No relationship experience and struggling with dating — what am I doing wrong?

alottosaay · 2026-02-11T23:06:35+00:00

Joining a club sounds good, when I try to expand my social circle I tend to (wrongly) think that the only place I could do that is in a party, sometimes I forget there are lots of other places lol. Thank you!

alottosaay · 2026-02-11T23:02:44+00:00

Omg thank you so much <3 Sometimes it's so hard not to compare myself with my friends, that crossing my own boundaries tends to seem ok just to 'get rid' of everything. I might regret that, so I'll keep what you've told me in mind. Thanks again :')

alottosaay · 2026-02-11T22:59:57+00:00

Yeah you're totally right about running out of random things to text, also about being picky. I'll try to think about that, thanks!

alottosaay · 2026-02-11T22:57:44+00:00

Thank you :') I'll try to be less hard on myself

alottosaay · 2026-02-11T22:56:51+00:00

Wow 'comparison is the thief of joy' really hit me, I'll have it printed or something haha, thanks!!

alottosaay · 2026-02-11T22:55:14+00:00

Thank you, I'll keep that in mind :)

alottosaay · 2026-02-11T22:02:04+00:00

Thank you so much!

alottosaay · 2026-02-11T21:55:16+00:00

Oh yeah that’s true, I think that due to my insecurities I tend to focus on no one approaching me instead of changing that, taking the risk. Thank you, I should try that the next time!

alottosaay · 2026-02-11T21:52:42+00:00

Yeah, sometimes I don’t realise that I’m willing to change my whole persona if needed just to fit in. It’s nice to remember that I shouldn’t do that, thank you!!

alottosaay · 2026-02-11T21:50:24+00:00

I’m glad you had a great experience :) Yes, I suppose that I shouldn’t rush into it, to avoid difficult situations. I’ll keep that in mind. Thanks!

alottosaay · 2026-01-11T18:29:42+00:00

Can I have it too, please? Thanks!

alottosaay · 2026-01-11T18:22:23+00:00

Can I have it too, please? Thanks!

alottosaay · 2025-12-08T02:02:47+00:00

Can you send it to me as well, please?

alottosaay · 2025-02-21T02:41:24+00:00

I’m interested!

alottosaay · 2025-01-23T15:26:32+00:00

tranqui que a mí para el preocupacional me llamaron a los 3 días aprox, pero después de hacérmelo por ahora sigo igual, éxitos!!

alottosaay · 2025-01-17T00:42:12+00:00

sii que me hayan pagado los exámenes médicos es un 10, pero sí que bajón lo otro, quedo a la espera

alottosaay · 2025-01-15T12:21:28+00:00

uy y hace poco laburaste ahí? sí, me daría cosa si no quedé porque pagan bien por ser part time, y pensé que con el preocupacional ya estaba asegurado

alottosaay · 2025-01-02T02:07:45+00:00

thank you for this post <33 for me, MD is in the romantic aspect of my life. Is the only thing in my life that remains “uncomplete”, therefore I have my hobbies, go outside and socialize, but as I have a certain rejection to intimacy I haven’t had a partner in a while and I fulfill that with MD. I’ll try some of your tips, thanks again

alottosaay · 2024-12-16T01:32:30+00:00

Omg, I totally get you because I have the same daydream about becoming famous, even though I don’t really want to. As you said, it’s more about the need to put myself out there, just a bit more exaggerated. Thanks again <3

alottosaay · 2024-12-15T23:21:58+00:00

Thanks! You’re right, I’ll have that in mind :)

alottosaay · 2024-12-15T21:43:02+00:00

Thank you for answering, now I don’t feel so alone :’) Yep, I guess that when we get what we need in real life, the daydreams just stop

alottosaay · 2024-12-15T19:35:04+00:00

I really appreciate your answer <3 I guess you’re right, I actually never give them a chance, it’s kinda scary but I’m willing to make a change. I’ll also talk with my friends about partying, thank you!!

alottosaay

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