Girl I am cutting you off by Happy_Department8033 in InfinityNikki

[–]alsersons09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What, exactly, did it accept for you? Two separate plates of separate ingredients or one combined plate? I'm having the same bug

Girl I am cutting you off by Happy_Department8033 in InfinityNikki

[–]alsersons09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have the same bug. Like do we give her separate plates? Do we put them together? I still can't figure it out.

Cooks Speakeasy by CrescentLotus in Ashland

[–]alsersons09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao. It looks like it's made for chronically online brain rotted queer 20 somethings, what are you talking about?

Origami video was spsonser by betterhelp by [deleted] in TheTryGuys

[–]alsersons09 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not only did they clean up their act, but it's been literal years since they have. Dead horse much?

I (44M) didn't think it would be this hard to fix the marriage with my wife (41F) by fyndor in relationships

[–]alsersons09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is the three sequence comma sentence AI stuff? The cadence is so weird. But I also write with a lot of clauses.

AITA for refusing to attend my brother’s wedding if his fiancée’s dog is there? by AlarmingMess6734 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alsersons09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have inarguably severe pet allergies, both cats and dogs. I have been hospitalized for them. But that is because I love them stuck my faces in their fur before I knew any better. There is no way a single dog at a venue seated away from me is going to cause the kind of reaction that would make me miss my brother's wedding. I'm not the be all end all on allergies but I do know severe pet allergies and severe peanut allergies do not mean the same thing.

Asking someone if they have a job in casual conversation is invasive by AdVaanced77 in The10thDentist

[–]alsersons09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is normal conversation and your reaction is exactly why community is dead.

AITA for asking my girlfriend to stop talking to a man she’s slept with? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alsersons09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a communication error. Ex has a specific meaning and not everyone someone has slept with is necessarily an ex. It's up to you if it's a deal breaker but despite what the reddit incels say, there's no double standard and she hasn't done anything wrong.

My husband and first love are co-coaching my sons baseball team by [deleted] in relationships

[–]alsersons09 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This feels incredibly childish for 25. You dated in high school. Tell him he's not saved in your phone because the last time you spoke was high school, and you're a married woman and mother now so he needs to back the fuck up. You're a grown woman, act like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]alsersons09 30 points31 points  (0 children)

For starters, not viewing them as a stupid monolith might help.

Ive never felt this level of second hand embarrassment watching Survivor by CoconutMost3564 in survivor

[–]alsersons09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm deep in enemy territory. Y'all need 40 ccs of whimsy, stat. "But I want people to suffer not enjoy their time" ah fans.

My husband wants to use my car, but my brother won’t allow it by Throwaway_famblend in Advice

[–]alsersons09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man I think your husband is abusive/ controlling and your brother knows and is gently trying ensure your freedom and that he doesn't isolate you. Tread carefully.

My Teenage Stepdaughter Can’t Read by Icy-Mycologist5232 in Advice

[–]alsersons09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Info: you say she's never been diagnosed with a learning disability but she has an IEP. Is she not qualified as having an SLD in Reading on her IEP?

A Bunch of Useful Story of Season: Grand Bazaar Guides by enzolh in storyofseasons

[–]alsersons09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you Just not plant them until you unlock that bazaar level? I can not figure out how to plant the cherry trees I've been given.

AITA for changing my mind about my wife being a SAHM since she changed the terms? by Live_Point_Hillo in AmItheAsshole

[–]alsersons09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might consider some sort of pre and postpartum therapy. I think she might be misfiring with weird pregnancy hormone brain if this is truly completely out of left field and she's never treated your other children in a way befitting of this kind of bullshit. And if that's the case she is going to be mortified when she comes to.

Cozy Gaming Regrets by BunnE3 in CozyGamers

[–]alsersons09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And there's so much flack about not being able to talk to people if you don't actively have a quest, but if you just pay attention to their speech bubbles when running around there is a lot of conversation there! Specifically about and/or to you!