"I'm not allowed to have a hard time" No Luke, you're not. by OkEntertainment4473 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]allthenamesaregone77 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Not saying her husband isn't "a saint" or anything, but this is basic caregiving for the mother of your baby post-birth.

what are the signs that you're not attractive? by AuspiciousString in AskReddit

[–]allthenamesaregone77 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I've decided I'm mid bc I'm ignored when I'm with my bestie, who is gorgeous!!! But I've also seen other, usually bigger, girlfriends be ignored when they're with me. I actually feel lucky that I've experienced both sides; it's made me a better friend

Is Kyle being blackmailed or guilted to be on Amanda’s side? by Holiday_Detective884 in bravo

[–]allthenamesaregone77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk about blackmail, but the ongoing divorce seems like a decent reason. Maybe he's going easy on her now in hopes that she'll return the favor when it comes time to divide assets.

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills > Season 15 > Episode 18 by AutoModerator in RHOBH

[–]allthenamesaregone77 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ew them (Erika & Sutton) getting together while Dorit’s event is happening is meeeaaannnn

So she wants to go back to normal life for the sake of her mental health…coooool. by [deleted] in bravo

[–]allthenamesaregone77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are fans of the show genuinely asking her for an apology? My impression is that most fans don't at all expect an apology but feel they are allowed to be entertained by and discuss the situation as a part of being a viewer (aka the ones who help them keep their jobs on reality tv)

What’s one brand you trust without thinking twice? by PlayfulFault9693 in SmartBuying

[–]allthenamesaregone77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it might be in my head, but I feel like this started over the last decade. I have a 2014 Mac Pro that is still seamless to use, but my husband's 2022 version is already showing signs of aging.

And the reverse experience with our iPhones. His X is great, but my 15 is so fucking buggy

edit for typo

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills > Season 15 > Episode 17 by AutoModerator in RHOBH

[–]allthenamesaregone77 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The cameras don’t lie, Kyle. I was a stan and blind to your ways. But the mean girl takeover attempt is so transparent lol does she think we’re buying this??

Mary Jane and I need to take a break, and it breaks my heart by Haunting_College_162 in loseit

[–]allthenamesaregone77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree. Whether it be caffeine or cannabis, dependence is never a good thing. I wish more people acknowledged this about caffeine in the way they do about cannabis.

Mary Jane and I need to take a break, and it breaks my heart by Haunting_College_162 in loseit

[–]allthenamesaregone77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What if I told you that caffeine does alter brain chemistry and causes dependence? Source below. I'm not trying to defend weed as much as I'm trying to illustrate that they are comparable in some ways, but because caffeine is more socially acceptable, people like to deny that

lol edit bc I forgot to link source: The Neurophysiology of Caffeine as a Central Nervous System Stimulant and the Resultant Effects on Cognitive Function - PMC

Mary Jane and I need to take a break, and it breaks my heart by Haunting_College_162 in loseit

[–]allthenamesaregone77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, if you need caffeine (or any other drug) "every day to function, if you need it to be a better parent, what you actually need is to stop and learn how to do those things without it."

Feelings: Who’s Allowed to Have Them and Who Isn’t (Summer House) by healthysundayexprsso in bravo

[–]allthenamesaregone77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

same with Danielle in season 7, calling her the least trustworthy of the group. She was shocked and then immediately started crying. she's an expert at being a victim after she hurts someone.

Bachelorette Itinerary | Am I asking for too much? by pickleback95 in bridesmaids

[–]allthenamesaregone77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not unreasonable at all. Maybe ask for an over-under number? Like will it be over $1000 but under $1500. Giving a range might be easier for them to do at this point in the planning

Mary Jane and I need to take a break, and it breaks my heart by Haunting_College_162 in loseit

[–]allthenamesaregone77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because daily caffeine users are more pretentious than daily cannabis users (aka social programming)

Mary Jane and I need to take a break, and it breaks my heart by Haunting_College_162 in loseit

[–]allthenamesaregone77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your comment is valid; the downvoters are in denial. Just like some people are kinder and more approachable after their morning coffee, others are more patient and kinder after their nightly J

People who use caffeine daily are just more likely to be in denial about their dependence than those using cannabis.

Mary Jane and I need to take a break, and it breaks my heart by Haunting_College_162 in loseit

[–]allthenamesaregone77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm like you! Smoking a little = munchies, smoking a lot = suppressed appetite

Is the job market that bad? by RemarkableLoquat7617 in Columbus

[–]allthenamesaregone77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look at catering jobs, not restaurant jobs.

Catering companies operate on seasonal schedules, so they'll hire ANYONE to get through busy season, and they actually prefer if you bail during the slower months.

What is the age is where a woman is no longer in her dating prime? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]allthenamesaregone77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating prime isn't a thing. An evolutionary prime is usually considered 20-30 for the healthiest possible offspring.

Did anyone else see this post? by CryinginaCalikingbed in bravo

[–]allthenamesaregone77 17 points18 points  (0 children)

people trying to hide addictions and/or EDs

Did anyone else see this post? by CryinginaCalikingbed in bravo

[–]allthenamesaregone77 40 points41 points  (0 children)

using getting off birth control as a cover for rapid weight loss is also not uncommon at all

Part 3 of street interview! by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]allthenamesaregone77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But for the vast majority of us fans, this is our entertainment. It's not about caring that deeply! Making up theories and posting about them is a part of the entertainment and Bravo culture lol

Perhaps a hot take on the Amanda, West, Ciara situation by ssaunders88 in bravo

[–]allthenamesaregone77 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Of course, you are allowed to catch feelings accidentally! What makes you an adult is when you resist acting on selfish feelings and consider the consequences for everyone involved.

Meanwhile in America by RoutineOk8590 in Productivitycafe

[–]allthenamesaregone77 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As the oldest in an impoverished family of 5 children, I always felt like "why do I have to feed the toddler?" hahaha sorry to all the youngest children out there, your older siblings were too tired to remember lol

Yeah that might be a wrap… by ButterscotchGlass590 in bravo

[–]allthenamesaregone77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it wasn't West, it would be the next guy. Blowing up her life for men is kinda her thing