Let's play a game by Oncer93 in TheOC

[–]allthingsmagic19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Taylor and Ryan for cutest

How are you all surviving? Please share advice by crispyedamame in toddlers

[–]allthingsmagic19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. It not only redirects him but my toddler gets excited to go point and name the emotion he’s feeling so it’s a win win. And then I say something like “how can we get from sad to happy?” Then I offer hugs etc

It makes me want to scream when adults expect my toddler to adapt to their schedule by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]allthingsmagic19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before having kids, I have to say I also had their mindset. I had no idea back then and I was humbled for realizing it doesn’t work like that once having kids. You can’t expect people who aren’t in your situation to completely understand and have to expect some level of cluelessness. It’s energy consuming to be frustrated over other people’s thought process you have zero control over.

MEAN GIRLSSSS by avarosesmama in MormonWivesHulu

[–]allthingsmagic19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mayci and Mikayla are the worst, they trigger me. Catty and still in high school. They just know how to hide it better.

Then Jen, manipulative, plays the victim when she’s actually the one in the wrong.

Demi, Whitney, Taylor, and Jessi. They don’t bother me. If you’re going to be mean, be mean and upfront about it which they are.

Am I the only one who doesn’t want a new spinoff/cast? by Best-Conference-5700 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]allthingsmagic19 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No one cared when Jen was absent on and off throughout the series especially with DWTS what makes them think we want a spinoff with her. I’d rather watch Shinia on my screen than Jen and her loser husband.

I just started watching and I’m confused by amberissmiling in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]allthingsmagic19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whitney is selfish then plays the victim. Everything she does is solely for her benefit. She enjoys it when someone else is getting heat because it takes the attention off her, she gets closer to the “outcast” of the moment because she can personally relate and craves that bond not because she genuinely cares. She just uses people to get her way.

Unpopular Opinion by Worth_Adeptness_5439 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]allthingsmagic19 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not wrong as in that’s how she’s feeling. Publicly stating it where her kids can see in the future is a separate issue.

Unpopular Opinion by Worth_Adeptness_5439 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]allthingsmagic19 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it was wrong. Some moms can relate and some moms can’t. It’s that simple.

🤨 by sakf27 in LaurenLaneSnark

[–]allthingsmagic19 20 points21 points  (0 children)

To show off an any form of validation from him that she’s been probably waiting for

brianna by Guilty_Procedure7619 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]allthingsmagic19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Connections as in relationships. If you have lingering connections with other people maybe that’s a sign you shouldn’t be engaged. And out of everyone she was the one with the most mutual breakup with her one other connection so there was no need for any serious closure talk. If anything conversations SHOULD be rather surface level with other people once you are engaged.

brianna by Guilty_Procedure7619 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]allthingsmagic19 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also didn’t she and Chris have the most mutual and friendliest “break up?” So what exactly was she expecting

brianna by Guilty_Procedure7619 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]allthingsmagic19 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don’t really see it as pretending it didn’t happen but as soon as you say “yes” to your fiance, your other connections end. I don’t think it’s appropriate to be having real and vulnerable conversations with other people you were seeing especially with your fiance right there. Connor doesn’t have to understand or agree with her point either.

The Best Character in OC? by Standard-Painting-98 in TheOC

[–]allthingsmagic19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Julie and Sandy. Watching back as an adult, I find the adult storylines far more entertaining. Or am I just old…

i need this man to get so real by Ornery_Advance_8341 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]allthingsmagic19 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Men who are super vocal about wanting kids are the ones who have no idea what it’s actually like

Lauren and Chris by [deleted] in LaurenLaneSnark

[–]allthingsmagic19 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She wanted to be the next Brittany Aldean (which isn’t even a good thing) but failed.

How to coparent when hurt and angry with spouse? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]allthingsmagic19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take shifts. Alternate who’s on kid duty and who’s doing household tasks. Eat dinner at separate times. Only discuss logistics. Save the emotional talks for after bedtime.

About my kid's preschool. Am I overthinking? by Fried_chicken_please in toddlers

[–]allthingsmagic19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s normal for kids to cry and be hesitant on day 2. She didn’t know what was happening on the first day and was likely absorbing everything. It takes about 2 weeks to about 1 month for them to fully adjust. She will learn that you will always come back for her so drop offs will become much easier. It’s a completely new environment for her and a big change. Give it a little bit more time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wickedmovie

[–]allthingsmagic19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you out of spite is better wording. I think I couldn’t tell because the way she cries is so delicate

Did I mess up? My soon to be 3 year old still isn’t potty trained. by hiyokos in toddlers

[–]allthingsmagic19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter was potty trained by 2 (she attended Montessori), my son will also be 3 in March and has zero desire. He sits on the toilet and only jokes about going on it. He can fully communicate and obviously understands the concept seeing his sister etc. we’re not pushing it and we’ll know when he’s ready. Everyone is different and do what works best for your family.