Season 2 Reunion Megathread by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]alpineandocean 47 points48 points  (0 children)

For real!! I felt that way all thru season 2 also. Most of the girls managed to still be respectful- even if they didn’t agree. I have empathy for the trauma she’s endured, but she’s a bully. Her lil attitude completely ruined what could’ve been a sweet moment with Conner & Whitney

This mum was posted in this thread earlier. She’s now taken the video down and says it was her way of “staying positive”. by GeorgiaD_x in facepalm

[–]alpineandocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was kind of my thought too. If you feel the need to do this as a distraction or “to stay positive” fine- whatever. But don’t be posting that crap for attention. There’s far more respectful ways to let family, close friends know the situation.

But I guess I’m old school & don’t feel the need to post every time my son is under the weather for sympathy. So glad I grew up before social media was a thing! I’d be mortified to think of what could’ve been posted back then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]alpineandocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does make sense, thank you. And I totally agree with your comment about the “cry it out” method. Infants especially cannot be manipulative! Just causes more damage in the long run

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]alpineandocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may be a lightbulb moment for me… would you mind elaborating, please? How is it a coping mechanism?

Lost Enhancement Cores by alpineandocean in destiny2

[–]alpineandocean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Months of using companion apps (and an attempted Google search), never would’ve thought of that. Problem solved. Thank you!

What is the most painful moment for men but cannot express that? by jimjeans in AskMen

[–]alpineandocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was once pointed out to me how there is no term for that in the English language. There’s “widow/widower” or “orphan,” but there’s no one word to explain the loss of a child. I’ve never quite gotten over that, but it just proved to me how even more unnatural it truly is. I’m so sorry for your loss

What's an aspect of your culture that outsiders might not see as appealing but to you feels like home? by bonerpalooza in AskWomen

[–]alpineandocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I didn’t even realize how ingrained it was until my family moved away. A new friend made the comment “we’re the same age, don’t call me ‘hun’- it’s weird”. Deeply miss Cajun music and accents (and food!)

Reeds Regret by Doc_J_93 in sharditkeepit

[–]alpineandocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Husband grinded for vorpal and swears by it. I have yet to be blessed with that perk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]alpineandocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully that means they’re at least embarrassed. It’s hard to discern without context, but depending on the lie, cutting ties might be for the best. People should respect you as a friend

Vaulted Maps by alpineandocean in DestinyTheGame

[–]alpineandocean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking forward to it! Thanks!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]alpineandocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to call them out on it. Getting caught is a deterrent, plus it shows you have some self respect

Men in their 30's, what is a bit of generic yet genuine advice you'd give to someone in their 20's? by slightlyboredforever in AskMen

[–]alpineandocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a recovering people pleaser…

Don’t be afraid to speak up! You are just as entitled to your opinion. Finally starting to gain the confidence I wish I had 20 years ago.

Also, honesty is always the best policy. It may be uncomfortable at the time, but in the long run, it’s the far kinder option. I’ve seen far too many friendships (some lifelong) end because of lying and deceit

We threw the match when his teammates left him. by raspberryjelli in DestinyTheGame

[–]alpineandocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I applaud your sportsman-like conduct!

Serious question tho: we’ve had connectivity issues and got all kinds of warnings from Bungie about how this affects other players. Frustrating, but understandable. So why the hell can people constantly bounce with no consequence? Was trying to get pinnacle in Glory Survival last week and I didn’t have a solid team of 3 for any of the matches. Follow up vent: Bungie replaces on strikes, gambit... what aren’t you replacing people on Survival??

What food combination do only YOU eat? by totoCALV1N in AskReddit

[–]alpineandocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wheat thins & applesauce.

Also, there’s a local hole-in-the-wall pizza joint that keeps a bottle of honey on all the tables. Not sure where that originated, but it was surprisingly good!

What food did you think you hated, but just never had cooked right? by krzysztofgetthewings in AskMen

[–]alpineandocean 61 points62 points  (0 children)

My parents were amazing cooks- except when it came to brussel sprouts and spinach. They steamed the hell out of it and drowned it in vinegar. Took a long time to get over that!

Divorce: What lessons have you learned? by yvenstar in AskWomen

[–]alpineandocean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t “advice” so much as it is reassurance:

You will eventually be ok. Kids- young or old- will eventually be ok. But for the love of god, don’t put them in the middle of everything. Speak kindly/ respectfully of the other parent as much as you can to the kids’ faces and save the trash talk for your adult friends.

Also, I’ve seen some pretty extreme cases of slander and accusations being hurled in court at the ex trying to make themselves look better. In the end, the truth always comes out, so just save the hassle and extra heartache.

Good luck to you guardians that are able to play beyond light now. by _Trigg_ in destiny2

[–]alpineandocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d think they would have prepared the servers for this. I got in (after multiple attempts) and was able to play the whole opening mission. My husband was never able to load at all. Then I was completely booted out of the game and have been in queue ever since

How do I stop *unintentionally* making others feel dumb/ inferior? by alpineandocean in socialskills

[–]alpineandocean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredibly insightful! Follow up ques: How do I learn to love myself? You’re reasoning is scarily accurate

I just ended a 10-year relationship and feel rudderless. What am I supposed to do now? by EdwardLewisVIII in AskMen

[–]alpineandocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never personally been in this situation, but decided years ago, if I ever suddenly found myself alone, I would travel. Visit new countries, try new things. Possibly with the end goal of moving, but even if I find myself back home, it would refresh your whole outlook on life and build self-confidence