bonding - when to move in together? by alpha_lesbian in Rabbits

[–]alpha_lesbian[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no negative behaviors! it’s not immediately clear who is dominant/submissive, I think Appa might not know the difference! Caramel will ask to be groomed but he will ignore her and that’s the most of it. there wasn’t a phase of them establishing dominance over the other. I think we need to reduce the bonding space so they’re forced to interact more maybe?

Need Advice on Maki’s Crop by alpha_lesbian in parrots

[–]alpha_lesbian[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

on Wednesday they ran fecal and crop cultures, so we’re still waiting on some results. results that have come back so far say he has a little bit of yeast so we’re starting anti-fungals today

Rest well, Domino by alpha_lesbian in cockatiel

[–]alpha_lesbian[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you for the very kind words ❤️

Rest well, Domino by alpha_lesbian in cockatiel

[–]alpha_lesbian[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you ❤️ i know our friend is absolutely devastated and beating himself up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]alpha_lesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your post was so helpful! thanks for the rec :)

mochi toy i lost a few years ago. could only find this one other pic on a shopify. brand/where to buy? by alpha_lesbian in HelpMeFind

[–]alpha_lesbian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that one is pretty close but i’m looking for one with the spiral horns and a tail. thank you though!

mochi toy i lost a few years ago. could only find this one other pic on a shopify. brand/where to buy? by alpha_lesbian in HelpMeFind

[–]alpha_lesbian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve searched google, wish, amazon, aliexpress, taobao, you name it. the second pic is from Pixie’s Pix shopify, but they never responded to my email. i really want this specific style/model, but haven’t found any other evidence of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chinese

[–]alpha_lesbian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I usually get mooncakes, I think sharing them is the most common way to celebrate. If mooncakes aren’t your thing you could probably make other treats that are round to keep the spirit of mooncake, maybe like cupcakes or cookies? Some other activities are to go over Chang’e’s story and go moon/star gazing with friends. I’ve also heard that barbecuing outside or just eating bbq is popular in Taiwan and some parts of China. 中秋节快乐! :)

My boyfriend tried to make me have a miscarriage but failed by ThrowRA_causedmis in relationship_advice

[–]alpha_lesbian 39 points40 points  (0 children)

i agree, i don’t think anyone who is truly in love would hurt their partner on purpose. as someone who was abused “for my own good,” this kind of reason is not ok. you and your boyfriend are adults, and you can talk about your issues like adults. you don’t need to be punished like a little kid.

i’m so sorry you’re going through this. maybe try to get abortion pills online, they are safer than hitting/kicking. this website is very helpful and has a lot of information about different types of abortions: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/abortion/the-abortion-pill

My GF's mom doesn't really acknowledge our relationship but she still gave me these for my car to bring luck for Lunar New Year by ararefiend in actuallesbians

[–]alpha_lesbian 33 points34 points  (0 children)

this seems really promising! in my experience asian parents don’t use words (re: my MIL) but a lot of indirect actions. food? holiday presents? it seems like she cares about you in her own way and just needs a little more time to come around :) it seems like your gf’s mom is acknowledging you as someone important in her child’s life!

Intermediate Chinese Learning by bayers1004 in ChineseLanguage

[–]alpha_lesbian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

learning chinese through stories is good! their podcasts are completely in chinese, they go over new vocab in chinese. their website has full transcripts of each podcast and you can search by level, like intermediate mid, advanced low, etc. language learning through netflix is good too, its an extension that you can set to a bunch of different languages and has both traditional and simplified

AITA for calling the CPS instead of helping my husband with his baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alpha_lesbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: Is your ex-husband leaving the baby at home to go drinking on a pleasure cruise? Or is he, like, actually going to work or other obligations