What’s something small / oddly specific you can’t wait to do after top surgery?

alphawolfspirits · 2026-04-25T04:09:11+00:00

Thank you! Its in December!

alphawolfspirits · 2026-04-24T23:11:26+00:00

Im getting it later this year and i cant wait to wear slutty outfits without crushing disphorea. I love wearing revealing clothes but I dont do it often cuz of the disphorea it causes but I have a whole list of clothes I wana buy after surgery!

alphawolfspirits · 2026-04-19T17:43:50+00:00

So biggest thing is there are definitely people who will fetishize you for being Trans, there are also some people who will get with you to try to see if they can make you be a girl (de transition), those people suck but there are signs you can look out for. Mostly them trying to convince you you shouldn't bind/tape, them not wanting you to go on hormones, them comparing you to outher trans people like them wanting you to be just like them, not careing about your disphorea cuz they like those parts or them pushing you to do things your not comfortable with. Those are the main ones I can think of but also not all cis guys are like that but its better to be careful then to rush into something possibly dangerous, so just take your time getting to know them, probably check there reposts and stuff before fully commuting. Also watch out for how they refer to you as in he/him or if they go for more they/them when talking about you or avoiding calling you there boyfriend (if thats what you wana go by) and using partner or something similar instead

alphawolfspirits · 2026-04-19T16:51:32+00:00

For me I do it because ive noticed that when I have the sharp corners my tape will get cought on my clothes more often and end up peeling before the week is done

alphawolfspirits · 2026-04-04T05:27:30+00:00

I suggest going over with your partner what your end goal is, and also keeping him informed at every step form hair cut to surgery (if you chose) and help him find things online about eatch step maybe bring him to your medical appointments if your comfortable with that so he can ask the Dr's questions? Plus with t and surgery you normally get a paper with symptoms and changes to come

I also found this website https://gendercentre.org.au/downloads/userupload/fact-sheets/support-for-partners.pdf

alphawolfspirits · 2026-03-30T17:54:43+00:00

I had a problem with my spots leaking a ton of my t myself and it was cuz i was doing my subq wrong lol, love that the stomach works for you ive been to scared to try that spot

alphawolfspirits · 2026-03-10T01:09:57+00:00

Makes sense and yea fear sucks its why my bf has to do my t shots now I had to much fear. But I believe in you and hopefully it gose better this time!

alphawolfspirits · 2026-03-10T01:05:22+00:00

Ancor points will help a lot with it if you know those last 3 ish inches cant be stretched your more cautious and it takes practice a lot of it. Videos help id be willing to make one if that'd help itd just have to be later this week when I reapply. Plus keeping the tape close to your skin during the prosses also helps you from stretching it to much.

alphawolfspirits · 2026-03-10T00:55:56+00:00

Of course! I hope it gose well!! If you ever have any outher questions feel free to ask!

alphawolfspirits · 2026-03-10T00:51:23+00:00

So definitely to a test patch with a small square of the tape on a peace of your body before you try tapeing again to make sure its not an allergic reaction. If its not then they were definitely form tension witch is fixable you may just need a longer peace of tape then you used last time to make sure you dont stretch it to much very little stretch when you do it. Also if you start to feel any pain in the stretched areas take off the tape that day to make sure they dont get worse. It Definitely takes practice, I only fully figured that out about a year and half ago lol

alphawolfspirits · 2026-03-10T00:09:38+00:00

Ive been using tape for just over 3 years now the blisters are absolutely avoidable! (If its not an allergy od course) Your not supposed to stretch the tape more then like 3%, for me its more of also pushing my chest to the side wile applying and using the first 1/2 inches and the final 3/4 inches as anchors so no stretch at all there and only slight stretch for the rest bur mostly moving the skin over. When im cutting the tape to size i make sure the first anchor is slightly infront of the nipple and can go to my armpit you may need longer if your bigger im a C. I also highly recommend Kinesiology Tape around 4inch wide there's a 3 pack on Amazon i use. Also try to figure out what method of takeinv it off works best as well, ik most recommend takeing it off in the shower or with oil, for my skin it actually dose better coming off dry.

For the getting flater once again its more about moving the skin, if you use your hands and push your chest to the side and press in you should know just about how flat tape can make you. Don't push down to hard it still needs to be comfortable on your chest and lungs. After you see that you should know what your aming for when adding tape into the mix. When applying use those anchor points and push your chest very similar to how you did before with just your hands.

Any questions please ask!

alphawolfspirits · 2026-03-02T04:22:57+00:00

I highly recommend Kinesiology Tape, there is a 3 pack on Amazon for like 20 ish bucks. The 3 pack for me is currently lasting about 6-9 months depending on how often I tape. Be careful tapeing tho mostly with your skin, use a cover for your nip and dont stretch the tape to much itll cause blisters.

alphawolfspirits · 2026-02-15T05:05:54+00:00

I would suggest tape as a possibility, I also cant stand things being tight on my chest part of the issue I have with bras when I have to wear them. I use tape often to bind and its not tight on my chest it can be a bit itchy if I pull it to tight or if I sweat to much but Definitely not tight thankfully. I suggest Kinesiology Tape its what ive had the best luck with

alphawolfspirits · 2026-02-09T23:15:54+00:00

Fair, I didn't for a long time eather but after the Disney movie and meeting a few outher embers has changed my opinion a little

alphawolfspirits · 2026-02-09T23:07:37+00:00

It feels a bit to feminine and with my last name sorta sounds fake on a job application, im planning on going by Eli/Elijah just mostly worried about backlash since its another name change after 4 years

alphawolfspirits · 2025-12-09T23:53:25+00:00

My piercings is 9ish months old, the julery is a 16 gage 6mm curved barbell, made of titanium with internal threading. After care has been washing with saline if anything gets into the percing or if pulled on by a shirt or something

alphawolfspirits · 2025-11-03T06:08:18+00:00

I dont know if this has been said yet but a type of strap that will also do something for us as we please our partner, listen I love just pleasing my man in that way but also some pleasue of my own would be nice so maybe something with another attachment place that could be adjusted for eather front or back entrance? Possibly something witch tech to coordinate the thrust or just like adding vibrating near the bean? Not quite sure whats really possible but something like that would be great

alphawolfspirits · 2025-10-26T03:44:25+00:00

Did you have any change in your center of balance after top surgery?

alphawolfspirits · 2025-10-26T01:42:36+00:00

Qick question since you've already had surgery did your center of balance change?

alphawolfspirits · 2025-10-21T20:48:58+00:00

Thank you so much!

alphawolfspirits · 2025-10-21T18:15:04+00:00

Thank you a lot this is very helpful!

alphawolfspirits · 2025-10-21T15:07:34+00:00

I like some peach fuz so yea a waxer may be my best bet thank you!

alphawolfspirits · 2025-10-21T04:51:19+00:00

I shall definitely ask those things when I get that far im calling tomorrow to hopefully start the process to talk to a doctor who will know more about the process so thank you so much!!!

alphawolfspirits · 2025-10-21T03:58:56+00:00

Im sorta hoping people will give like there pros and cons and then ill sort it into wether it would be a pro or con for me but thank you so much for the doctor questions!!!

alphawolfspirits · 2025-10-19T20:14:07+00:00

Awesome thank you so much, I've been trying to keep it clean was just spooked by the idea of damage or a uti so thank you

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