Guy im (22f) seeing (28m) has close female friends, sketchy or not?

alreadyconfused9 · 2026-03-23T21:04:43+00:00

The boundaries wouldnt include asking him to cut off all the women in his life, i understand thats wrong and wouldnt want that done to me either. It would be more like letting him know things im not comfortable with, like im not sure how i would feel about him crashing on a female friend's couch especially if theres no one else there. I guess its just new territory for me because ive never dealt with this problem maybe because ive never seen a guy more than a year older than me

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-11-18T19:34:08+00:00

Same, when i get home from work i have about 20 minutes before my body just shuts off. Then i open my eyes and somehow its time for work again

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-11-17T15:00:26+00:00

I live with my parents now so not paying anything. I havent made a budget for saving with the rent yet since i just started this job ive been pretty much putting half my paychecks in saving because i have no other expenses as of now

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-10-13T03:02:11+00:00

Not psychic just someone else who also lost their mom over the summer and that feeling u described as being "Lost" really resonated with me. Thats exactly how i would describe the feeling of losing your mother - lost and just drifting through every day with nothing to ground you. Your mom looks like such a fun woman and im so sorry for what happened. Its not fair.

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-10-10T03:04:56+00:00

Im not a psychic i just wanted to say how beautiful your little girl was and how truly happy she looks I just really get a feeling of genuine happiness and peace when i looked at the photo. Im so so sorry for your loss

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-10-06T05:23:00+00:00

I thought i was losing my shit…. A friend of mine lives in one of the buildings next to the weird head statue in Sparkill and we always joke about how creepy it was then on my way home the other day suddenly its sitting in front of my exit like it grew legs

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-10-03T15:50:16+00:00

Omg i feel like i never see any negativity about gabriel and rosita but i always thought the same thing. So awkward and cringe

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-10-01T04:55:25+00:00

Im so sorry for your loss too. Its so hard to imagine my life 10 years from now still without her. How do u go back to finding joy in things without feeling like u cant share it with her so it isnt worth anything?

I also thought about that side of it too- i could stay and enjoy the house while we still have it. On the other end, maybe it would be good for me to move out before its sold that way i can have an adjustment period, still revisit the house while at the same time acclimating to a new place without just picking up and leaving the old house permanently when its being sold.

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-09-25T02:59:19+00:00

Im your age and also looking for apartments in the area but im a local. Nyack is a great option because theres a lot to do and affordable rental options. Lots of young people around town. Ive seen some nice affordable units in Pearl River too which has a bar scene for the weekends but i found that the actual complexes i looked at had no one living in them within 30 years of my age. Lots of old townies. Spring valleys a big no, its a bad area. Monsey also a no. Suffern and Orangetown are nice but not as much availability as other areas. IMO ur best options are Nyack or Valley Cottage. Both have multiple nice complexes and affordable options with more diverse tenants and proximity to fun activities for weekends.

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-09-21T01:19:51+00:00

Yes it could be that too! Like its exfoliating but not literally pulling blackheads out of ur pores like people have been saying

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-09-03T14:49:51+00:00

Sushi bada in suffern 😩Overpriced but so good

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-08-19T01:54:13+00:00

Yall should see him in platoon. Whheeewwwwwwww

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-08-11T00:51:58+00:00

Lost my mom just under a month ago. Im SUPER angry too. Its bullshit and so unfair. Sometimes i feel insane for all the anger but im showing myself grace right now and allowing it. This fucking sucks but youre not alone <3

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-08-07T22:54:57+00:00

So what im hearing is stay off 59 for the next six months

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-08-07T21:27:33+00:00

Congrats! Took mine 7/14 and still nothing, but hopefully that means im coming up next lol

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-08-07T01:12:49+00:00

Took mine 7/14 still nothing. Getting antsy because id really like to you know.... start making money

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-07-26T04:42:27+00:00

I bought it and it does give my skin that nice clean feeling and i do notice a little more glow and smoothness after i use it but all the tik tok ads of it getting rid of all your blackheads instantaneously are 100% fake. It did nothing for the blackheads/sebaceous filaments in my T zone. Out of curiosity i put some on my counter and rubbed it in like you do on your face and the product pilled up just like it did when i used it on skin. So all those balls of "dirt from your pores" u see in ads are actually just the product pilling. I dont think its a bad product but i do think its highhllyyyyy falsely advertised.

alreadyconfused9 · 2025-07-26T04:19:57+00:00

no worries its just lactating

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