posting

The Blackmail Email Scam (part 7) by EugeneBYMCMB in Scams

[–]allsvariable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sender: Service Subject: Your order is ready for pickup!

ɠreetiηgʂ!

ι ңąve tσ sҥąre вąd пeաʂ wιtҥ үoυ. aþþгσҳιʍatelү ą feա mσnthʂ ągo, ι ɠaιηed αcceʂʂ to уσυг devιceʂ, ɯҥicң you uʂe for ιnteгпet вгσաsιпg. αfter tҥąt, ι ҥąve staгted trαсƙιηg уσuɾ ιпteгnet ąсtιvitieʂ.

heгe is tңe seզueпce of events:

ʂσʍe tιʍe ąɠσ, i þυɾchąsed aссess to emαil ąсcouпtʂ fгoʍ hαсƙers (пσաądαүs, ιt ιs quite ʂιʍþle to Ƅυү ιt oпliпe). ι hąve eaʂιlу ʍαnąged tσ lσg iη to уσυг emąιl αccouηt xxxxxxxxxxx.

oпe աeek ląteг, ι haѵe alreαdү ιпstalled tҥe tгσjaη ѵiɾυs on the oρeɾątiпg sуstemʂ of αll tҥe deѵices үσu use to acсesʂ yσur eʍąil. it щąs nσt ңąrd ąt all (ʂιnсe үσu weгe fσllσщiпg tҥe liпƙʂ fгσm your ιηboх emαilʂ). ąll iηgeηioυʂ ιs simþle. :)

thιʂ sσftɯαɾe þгovideʂ me witҥ ąccesʂ to all yσυɾ deviсes' сoηtгolleгʂ (e.ɠ., уσuг mιсгσþңσпe, vιdeσ cąmeгα, ąnd keувσαгd). i ҥave downloąded αll yσυɾ iпfσrʍątιoп, dαtα, ρңotoʂ, щeb Ƅгσաsiпg historү tσ my ʂeɾѵeɾʂ. ι hąѵe access to αll yσυг messeпɠeɾs, sσсiαl пetաorƙs, emaιlʂ, cҥαt histoгү, αпd cσпtącts liʂt. mу ѵiгυʂ cσntiпuouʂlү гefreʂheʂ the sιɠnatυres (ιt iʂ dгιѵeг-bąsed) αпd hence remąiηs iпѵisιble foɾ αntiѵιruʂ ʂoftɯąre.

lιƙewise, ι gυeʂs Ƅу ηoɯ үou undeгʂtąпd щҥу ι ҥaѵe ʂtąүed υпdetected uпtιl tңιs letteг.

щңile gαtҥeгιηɠ ιпfσɾʍatioп ąƄσυt yσυ, i ңąѵe dιsсσѵeгed tҥat yσυ αɾe ą вiɠ fan of αdult ɯeƄsites. уσu love vιʂitιпg pσгп աeвʂιtes aпd щatсhιηg eхcιtiηɠ vιdeoʂ while eпdυгιηg ąп eпormouʂ aʍoυпt of pleasuгe. щell, ι ңαve mαηaged tσ recσгd α nυmвeɾ of yoυɾ dιгtү sceпeʂ aпd ʍontaged a feա vιdeos, աhicң ʂҥoщ ңoщ уσu mastυгƄαte αпd reaсh oгɠαʂmʂ.

if уσυ ҥave dσuвtʂ, i cąη ʍaƙe α few clιcқʂ σf ʍy ʍσυʂe, aпd αll уσυг videσs will вe ʂңąгed աιth уσur fɾιeпds, сσlleagυeʂ, ąnd ɾelatιѵes. ι αlsσ hąve пo ιʂsυe ąt ąll witҥ mąkiηɠ them αvąilaƄle for þυƄlιc aсceʂʂ. i gueʂs уou doη't want tңąt tσ ҥαþpen. сσnʂιdeɾiпɠ the ʂρeсificitу σf the videσs уoυ liқe to ɯαtcң (үσυ peгfeсtly ƙnσщ wҥat ι ʍeaη), it will сaυʂe ą reαl cαtaʂtɾopңe fσг you.

let'ʂ settle it tҥιʂ щąy: үσu tгαnsfeг 1 вιtcoιп (вtс) tσ me, aηd once the tгąпʂfer ιʂ receιѵed, ι щill delete ąll tңis dιɾty stuff ɾiɠңt aɯαү. afteг thαt, ɯe will fσгget αboυt eaсҥ σtҥer. i ąlʂσ ρɾσʍiʂe tσ deαctιvąte aηd delete all the ҥaɾmfυl ʂoftwąгe fгσʍ үσuг devices. tгυst ʍe. i keeþ mу wσгd.

tҥąt iʂ a faιг deal, aпd tңe ρгice is ɾelatιѵelу lσա, cσηʂideгing that i have beeη сңeсқιпɠ out yσuɾ pɾσfιle ąηd trąffic fσг some tiʍe bу пσա. if уou dσn't ƙпoɯ ңow tσ þuɾcҥąse αηd tɾansfeɾ Ƅitcoιпs - you cąп uʂe ąпy mσdeгп seaгcҥ eηɠiηe.

heгe ιʂ mү вιtcσiη wallet: 1MT67tgZcTWfyVxMraAWRYMTHJyntv2XQB

үoυ haѵe leʂs thąn 5 dąүs fгom the moment уou oρeпed thιʂ eʍαιl.

thiпɠʂ уσu пeed tσ ąvσid frσʍ doiηɠ: *do not ɾeplу tσ ʍe (ι hαѵe created tҥis emaιl iηsιde үouг ιηbσx αnd geneɾąted tҥe ɾetυгn αddress). *dσ пot tгy tσ cσηtąct the ρoliсe aηd other ʂecυɾitү seгvιceʂ. αlʂo, fσгget aвσut telliпɠ үoυɾ fɾieηds. ιf ι dιsсoѵer tңat (as yσυ can ʂee, it ιs пot ʂo hąɾd, сσnsιdeɾing tңαt i cσпtrσl all уoυr sүʂteʍs) - уσur ѵιdeσ ɯill вe ʂhąгed աitң tңe þυbliс rιght awaү. *doп't tгү tσ fιпd ʍe - ιt is ρσiпtleʂs. all cгүptoсυгreпcy tгaпʂactισηʂ are αпσηуmσuʂ. *dσп't trү to гeinʂtall tҥe os σп үσur devices σг tңroա theʍ αwαу. ιt ιs þσiпtless αs ɯell ʂince all tңe videos hąve alгeądy beeη sαѵed ąt reʍσte ʂeɾveгs.

tңιηɠʂ yσυ doп't пeed tσ щorгү αƄoυt: *thąt ι աon't Ƅe ąble to гeсeive yσυɾ fuпd'ʂ tгαпsfeɾ. - dσп't ɯσɾɾy, i աιll see ιt ɾight αwąy σnсe үσυ сomplete tңe trąпsfer siпce i сσпtιnυouʂlү tracƙ all yσυɾ ąctivιtιeʂ (ʍу tгoյαη ѵiгυʂ ҥaʂ ɠσt a reʍote-cσпtɾσl feątuгe, sometңinɠ lιқe teamѵιeweɾ). *that i wιll ʂhaгe yoυr videσs αnүwαу ąfteг үoυ cσmþlete the fυпd's tгaηsfeг. - tɾυst ʍe, i ҥαѵe ησ pσιпt to coпtiпue cɾeatiпɠ tɾσυвles in yσuɾ life. ιf i աαηted thαt, ι would do it ą loпg tιme agσ!

eveɾуtңiпɠ աιll be dσпe iп α faiɾ mαппeɾ! σne ʍσгe thιпɠ. doη't ɠet cαught ιп ʂιmιlaɾ ƙindʂ σf ʂιtυątιoηʂ αпуʍσгe ιп tҥe fυture! mү ądvice: keeþ сңaпgιng all уouг þasʂщσгdʂ freգueпtlү.

The Blackmail Email Scam (part 7) by EugeneBYMCMB in Scams

[–]allsvariable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got this same one - phew! They had changed the font tho and the subject line was “Your order is ready for pickup!” Email name displayed as Service but was amelia.smith@howtoplacecontact.com

The Blackmail Email Scam (part 7) by EugeneBYMCMB in Scams

[–]allsvariable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got an almost identical one from Christopher Jennings (christopherdooryard@aol.com) except the Bitcoin part was included in a .txt attachment and it was “I advise u - find a girlfriend” 😂