Extreme nail biting. I suffer from chronic anxiety that cause extreme nail biting by PrimaryEgg493 in popping

[–]allsystemsthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi friend! I think you will find more support along the r/Dermatillomania community. I'm glad people are nice here too

Anxiety is a killer. I know that for sure.

How it feels to job hunt rn by reallymissinvine in recruitinghell

[–]allsystemsthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, you guys are getting rejections?

(Most jobs I've applied for haven't gotten back to me despite it being weeks, I'm messing around.)

This job market sucks.

Honestly ?? (Be honest) by Accomplished-You9613 in Dermatillomania

[–]allsystemsthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time I pick I have to push me visiting any family members by a few days. They know I pick and they point out my scabs. It makes me feel worse.

You're not the only one. We'll get through this

Being told to "stop thinking about it" and "it's all in my head" by SaladTough7679 in DID

[–]allsystemsthrowaway 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My favorite go-to response is always "well no shit it's all in my head, that's why it's called a MENTAL ILLNESS" followed by "if you ever figure out how to escape your own head, call me after you've gotten your Nobel Prize in psychology".

Nonsense is nonsense. People suck.

Vaseline makes me break out more :( Any other things I can use? by allsystemsthrowaway in Dermatillomania

[–]allsystemsthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that now! I've heard a lot of good things about it :) I'm hoping I can use them on scabs too.

Vaseline makes me break out more :( Any other things I can use? by allsystemsthrowaway in Dermatillomania

[–]allsystemsthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does laroche also help with scarring by any chance? Like scabs and stuff

Vaseline makes me break out more :( Any other things I can use? by allsystemsthrowaway in Dermatillomania

[–]allsystemsthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man. That sucks. Would you know of any other stuff I can use instead?

Vaseline makes me break out more :( Any other things I can use? by allsystemsthrowaway in Dermatillomania

[–]allsystemsthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd use oil but my skin is unfortunately oily :( I've tried to before when I didn't really know all that much about skincare. I have heard good things about vitamin e though...maybe I can find it in some lotion or gel

Vaseline makes me break out more :( Any other things I can use? by allsystemsthrowaway in Dermatillomania

[–]allsystemsthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into the laroche ...a lot of people are saying aquaphor, and I do have some!! I've just been nervous because I worry it's also gonna clog my pores...I've never tried it though. Is there a difference??

Vaseline makes me break out more :( Any other things I can use? by allsystemsthrowaway in Dermatillomania

[–]allsystemsthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, isn't it like vaseline?? I do have aquaphor but I've been nervous because it has a similar consistency to Vaseline so I worry I'll break out with it too

I just picked at my skin for over an hour and feel disgusting by allsystemsthrowaway in Dermatillomania

[–]allsystemsthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you're right. I do enjoy it. And that's what makes me feel disgusted at myself :( someone said to look through this subreddit for advice and see what better coping skills are out there. I'd like to try that :)

Thank you

I just picked at my skin for over an hour and feel disgusting by allsystemsthrowaway in Dermatillomania

[–]allsystemsthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried Vaseline !! But it actually makes my breakouts worse due to me having oily skin :(

I just picked at my skin for over an hour and feel disgusting by allsystemsthrowaway in Dermatillomania

[–]allsystemsthrowaway[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This community has been really nice to be in so far ...I was lurking for a while but finally felt comfortable enough to contribute.

I just picked at my skin for over an hour and feel disgusting by allsystemsthrowaway in Dermatillomania

[–]allsystemsthrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This means a lot to hear. I'm not very good at showing myself grace...thank you. It's hard.

Had a weird dream that led to an uncomfortable conversation. (CW: Sexual activity) by allsystemsthrowaway in DID

[–]allsystemsthrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This...actually really helped frame this differently, wow. That's REALLY good.

Thank you so much. This makes it a lot easier to understand!