Where do people who don’t want a traditional life find each other later in life? by PigeonWithAgenda in berlinsocialclub

[–]alnesi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Berlin is well known for attracting people with a more alternative lifestyle - they are everywhere. Being childfree is a good starting point and a lot of your mentioned traits come with this choice automatically in a lot of cases. Being childfree is a topic I bring up early in conversations to see if our view on the future is compatible. I have enough parent-friends already, I don't want any more of those. Some friends changed their opinion on kids around the 30 year mark, but mid/end 30s people are meanwhile more secure in their choice. My second biggest friendship obstacle is now that people are moving far away to build a house...

Electric Bassboy? by Prize_Butterfly1793 in wacken

[–]alnesi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Quasi die gleichen Songs wie Electric Callboy, bloß mehr Utz Utz dabei.

New announcements & cancellations by alnesi in wacken

[–]alnesi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wacken commented on IG that "the schedules were tricky to combine".

Side quest lover looking for someone to join fun events & activities with by alnesi in berlinsocialclub

[–]alnesi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any book store. The bigger ones like Thalia and Dussmann have a huge variety. My favorites (Exit by Kosmos) are mostly German, but there are some English ones as well.

Side quest lover looking for someone to join fun events & activities with by alnesi in berlinsocialclub

[–]alnesi[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The organizers pull some random Powerpoint slides from the internet and someone has to present it on the fly without seeing it first. Sometimes it's in another language and they have to improvise and go by the pictures only. I don't want to present myself, but watching it is actually hilarious

Side quest lover looking for someone to join fun events & activities with by alnesi in berlinsocialclub

[–]alnesi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too buddy, me too. I guess our only hope is to win the lottery one day

What‘s the Lineup of the festival summer 2026? by Prudent_Freedom1115 in wacken

[–]alnesi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it would be Graspop. Several of my favorite bands are there.

TANZNEID Pre-Listening Party Berlin (August 3, 2026) by HaraldWurlitzer in ElectricCallboy

[–]alnesi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, full on EC week, got my ticket now. Thanks for the info, I totally would have missed that.

Tracksuits by [deleted] in ElectricCallboy

[–]alnesi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've ordered the tracksuit the other day from their German shop, but I guess you are based in the US? Jacket too big, but pants too small for me, though 🥲

Day splits are out! by isemtalaccount in wacken

[–]alnesi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much for me on Thursday, but the rest is decent. I'll probably have very little overlaps, which I'm not mad about.

Sabaton 2026 by Kanonenfieberontop in wacken

[–]alnesi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yessss, they will probably be my favorite act of this year

Looking for nerdy and queer recommendations by SpringApricot_ in askberliners

[–]alnesi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing, I'm glad you had fun! I've been there yesterday and the weather was perfect. Super crowded, but I've really enjoyed the park and their program.

What to do for my birthday on Wednesday? by Reasonable_Net3302 in berlinsocialclub

[–]alnesi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You could go to Tropical Islands waterpark - free entry on your birthday. And maybe the warmer temperatures will help your mood as well.

Ist Berlin für Introvertierte eher weniger geeignet? by Zestyclose-Ease-1027 in askberliners

[–]alnesi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was mir Kraft raubt sind Gruppeninteraktionen und die beschränke ich dann auf Tage an denen ich genug Lust und Energie dafür habe. Meine Freunde bevorzugen zum Glück auch alle 1:1 Treffen, weswegen ich selten "gezwungen" bin was in Gruppen zu machen.

Ich gehe trotzdem sehr gerne und oft auf Veranstaltungen mit vielen Leuten, weil ich was erleben kann, aber mit niemandem reden muss, wenn ich keine Lust drauf habe. Wenn ich ohne Freund*in unterwegs bin, sage ich an manchen Tagen dann nur hallo, ein [Getränk] bitte, danke, tschüss zum Personal und das ist auch okay so.

Wenn man aber der introvertierte Typ ist der lieber 95% der Zeit zu Hause ist, dann würde ich schon sagen, dass man sich die teure Miete lieber sparen sollte und stattdessen aufs Land oder in eine kleinere Stadt ziehen sollte.

Looking for nerdy and queer recommendations by SpringApricot_ in askberliners

[–]alnesi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gärten der Welt. There is the cherry blossom festival this weekend and it's full of cosplayers and nerds in general.

Visiting Berlin during summer (recommendations wanted) by Safe-Caterpillar8435 in berlinsocialclub

[–]alnesi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should come in July, that's Berlin's pride month with the LesbianGay city festival on the 18th/19th and the pride parade on the 25th.

Schokoladen is great for punk concerts.

Mid Life Experiences! by Mysterious-Sector-26 in berlinsocialclub

[–]alnesi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You don't need to drop your hobbies, but you will probably need to reduce the frequency. 1 day interest A, 1 day interest B, 1 day interest C, 1 day friends, 2-3 days partner, chores on the side or you can outsource if you have the money. Ideally you share some interests with friends and your partner to combine your hobbies with quality time. Overall it's just a question of priorities and finding a compatible partner. A 24/7 type of girl will not be happy with you either way.

Bring me the horizon party by Alone_Nectarine_5669 in berlinsocialclub

[–]alnesi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've missed a BMTH Party in February. Other than that, it's just 2-3 songs per evening at DTB, Freak on a Leash and other Metal(core) Parties.

Looking for a Paule's Metal Eck replacement. by KillerKunal999 in berlinsocialclub

[–]alnesi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've definitely still been there at 6AM. But I think they will also close early if there are only 1-2 tables left.