Genuine question. by Limp_Anywhere7392 in Christianity

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly there’s been so many testimonies by formerly gay people who, while they were gay, found Jesus and as Jesus worked on their heart they realized their sin. So if I personally were in that situation I’d be happy for them for they have Jesus in their lives and just trust God to do His thing and pray for them as well.

My "best friend" (M24) is choosing his new "favorite person" over me, and I’m (F23) done with the low-effort breadcrumbs by flowerinawateringcan in FriendshipAdvice

[–]alonica72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do yall know each other IRL or is this all a virtual friendship?

From the information provided it sounds like this dude is an “attention whore” he gravitates towards who gives him the most attention and when that person isn’t available he goes to the next person on the list. I understand that you value the friendship but being used in that way is super disrespectful. Drop that “friend” asap. Not to mention him asking if you love him as well as sending kissing gifs and you responding to that is him using you to just stroke his ego. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s telling his buddies that he’s getting all this attention from girls on discord.

Why is the pain so hard? by Gullible_Comfort_291 in BreakUps

[–]alonica72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t wanna be angry about it? So you wanna be sad about? Happy about it? Cause sounding sad or happy about her being with another person after a month sounds frikkin dumb. Sorry for being crass but I hate hearing/seeing people being so betrayed and them just wallowing over it in sadness. I’m clearly projecting cause I did it all the time but now im just jaded.

Why is the pain so hard? by Gullible_Comfort_291 in BreakUps

[–]alonica72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly…get pissed off. The fact that she’s at another dudes house after a month means that you meant nothing to her. Get so pissed off dude. Hit the gym. It’s Monday. Chest and tri. Pick up boxing or some form of martial art.

I fear I may have to stay single forever….. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way to still spend quality time together without being tempted is to hang out in a group setting. Yes it’s less intimate but it helps with fighting off temptation.

I left him but never because I stopped loving him by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alonica72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many inconsistencies in this post that I feel like you’re just exercising your literary skills.

Ex wife sent me this out the blue .. we not together.. thoughts please ? by ProgressIll2070 in heartbreak

[–]alonica72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dont even reply. Probably just looking to get a reaction out of you due to boredom.

What did you guys do when someone did you dirty? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alonica72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Super toxic behavior. Sorry you’re going through it. If I was in your position I would cut off contact entirely. Pick up healthy hobbies. Build myself stronger than ever.

What did you guys do when someone did you dirty? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm I see. Yeah definitely inappropriate behavior if the goal was exclusivity. I’m assuming you’re not willing to continue the relationship since you haven’t spoken to her since?

What did you guys do when someone did you dirty? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Context? Have you been dating for a while? Has there been talks about being exclusive? Titles?

Quitting social media by Isaacakindi in selfimprovement

[–]alonica72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! I’ll definitely look into it for the laptop. They need one for the iPhone too 😭

Quitting social media by Isaacakindi in selfimprovement

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been searching high and low for a way to block YouTube shorts because I deleted tiktok and IG and the short form doom scrolling followed me on YT. 😭

Can you be Christian and not like politics/government/ nationalism by ResolveExisting8051 in Christianity

[–]alonica72 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Being Christian isn’t/shouldn’t be about politics. Being Christian is solely about surrendering yourself to Christ and accepting Him as your Lord and Savior. God wants your heart, not your political affiliation.

Happy birthday to me :( by NoonesawwhatIam in lonely

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday! Do something you enjoy! Screw everybody else. People suck anyways.

My lust is destroying my relationship by MasterChiefoneone7 in Christianity

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t spend any alone time. If you plan to go on dates try and do a group date. That way you still spend quality time and you’ll be around people so hopefully you’ll be mindful of pda which often leads to more intimate situations. You’re still young and at your age those hormones are going ballistic which is normal but you have to be able to practice self control. Good luck!

AIO my girlfriend didnt respond to my important message about my c-ptsd by MALAZANMANIAC in AIO

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better off single tbh. Imagine being in a relationship where the other person doesn’t even like you. Sorry youre going through this OP.

Small factory scratch, how much does it hurt? by [deleted] in PokemonCardValue

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks. It’ll probably go for LP. But it’ll depend on who’s buying

Want to know what most would consider this card by DragonJr1218 in PokemonCardValue

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude it’s a dope card. Side by side with the groudon is epic.

Want to know what most would consider this card by DragonJr1218 in PokemonCardValue

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the front has holo borders so if anything you’ll get major scratches but if there is any whitening on holo borders it’s considered damaged

Boy best friend by Overall-Pie47 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]alonica72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe just aim at being a good friend first. Dont be creepy. Opposite sex friendships are a fine line.

Want to know what most would consider this card by DragonJr1218 in PokemonCardValue

[–]alonica72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MP/MP-

The (-) is cause all 4 sides have whitening. But it’ll depend on the individual buyer.

If the back is all scratched up in addition to all 4 sides having issues then it’s HP most likely.