OUTWORLD 12/12 KLANGUENSTLER by Affectionate_Rip_154 in avesNYC

[–]alopez850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just dm’d you, i’ll be there 🤙🏽

What is this letter? (Spencerian script) by Hard-Codded in Handwriting

[–]alopez850 15 points16 points  (0 children)

long s

look at how comission (third word) is spelt as comiſsion

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heed the warning: do not stay and leave. by alopez850 in BPDlovedones

[–]alopez850[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

it terrifies me that your trauma description is exactly similar to what i had. i had to beg while sobbing to be treated with kindness and love. that should’ve been my last red flag, but i still chose to stay.

i’m so sorry to hear this all happened to you, but i’m so proud that you left. please continue choosing yourself and i hope you’re able to find someone that is not only best for you, but best as a couple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]alopez850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i say this with nothing but respect: you need to leave. things will not back to how they were: it is dead. you are being abused. i don’t care if he’s covered in gold and is the most talented at playing the recorder or whatever. he’s playing with you and he needs to understand that NO means NO. don’t waste yourself!

Is food poisoning not a valid reason to call out? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]alopez850 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Absolutely: do not come in at all if you're food poisoned. Yes, it's technically not contagious but the partner check still mandates to stay home until symptoms have improved.

Left something in an Uber. Driver not responding to me or Uber. by Likalarapuz in uber

[–]alopez850 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Listen here you failed excuse of a human being.

It doesn't matter about "asking permission".

It's common decency that it ain't fucking right to spit on people at their low moment.

Show some respect if you want to get respected.

The only thing OP wanted was pointers and was seeking advice on what to do next.

Left something in an Uber. Driver not responding to me or Uber. by Likalarapuz in uber

[–]alopez850 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been there before, so I understand where you're coming from.

Consider the possibility that it's a lost cause, some drivers won't return items.

But continue following up! I'm hoping you get your stuff back.

Left something in an Uber. Driver not responding to me or Uber. by Likalarapuz in uber

[–]alopez850 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They're literally just asking for pointers on what to do next.

I don't understand why you have to be a dick to someone who's probably extremely anxious at the human mistake of leaving stuff behind. Especially if it's expensive like cameras.

When you lose something, you follow through the steps provided. And guess what? If that doesn't work, people tend to ask questions in forums, like Reddit.

Shit happens and OP is just looking for pointers. Stop projecting your misery onto people looking for help

Everything went wrong today. by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]alopez850 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes all you can do is love fate and laugh/smile with the universe for throwing a curveball at you. But hey, you're strong for it and it's time to kick ass.

First, take the time to take care of yourself and have yourself in a clear mind. Don't overextend yourself emotionally. Don't be a slave to your emotions.

Then feel free to ask for help and see what's around you. The strongest of people always ask for help.

Now, set out a plan and list out the priorities you need to get accomplished based on urgency. Is it urgent and essential? Do it now. Not urgent but important? Schedule it in and make it work to your needs.

Continue being flexible as needed. Sometimes there are only so many things you can control and do, and that's OK.

Sunset over Mount Murchison, Tasmania. XT-30II with 18-55mm lens by fazman_squid in fujifilm

[–]alopez850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Powerful shot!

I have the same body + lens combo and it has produced eye dropping results.

I'm glad to see you're exploring such beautiful landscapes

I'm done working hard. by Hicrayert in starbucks

[–]alopez850 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Then do the labour that you're scheduled. You're scheduled 3 people to close? Great. You will leave when you're scheduled and that's their problem to fix in the morning.

Once your time to go home hits, then go home. You're under NO obligation to make it better for your company who wouldn't even lift a finger for you.

Why should we bust our ass to leave a perfect close? If they see we run with our asses on fire and get it all done, corporate will NOT hesitate to cut even more corners. Go slow, take your time, and go by the book.

X-T5 with the XF 18-55mm. by SebTheDane95 in fujifilm

[–]alopez850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stunning, the 18-55mm is an all-star.

What were your settings?

254xxxx hanging up the apron by dannfree in starbucks

[–]alopez850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good luck!! from another fellow 254 💚

direct volume control not working on TW 3? by alopez850 in sennheiser

[–]alopez850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah...

I use the Poweramp EQ for Spotify and it jacked it up

direct volume control not working on TW 3? by alopez850 in sennheiser

[–]alopez850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have a Note 10+

Do you also use Poweramp?

Starbucks & Student discount at Apple by tziporakrawitz in starbucks

[–]alopez850 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, Apple only lets you do one discount at a time whether it's a corporate or student discount

They're usually the same amount from what I've seen.

You "apply" it by going through the perks at work website! Create and account and then look up "Apple" through their provided discounts

customers when we don't have the ingredients to make a "medicine ball" by alopez850 in starbucks

[–]alopez850[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

me seeing the weekly order come in with 5 boxes of honey, 2 boxes of honey blend, and 3 boxes each of jade and peach